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writes:Hi, i've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and i am happy and so is she. I recently got a job that involves working with the opposite sex which she isn't bothered about. But recently me and this girl who i work with have been flirting a bit, and as much as i want to stop thinking about her, i can't. I have never cheated on my girlfriend and never will so it's not that i'm worried about that, it's just the fact i can't stop thinking about her but i want to. It's really weird but it's not affecting my relationship. What can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): "have been flirting a bit"
Well, you are thinking about it, and she and you both are advertising your receptiveness to it by flirting.
SO, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO?
That is the question. Are you going to be a cheat? Or not?
If you don't want to stay with the gf then break up, keep it clean.
venusfurs said below "i know that women LOVE a commited man"
Well, yeah I think so as well, when I put no my wedding ring it seemed like all too many attractive women (married, divorced, separated, and single) at work couldn't talk to me enough, whereas before I was just a passing thought. I never cheated, but there seem to be no shortage of women who would like to see if they could get a married or committed man to cheat on their partner.
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reader, venusfurs  +, writes (29 December 2010):
You should leave the girl at work alone. its nothing but trouble honey. being a women, i know that women LOVE a commited man. its a challenge, its fun. Your girlfriend seems to be very secure being that she is not bothered with you working with other women, dont lose her trust, it is so hard to get back. beleive me, my husband cheated on me with a women from work, and i dont beleive a word that comes out of his mouth. Dont do it hun, its not worth it.
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