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writes:i been with my boyfriend for over a year and we both in love as well as we both live together. the problem is i moved with my mother for certain time but i have been chatting on yahoo messenger everyday with different guys when im bored, and i do feel bad cuz i feel like im cheating on him but is not like i see them.so does chatting on yahoo messenger classfied as cheating or not. plz help me cuz i dont want to be a cheater and i love my boyfriend more than anything. Reply to this Question
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reader, Bass6868  +, writes (29 December 2010):
If your boyreind thinks it is cheating.... ....It is cheating.If you tell him what you are doing and he is ok... ...It is not cheating.It's all about the comfort level. If your boyfriend walked over your shoulder would he be upset over what he read?How would you feel if your bf was doing the same?it all depends..
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 It depends on what you're chatting about. If you're having cyber sex with people, then I would classify that as close to cheating. If you're just chatting about random stuff, nope. You are allowed to talk to people other than your BF right? If not, then you've got some major control issues going on.
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