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writes:Hey,So I'm 20 years old, been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and I honestly do love him, he's literally my best friend. We broke you back in February cause I found out he used to think of other girls while we were having sex. I know it seems so immature to break up over something like that but it really shattered my self esteem. Anyway we got back together, and we were moving past it, but I went to my Works Christmas party and I ended up kissing my boss, who is 28 and a really good friend of mine. Now we are kind of doing a whole friends with benefits thing. Like Sex with my boyfriend is really good, I have no doubt that Im still in love with him, but I don't feel guilty at all cheating on him? What is wrong with me seriously?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 December 2010):
This is a sign that, in fact, you're not as in love with your boyfriend as you claim to be, nor do you have that much respect for him. You can't be, otherwise you wouldn't have cheated.
The time has come for you to move on, before you're found out as a cheat. Your boyfriend needs someone who can commit to him, and you're not at that stage.
As for the two other guys, they're both using you and having a great time with it. I'd suggest that you just continue to have your fun, and one day when you're ready to settle, you will.
Just don't sit there any longer imagining that you do really love your boyfriend. You don't love him or respect him, and you need to let him go.
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