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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:So I need advice, I have been married for 7 years now, and my husband has been looking at personals for about 6 years. not only does he look but he replies and his answers are very sexual. He has also registered at single's websites in the past but has not done that in about 4 years. Right now all he does his craigslist singles and replies to them. I have caught him several times and he doesnt seem like its cheating but to me it is. Would you stay in this situation or leave. I need advice, obviously can't talk to many friends about this situation.
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reader, redbutterfly +, writes (30 December 2010):
Well did you try everything? Did you try to romance him show him differnetn things because if you marry by church you need to conserve your marriage. whether it be by law or church u still need to try to conserve it. If you have tried everything then yes leave him but if not then try first and if it doesn't work within a few months then leave because sometimes all a relationship needs is some spice and sugar to get the relationship going again. What i'm saying is be sexy with him cuz it' seems to me that if he is sending sexual message it is that he craves things and you need to crawl out of that comfort zone and try it you may like it. but make sure ur okay with it but let me tell you one thing if you love him and if you want it to work and if you want to conserve your marriage you need to try. try doing things he likes and things he wants fill some of his fantasies if you have to just try to conserve ur marriage frist before you do anything drastic don't let things just blow on by cuz they just get worse
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reader, xanthic +, writes (30 December 2010):
 He's actively looking on singles' sites, which means he's actively looking to cheat and probably already is. Don't let him explain it away, there's no excuse for it. You say 'all he does now is Craigslist singles'.. how is that any better? The bottom line is that he's behaving as if he's single, when he's not.
Please, leave him. He doesn't respect you at all if he's really done this for 6 years. You have no idea of knowing how long it'll continue if you stay, and it's more than likely it -will- continue.
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