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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How to get over my Casanova of a fiance', or stop him in his tracks!? Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - How to get over your "fiance'" of almost 5 years? I have not ended the relationship Totally; not nearly set in stone. I have just showed anger. I believe I probably SHOULD end it... Yet!, I am weary to end the relationship because I feel i...

I want to divorce him but I feel guilty for not trying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband since early 2008 and we have a 2 year old son and when i was pregnant i set up a fake profile of this 'hot' chick to test him. It was sneaky but all he had to do was say 'thanks but no thanks, my partner is pregnant' etc, ...

What to do when you are in love with two people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - So I had an affair with my life long best friend. The two of us have been close since we were kids and grew up next door to each other. He has been the person that I have gone to for everything and I have been the same for him. I am also married to ...

This whole situation is messing with my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I met this girl at a big bon fire about a year and a half back. we started dating less then a week after we met. we dated for 5 months, she got drunk, cheated and we broke up. almost no contact for a couple of months. we started talking again an...

Difficult relationship with plenty of love and lack of trust!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend some time now and 99.9 of the time we are perfect. Were both young but very much in love. I'd do anything for him and he'd do the same for me but the crowd he hangs around with are not very reliable. A few of them have ...

Is our relationship doomed to fail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hello all. Im 21 and after a year and a half of a long distance relationship I ended it with my boyfriend (whose 24). Why? His friend spilt out everything to me, He told me how my boyfriend has repetitively cheated on me whilst we're apart. So I ...

I slept with my bestfriends boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - i blacked out and ended up sleeping with my good friends boyfriend, at the same time his best friend and i were seeing each other, i screwed up, now what should i do? ...

I keep finding things from his ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I snooped in my boyfriend flat, wrong I know but I do not trust him. I found an big folder, the biggest one in the pile. His ex g/f was polish and it had all these polish to English translation. Also There were love letters...One said this "You...

I cheated and now I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - So I am actually not the "victim" here, I am the one who did the cheating. I am 17 years old and have been dating this girl for the past month, and I really truly care about her. However, I was drunk and made out with another girl while on vacation ...

Incredibly complicated question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - [MOD NOTE : OP's OWN TITLE] Hi all i'm a 27 year old man, 6 weeks ago my girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up, no particular reason, we hadn't been getting on for a few months, weren't looking forward to seeing each other and weren't enjoying each...

Will I ever get over this feeling of bitterness towards my cheating ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Hi 4 years ago a woman started work where I work, she had recently become single , we dated for a few months loads of people said we were the perfect couple , I got carried away with it all and fell for her, eventually I heard she was seeing her ex ...

Should I be the sneaky boyfriend or trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I have a problem! Here is the story. I have known this girl for 6 months and became an official couple in early July and we're currently still together. When I met her she said she was seeing someone and was trying to get over this person, this ...

Does not sleeping at the same place while on vacation mean that he is sneaking out and about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My bf and I visit our parents once in a couple of months.. The thing is that every time we come down to visit our parents we go apart. Right now we came for 10 days and I am staying at my parents and he is staying at his parents. My bf says that ...

Do I trust her? She cheated on me 4 times in the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Hi guys, got a bit of a dilemma. Basically, me and my finacee have been together for about 2 years. We split up for a while about 3 months ago and the we reconciled. However, during this time she was involved with someone else. We have spoke ab...

What I want to know is why a man cheats but still wants to come back to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I have been going out with a guy for almost 2 years now and I had a suspision he was cheating (we don't live together) and it was pretty much confirmed yesterday. What I want to know is why a man cheats but still wants to come back to you? I mean if ...

This is just a complicated mess!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hello, I am a 24 year old male and my boyfriend (25) broke up with my for another guy (28) about 3 weeks ago. We are all bisexual. His new guy is in an "open" relationship with his girlfriend of 6 years and they also have a 3 year old baby tog...

My boyfriend has pictures of naked girls on his phone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Long Story: Please Help! so on thursday that just passed me and my boyfriend were hanging out and me being a girl went through my boyfriends phone and i went to his images and i saw something very surprising i found 2 pictures of a naked ...

I ain't playing games with her. I want answers from her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hey, I'm 27 and have a 20 year old gal who it appears that only I refer to 'girlfriend', I never actually heard her saying in front of other people that I'm her boyfriend and we've been dating for like 5 months, and she's Danish. We really clicked, ...

We fight we lie, we make agreements and break them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5222 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - is it normal for me to have an argument with my boyfreind and then tell him im cheating on him and he keeps cummin back to me . then we have an agreament that we wont go out without eachother cus i am scared hell get with other people but then i ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with my cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - So a few weeks ago, I went to visit my cousin who lives in another country. I haven't seen him in 2 years and we are really good friends even though we haven't had much facetime (we've lived in different countries our whole lives). During my visit, ...

Pregnant and the father is cheating and unsupportive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ok, I'm 22 and pregnant with twins. I also hav a 8 year old son. Right now my life is crazy,and I'm hoping not 2 lose my mind. My boyfriend at first was there 4 me. Now that I'm 4 months pregnant he jus doesn't care at all. He's cheating, doesn't ...

She claims she only lied the 3 times I found out about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Sorry for length :( Alright, SO I was with this girl for 1 and a half years. She was my first love and I really did care for her. About 8 months into it I had found out in the previous months that she had messaged a guy"J" on facebook and g...

I can't stand the sight of my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hi all, Me and my ex broke up in November last year, it was pretty nasty and involved him cheating and me walking in on it. Since then I have moved on and dated a couple of other guys etc. However this afternoon I was walking though a shoppin...

I cannot live like this any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I have ben involved with a married man for 6 years. We are both married. I have 2 children in high school. I have told my husband that our marriage is over once the kids leave home - we are civil. My lover's children are college graduates but still ...

Why do I enjoy cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been with my boyfriend (23) for 7 months and in the past 2 weeks I've cheated on him 3 times with 2 different people. Once was just kissing, 2nd time was kissing and "touching" and the 3rd time I had sex with someone else... I don't ...

I stupidly love a married man. How do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I met a married man in my local pub a couple of years ago. We struck up an instant, flirty friendship and that continued for ages. Just recently things have progressed and we have had sex. I don't ring or text him and we never arrange to meet, it is ...

Knowing that he won't let go of this female friend, hurts me a lot. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend when I was 19. At the time, still a virgin, and not wanting to deal again with losing a man or constantly fighting over having sex... I agreed to a stupid arrangement. He was able to have sex with other women, so long ...

How much space do I give her while she leaves her marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - I am in love with a married woman for the last 2 years. I love her and we had talked about a future together. She had almost left once but couldn’t decide to leave…she was too scared. She always said stuff like, I don’t know if I can keep you ...

Reflections of a Cheater: Hope Is On The Horizon

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Downtown is quiet today. Of course, there is the light roar of a car passing on the street behind me, but overlooking the river, feeling the warm wind around me, and hearing the slap of the water against it's banks, this may as well be a tranquil ...

A twisted relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Ok so i do not know what to do so i thought i would come here for some help. I am 18 years old and in a very confused state of mind. It is really a long story but i will shorten it and please any feedback to this is great because i need som...

Are there any signs to tell if someone is being honest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - i kicked my ex out last december cause i thought he was cheating. we started sleeping with each otha agian in january. i want him back and he is not sure bacause he afraid i will kick him out again. my question is he says im the only one he sleeping ...

He is married and I want him, not just as an affair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - TO START IT OFF .I MEET HIM AT MY OLD HIGH SCHOOL... I KNEW HE WAS MARRIED.HE IS MARRIED AND I HAVE A WE AND THE FATHER OF MY CHILD BEEN TOGETHER FOR 5 YR.AND HE HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 6 YEAR.ME AND (BILLY) MARRIED MAN HAS MADE AGREEMENT TO HAVE NO ...

She wants to date again, but she's a cheater! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Hey, so i have a problem, i started dating this girl in 9th grade, and we were great together, advancing well, but then three days later we broke up. She said that it just didnt feel right, that i felt like more of a friend to her. Then a couple ...

I feel as if he just used me... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) - Hi there i am so glad i found this site as i need advice regarding my stupid affair... we met 3 months ago after a row with my partner (we have two children) i was feeling unappreciated and not been shown much affection for a while, i just kinda ...

Husband's actions lead me to believe he is cheating on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I feel like my husband is cheating on me. He lies and when i question him he gets mad at me. He does not spend time with me or is interested in me. He calls me names when he dosent know where I am. He says he will be back in 2 hours but he wont be ...

Is he using both women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - A guy has a live in Girlfriend that he calls his"girl" but also has a long term lover on the outside that the live in Girlfriend may or may not know about. Would you say that this guy is committed or would you say he's playing games and using ...

How do I forgive her and trust her again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My lesbian girlfriend of three years cheated on me with my male friend who was staying with us. I will never talk to him again, but i'm still with her. I understand why she did it and i want to forgive her and trust her again but I'm really ...

Involved with a married man who cheats with others but I won't leave him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a married man who also sees other people. I knew this going into the relationship. I did not care, because I am obsessed. I will not leave under any circumstances, as I am that codependent. I love him, and that's ...

Separated from my wife -- and enjoying it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - My wife and I are separated. I wanted the separation. We both were at fault, but among other things, she was unfaithful. We are going to a marriage counselor. I thought I wouldn't enjoy this time apart from my wife whom I love, but I do. This h...

In a pile of debt because of the ex. Are all women like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - I dated a younger woman, I am in my early 30s and she is in her early 20s. When I first saw her I was completely blown away by her and came to love her and her daughter. We were together for 5 years. Recently I found out she was cheating and I h...

We had an affair, left our marriages, but now she is considering going back to her husband!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - A bit of a long story but the background is important. I was a happily married man (so I thought) until I met somebody else last year. She was also happily married (her words). Anyway, we had an affair and tried to end it by walking away but we ...

Will a cheater change for the right girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - Will a 30 yr old habitual cheater change when he meets the right girl for him?...

This is a train that has gone round and round for far too long

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - Really In need of help. I have been with my girlfriend for four years, through this she has cheated multiple times, and ive still stayed. Now shes pregnant and about five months in, ive been there for the entire pregnancy and Im always sad. I re...

My Ex-Fiance left me but I want her back!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - we were engaged for about 2 years and we were together for 6 years and one day my fiance just told me that she could not be with me anymore because of trust issues. i was devastated i couldn't eat i couldn't sleep i was so depressed i had moved all ...

Am I an idiot?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - All right, here goes... [before I begin, let me say...excuse my novel. ;]] I've actually been debating doing something like this for the last month or so. This isn't exactly something I want to discuss with the people around me who know both ...

Husband cheated on me and now I feel like retaliating with a friend to show him how it feels!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - I recently found out my husband of 5yrs was having an affair with another married woman for a little over a year. To make things worse, let me mention that I was pregnant with our 2nd child and not only did he have the nerve to screw her in MY car, ...

If I keep my cheating secret, will it come back to bite me later?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - What might be some negative consequences of marrying my fiancee without telling her that I cheated on her a year ago? We were clearly in a committed relationship back then, and I had sex with another woman--who you can say I had somewhat of an ...

My heart is telling me he didn't cheat, but my mind is telling me I may be stupid to believe he didn't

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I need help. My boyfriend and I are in a very serious relationship (We are planning to get engaged soon, he has a ring and everything). And last night when I was leaving his place, I was confronted by an older woman who stated that he has been ...

Is my BF or his BOTHER the father of my baby?!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - hi everyone lam pregnant but l don't know who is the father my bf was out of the country for 2mnths.l cheated on him while he was not around.l had sex with his brother on the first of this mnth and my bf came back on the 4th of this mnth we had...

I need to know, does he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beggining of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he ...