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*weetygirl98
writes:So a few weeks ago, I went to visit my cousin who lives in another country. I haven't seen him in 2 years and we are really good friends even though we haven't had much facetime (we've lived in different countries our whole lives). During my visit, we held hands, made dirty jokes, and made a lot of sexual references. On my last day as we watched a movie, I kissed him on the lips and we ended up having oral sex and then sex. And it was great....but besides us being relatives, I took his virginity and I have a boyfriend. Guilt is killing me and I'm stressed. He's confused too. I'm not really sure what to do. Who can help us? Who can help me? I cheated on my boyfriend...?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (23 February 2013):
 if you guys enjoyed it, then you should not feel guilty.If you guys did not enjoy it then don't do it again and no harm no foul. As far as your boyfriend is concerned, clearly you don't really care for him.I think you 2 should do it again if you like. It's not a big deal.
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 September 2010):
 it's hard, but the only way to overcome guilt is to come clean, ask and possibly receive forgiveness for this. when you cheat, and come clean, the direction of your relationship is handed over to the one you cheated on. he might forgive you, then you can rebuild together, or he may decide to move on, which you'd need to allow. whatever happens, the first step is to talk to your boyfriend and let him know what happened.
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