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writes:hi everyonelam pregnant but l don't know who is the fathermy bf was out of the country for 2mnths.l cheated on him while he was not around.l had sex with his brother on the first of this mnth and my bf came back on the 4th of this mnth we had sex on the 6th now l'm pregnant and l don't know if he is the father or not how do l find out who is the father with them knowing that l'm pregnant. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sincerely Kir  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 well, i think you should try to find out how far along you are . see a doctor. but you have to tell them both , whether it hurts them or not. they both need to know, and you need both of their support .
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): To the person with no morals below. Yes, if she can live with herself having to look her baby and boyfriend in the eye everyday and lie to them. If it is the brothers than the truth will out and all hell would break lose. Oh and I'm sure a paternity test requires DNA from the father so she can't really do it without him knowing, pretty sure that's illegal in some states/countries - he must give consent. Just a thought.
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reader, James the Rocket  +, writes (28 August 2010):
Don't be stupid. If you get a paternity test later on, don't let them know. If it is the brother's that is bad; if not, then you have exposed yourself as a cheater for nothing.
You just had a bit of fun while he was away. Get independent advice from somewhere like a legal place... but beware that a lot of do-gooders will say "you must let them know, etc" and will then force the issue by contacting the family themselves.
You need to be very careful. Do NOT heed the advice of that idiot telling you to abort. DO NOT do that. They are brothers, so the difference should not be that much anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): personally I think you should abort. I know some may consider that immoral but a child deserves to know the truth about is parentage and you won't be able to find this out that until you can to a paternity - then it may be too late. Won't your bf be suspicious if you ask for a paternity?
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reader, mr toyboy +, writes (26 August 2010):
Wow, what a chance you took, sleeping with his brother is bad enough, but to do it without protection is irresponsible.
Unfortunately, you wont be able to know whose baby it is, you can only do a paternity test when the baby is born but if it turns out to be his brothers baby, you will be destroying a family there, but you have no control now, you just have to wait and let fate take its course, but if you the type that will go for an abortion, i think that should also be considered.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): Well to bad for you, cheater, you deserved that.
It could be both since the fertile period is of 14 days meaning that unless you have a regular mestruation cicle and you can see when the fertile days start and end, most probably,Can still be both, you just gotta hope for the best, which I won't do for you. bye.
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