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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Is this my fault? This is not how I imagined love and commitment to be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - So I have been dating the same guy for 4 years. Well, we had an 18 month break in between where we still saw each other and slept with each other daily. I continued to help pay his rent and taking care of his daughter during this time. I felt like ...

My cousin's husband is "flirting' with me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Okay! Im 14 years old. My cousin is 21 and married to this guy who is 23. They have a 4 month old baby together. I went to there house for a week to hang out and babysit. It was a blast. i drove around with her husband all the time he is still like ...

I think my step dad may be cheating on my mom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - My mom has been married 4 a while now and i never liked the idea of marrying some one other then my dad soo now its been 9 years and i have gottten over it but now i feel my stepdad is cheating on my mom and don't no 4 sure but it sure does seem ...

B/f constantly accuses me of cheating but I'm not!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 months now and we jus recently broke up and got back together bc he thought I was cheating on him and I've gave him my email address and password give him my phone everything jus to prove to him ...

I sometimes give him head - will it affect our friendship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so ill give a lil bit of our history to this day so you can see whats going on.... We met in high school year 9.. and i had a lil bit of a crush on him when we became friends.. used to talk all the time.. He left at the end of year 10 and had a ...

It appears he ended things because I didn't gel with his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - hi all , sorry this is long Im really struggling just now with the end of a relationship of 5 years .my ex is a widower , of whom i knew his wife , and we got together 6 months after his wife had died (she comiited suicide ), when which he asked m...

I know my guy is cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm having a very strange problem. I know my guy is cheating on me. He has taken hundreds of photos of other girls, while telling me he has not done so. This is not the problem. The problem is when I find out some of these photos (each time), ...

We sneak away to be together, shoud I end this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I started seeing a guy who was already involved with someone about a few years back. So far, He lives with her and secretly comes over to my place. Lately I feel a built guilty and worried she may find out if this persists. We have been able to ...

My boyfriend cheated on me, I cheated on him, got pregnant, how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he cheated on me and i wanted to pay him back, so i cheated on him and i am pregnant and i know that the baby belong to the other guy. How do i tell my boyfriend?...

My bf cheated and got someone pregnant -- should I forgive him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend cheated and had a baby. I found out 10 months later by accident Now he wants another chance. I am so torn because I love him but the entire family knew about it and they all kept quiet. They asked me to cosign for a house..this was befo...

Someone told me my boyfriend is having a gay affair and I think its true!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - My mate and I been together for five years. We were both virgins starting out in our realtionship. Within these five years I have yet to experince an orgasm. Well recently I received a email from a guy claiming him and my boyfriend have been hav...

Has my cheating ex changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Has my cheating ex changed? I was with my ex Sam for 10 years, we lived together for 7 and had two children together. The problems started right from the beginning when he cheated on me when i was pregnant with my first child. He told me when he ...

I love my girlfriend, but I cant stay faithful? How can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - I have a women and I love her but I like having sex with other women. I want to get help for my promblem. What can i do? ...

I kissed another man because I thought it was my fiance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Idont know what to do I admitted to my fiance of two years that I kissed another man but it wasnt intentional. I thought the man was my fiance and I pushed him away after relising it wasnt him. I know it seems hard to believe. I broke my fiance h...

He's with a girl he cheated on me with, but I want to look past it and try again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - me and this guy have been together for seven months he alway use to say i fuss to much when we broke up we were still seeing each other over the summer and i just found out he was dating this girl i use to hear people say he talked to when we were ...

I love her but am no longer IN LOVE with her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I am no longer in love with my common-law wife. She had a one night stand with someone early in our relationship during an agreed 10 day "break", and also slept with her ex a couple of times. (Although, I must admit, she left that ex for...

I'm suspecting my fiance's loyalty to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone, I recently found out that my fiance is a member of an online dating site which really upset me.I glimpsed at the lap top and his e-mail box was open and there it was.I hope I am overreacting but he always told me how he doesn't ever ...

Is being with a drunk better than being alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship w/ a man off and on for 9 years. He's cheated in the past, been very emotionally and verbally abusive. Recently, he's been trying to make up for the past, however, he expects me to trust him again overnigh...

I want to break off with this jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Please help me to stop being angry and more importantly- to stop caring. I have known this man for nearly five years. We went out for two and a half, one of which we lived together. I found out in 2007 that he was cheating and lyi...

I think my boyfriend is cheating with his employee

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I think that my boyfriend of nine years has been sleeping with one of his female employees. He has been driving her around to and from the workplace for over a year. I can see that they have become close. I have told him that i cannot cope with this ...

Married & upset that younger lover has someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I met my husband Jack about 15 years ago, he was my first love and first relationship, I loved him for years, but he could not take a decision about us, being afraid of comitment and financial pressure. we were young by then, early or mid 20s...

He has lied and cheated..and yet can be so good to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for about 9 months. I am a 22 year old college student and he is a 26 year old with a job, never went to college. This relationship has had a lot of problems, let me just say that to start with. When we got together, we ...

Boyfriend hides phone when he gets a text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - my bf hides his phone from me when he gets a text. it's not like im there looking over his shoulder to see who's texting him. i just happen to notice that he does it all the time! i mean, is he hiding something or someone from me? or what? i tr...

Confused and reluctant to let go in California

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I am a 31 year old single mother and I was dating my first love after him finding me after 13 years for 2 1/2 years. I recently listened to my woman's intution and looked through is cell phone. Of course I found evidence he was texting and speaking ...

If we both somewhat cheated on each other could we ever have a relationship again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Alright so Ive been dating this guy for a year and nine months, today we broke up. We have been having problems the last couple of months arguing over pointless things such as him not wanting to cuddle at night and why he was on his phone with his ...

Should I believe she doesn't remember her drunk-dial? And that nothing happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - ok, i was recently in a relationship with shall we say "x", we met online and chatted on the phine for about 3 weeks, then we met and had a really good couple of days together, we really hit it off, then the week after she came to visit me and again ...

My life is a mess! How can I sort it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - help big time!! I have been with a very emotionally unstable man for two years on the first of september. I have a child with another man. I am in debt. so there are my three problems. this man has an unforgiving heart. he meet me an...

Help! I kissed my sister's boyfriend, and I think I'm falling in love with him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - hey im 13 and my sister is 18 she is also pregnant to this guy whos 22 well there was this one night when there was the three of us and my mum downstairs watchin a film and my sisters boyfriend let me lie on him for the film well the film finished ...

Am I out of line for insulting my neighbour after my husband said 'I love you' to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - My husband came home from his parents house last night stinking drunk, talking on his cell phone incessantly with all of "his boys" saying he wanted to go out with them to the bar, then I hear him (in our bed) talking with the neighbor saying "I ...

I'm worried that my son may not actually be mine

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - I heard off a good friend of mine that my son is apparently not mine. When I met my girlfriend about 5 years ago she was a single mum, who had a 3-year-old son. Two years later, we moved in together, our life was good, we then decided to try...

Was I right to break my girlfriend's ex's leg and jaw because he used to hit her and cheat on her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - look im a 15 year old kick boxer. i been with this girl ever since elementry i really like her. I broke her ex boy friends jaw and leg because he cheated on her and he hit her a couple of times. am I right or wrong....

Looks like my wife is cheating on me, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - is my wife cheating on me she has been in a job for 12 years she used to come home at 5:30 on the dot till lately she has not been getting in till about 6 reason i post this because my mate went into the news agents were she works and the bosses son ...

Help me out of this mess, he loves his best friend ,what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (?) - Hi all, A little while back I send a question, but did not word it very well I have been with this guy for nearly 2 years the last ouople of mnths have been great fantastic, see he has been a bit of an asshole sometimes and about 5months ago I le...

Do happily married people have affairs? is this possible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Do "happily married" people have affairs? I have a guy friend who has told me that he is in love with me and wants to have a relationship with me, but that he would never leave his wife. I've refused because I think having affairs is one of the ...

What are your stories on getting revenge on a cheating ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I would like to hear some revenge stories for a cheating ex and the affair partner... I promise I am not planning on pursuing anything... just want to live vicariously through your story. So what is your best revenge story?...

She found out about us, but she's crazy, advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - my friends girifriend and him have been together for about a 2 years and have a kid on the way. well he has not been happy for a year now, he told me last week she is not atractive and anoying, well just this weekend he and me went to a party and ...

We're back together, but he goes to school with an old fling, will I get hurt again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for two and half years and everything was great until about a year ago when he (pretty much) out of the blue decided that he was to young to be in such a committed relationship and wasnt sure about us at the moment. ...

What can my friend do legally with unfaithful husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I have a friend that is being married for about 30 years, she recently find that her husband was cheating her with her roommate. She never found them but this lady became pregnant. Everybody outside said that this kid was from her husband but they ...

We were cheating, I left my partner she hasn't left hers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - We were cheating on our partners and we got caught I finished it with my partner because I felt like it was the rite thing to do. She wants me back but I only feel like I would hurt her again so I cant. She went back to him but she wont stop te...

How do I get rid of these feelings that I want to be with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I am not cheating, nor do I plan on cheating on my boyfriend, but I have been with women before and he knows it. I've been feeling lately that I want to be with a woman, and I really want to tell my boyfriend without him wanting to join in (again). ...

I cannot carry on like this: I've been in love with my friend for years and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friend but she has a boyfriend we have been seeing each other behind his back for the last two years "I know this is wrong" but it seems impossible to break off from it, its been on and off so many times she said she wants ...

I don't want to lose him again but he is recieving sexual messages from a man! How do I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - this is gonna be long sorry. but i gotta explain the whole story. in 2005 i got with this guy, everything was great until last year around valentines day, he started drifting off. well around march we split up. it was horrible breakup i hit him. but ...

Me and my boyfriend had a fight, I turned to my guy friend and ended up cheating with him! Now I'm confused about my feelings...what should I do?

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27 August 2009 (F) - I am in a 8 year relationship. Something happened over the weekend with one of my best guy friend. I quarreled with my partner and so went out to rant with this guy friend. We were quite intimate (but no kissing nor sex) although we almost had! H...

I'm in a relationship temporarily, but my friend says I should give in to other women. I take it this would be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Hi I've been out with a close friend tonight. We're both in relationships. Unlike him, I'm in a relationship that will be ending (mutually) soon due to circumstances (being that we are both going to University in just a few weeks time). Tonight i...

I need peoples' thoughts on how I took him back after he cheated please..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - I was dating my boyfriend for a year before he proposed we moved in together and things were good. We fought like any other couple made up like any other couple. Then we started fighting more he seemed different. One night(at this point it was 3 ...

Four weeks after I found out she cheated, she's texting him again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend had been texting some guy constantly for over 2 years at first I thought nothing of it but it was getting out of hand and if I were to touch her phone would go mad. I did only to find out she has been sleeping with him for 2 years on ...

I found out she cheated on me a year ago!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My partner and I have been together for four and a half years. Since the middle of our sophomore year of college. We started at the same graduate school last year and I'm planning on finishing with my Master's in Education while she wants to go on ...

Found emails he sent to another woman. Did he cheat or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - i found out that my husband had some kind of relationship with another woman (don't know how far it went). He assures me that nothing happened, but the emails that he sent her, the words he told her sounded like he was either in love or had a huge ...

Once a cheat always a cheat? Can you be faithful to "the one"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I have cheated in the past but then I thought I had met the "one" and I could never do it to them. People say once a cheat always a cheat I don't believe this. Does anyone think that once you have messed someone around its simply because they are...

Should I consider my wife holding another man's hand as cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I asked a question a few weeks ago regarding staying in my marriage. Well, a new development has happened. In talking with my wife she felt it "necessary" to tell me that on a business trip about 4 years ago she had too much to drink with a male ...