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Archived questions from: 10 August, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

I slept with my friend's girlfriend, then caught him cheating too! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - Okay so i slept with my best friends girlfriend ( well there on a break ) and i felt reallly bad about it becuase im not a mean guy, so i went round his house one night to tell him. Anyway, cutting a long story short i walked into his room and saw...

Can't get that "other man" off my mind! I'm married and I want to just get on with my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband for several years and I am very much in love with him still. Although we have been going through some tough times, I've always known that I want to be with him. I am going through a really hard time right now because I ...

I'm participating in his affair but I don't want to be..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I just got out of a abusive relationship and all my past relationships were either abusive physically or emotionally or both, my question is how do I stop currently having sex with my boss who is married. I used to always say no but I finally gave ...

My married lover went back to his wife when he said he wouldn't!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm in love with a married man. he was thrown out of his home on several occasions. 4 out 7 times he came to live with me. so the last time he said to me he wasn't going back. he did!!! I'm so hurt over it but knows I got to move on ! please help me ...

I'm falling for my cousin...but he has a girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I slept with my first cousin about 3 weeks ago.. i then started to care for him very much and he the same. i dont know what to do bc we text eachother and talk everyday. it is becoming a long distance relationship, bc he lives 2 hours away. I do ...

How can I deal with this? Found supervisor naked with my husband!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My workmate was staying with us after a party and when i had gone to bed she seduced my husband-i came down stairs to find them both naked. the following morning i didnt mention it to her as i was in shock. My hubby and i have discussed it and are ...

I'm having an emotional affair with my cousin and don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm married and not in love with my husband. I've been with my husband for 12 years.I have been in love with another guy every sense my teenage years. The catch is he is a 5th cousin. I've tried to keep it a serect even from him but I told him and ...

Is it possible to wait for my husband to get over his midlife crisis and create a loving relationship with him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Is it midlife crisis or narcissism? My now ex husband of 19y had an affair with a coworker, refused to end it, divorced me, left me with our 6 children to move out of state and marry his pregnant gf. He financially supports our children, but for ...

Not once has he said he loves me but sends messages to his other girl telling her he loves her and misses her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - i am stuck in a relationship thats not really a relationship. we started to talk back in 07 and still talking. only thing is that he is a lier and a cheat. see when we first start talking we were not a we just fb's but i got attached and some how he ...

She says she's not interested...but her actions say otherwise! Do you think I've got a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - I'm a 19 year old male who has fallen into a very well known hole. My best friend is a girl, and its nothing new, but lately my 'more than friends' feelings have been really stressing me out. We originally met through another close friend of mine ...

G/f slept in bed with a former fling!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - I just found out from a friend that while I was away for school (my girlfriend and i lived in different cities but saw eachother every weekend and some weekdays), she slept in another guys bed with him. I know they did not have sex but I don't know ...

I don't have feelings for my bf but I have kissed this other guy! What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years.We've always had a very strong friendship but we no longer seem like a couple and haven't slept together in 5 months. A few months ago while on a work night out his friend(who is also a friend of mine ...

I don't know how to handle my step-dad without hurting anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I dont know what to do, my step dad has just told me he has feelings for me. I have no feeling for him, apart from him being my step dad . What do i do , i dont want to tell my mum. She is in love with him. I love her and dont want to hurt her by...

Do you think she knows he's cheating on her with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and he's 40 and married, and we have been seeing each other for about 2 and a half months. We usually have sex in his car or a hotel room. Once after we had sex in his car his wife said she could smell perfume, but he said it was his mums ...

How do I tell him he's become unattractive to me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Lately I haven't been sexually attracted to my fiance, and have been looking more at other men and women. His weight gain has increased so much, and I think that this could be why i'm so uninterested. I don't know how I would go about telling him ...