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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend had been texting some guy constantly for over 2 years at first I thought nothing of it but it was getting out of hand and if I were to touch her phone would go mad. I did only to find out she has been sleeping with him for 2 years on and off. She begged me to stay with her that she would do her all to make our relationship work we have been together for six years so I gave her a chance.After only four weeks of this I found out she was texting him again.Does she love me? What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):
Well, the final decision rests with you, but from what you have written it sounds like she took your second chance and shoved it down your throat. Not only did she betray your trust, trampled on your heart, but she has the nerve to do this even after she knows her behavior will be under close scrutiny now that she has been found out.
It sounds to me that she is either sick and can't control her hormone-ridden ass, or she is plainly calling your bluff and her egomania has her convinced you won't leave her. Look I am a woman and I refrain from talking ill of women, but this one ruthless s***. If it a serious relationship you want leave the Jezebel and get yourself one who can take care of all your needs, not just the physical ones. Six years of futile effort is painful, but ten or fifteen down the road can hurt your pride and your heart a lot worse. All the best to you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): A rather famous idiom may apply to you at this point in time:
"Fool me once, shame on you; Fool me twice, shame on me."
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