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Archived questions from: 25 August, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Will he go back to having an affair when he feels comfortable again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - A married guy had an affair but was so much wrecked with guilt when he felt that his wife was cheating on him. (It turned out that his wife was not having an affair) that he ended his affair very abruptly as the situation was an eye opener for him ...

Married but in touch with the ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Alright so,I am married... and i've been chatting, texting and talking on the phone with my ex boyfriend. i haven't seen him in 10 years. When we talk he makes me feel so special, he said he never forgot about me and that he has feeling towards me ...

Recently divorced: will I be able to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I was married for 3 years I got divorced recently because I caught my husband cheating on me........ and ever since the divorce my friends are pushing me to go on dates but I just can see myself with anyone right now, I am still hurt from the ...

Is my girlfriend a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - My question is about if I am being played by a woman or not. I am 36 and have been dating a 42 year old for over 13 months. When we met, she said she was divorced, a mother of 3, and just got out of a relationship with a younger man of an unknown ...

Cheated just before we got married, and now he wants a threesome to even the score!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I cheated on my husband 2 years ago a few months before we got married. I had sex with another man one time (the biggest mistake of my life). Now he wants to make me feel the same way that I made him feel back then by having a threesome this weekend ...

Deeply in love with a married man and at an impass

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Almost a year ago I met this man. I was married, (unhappily) He was in the same boat. We both have kids as well. We got together. Not only did we become physical but we were actually bestfriends and talk everyday, had drinks and did stuff together. ...

I believe the other woman more than I believe my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - i found a girl's number in my bf phone. i asked who it was and he lied. couple days later i found out it was this same girl ive saw be4 on his page on the internet couple months ago. so i told him to call her and have a convo with her. ask her why ...

What should I do if my girlfriend is having phone sex with another guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - She usually sends erotic messages to him right when he gets out of work. They are co-workers, so she knows his schedule. I found out she was sending him dirty stories about themselves and ones she would make up. How I found out was that she would be ...

Does this count as rape?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - I am a 20 year old male who has been screwing around with my 35 year old married neighbor for 5 years. She is a beautiful woman who has introduced me to many things sexually. She is very kinky and very persuasive. Over the years she has given me ...

Am I right to be angry over lack of contact in a long distance relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I just want to get something clarified in my head and would like some opinions. To cut a v.v. long story short, about 16 months ago i was in a very happy and loving relationship with someone for 2.5 years. Then 16 months ago, I de...

Cheating by texting....I need advice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for over 4 years, we were together for 4 years before we got married. Across our marriage we have the normal peeks and valleys but i have always trusted him 100% in regards to being faithful to me. We still have ...

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me but she always manages to make me feel like I'm in the wrong!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - So, I've been in a relationship with the same girl for over five years - off and on - more on than off, though. We've had ups and downs and have mostly worked through them. Problem as of late is that I think she's cheating on me, maybe she isn't ...

I want my married boyfriend for myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - i lost my virginity to my married boyfriend...as started out, i never had a boyfriend and was never "explored" by any male...with that, he told me that i should regard him as my husband as he's the first to explore me..his wife is not really a good ...

I don't want to make him choose between me and the mother of his baby but I don't want to be the other woman either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I Have been friends with a guy "R" for almost 9 years. We Met in school. We had plan on dating the summer after we met but are life's got complicated so we decided not to add more drama. We stayed friends but never brought it up again. We never ...

One part of me wants to leave and the other part has fallen hard for him, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been friends with a man for about a year before i had any sensual relationship that lasted 2 months when he then decided to go back to his x, the mother of his 2 children.she wanted him back When she found out that he was moving on. Well ...

I'm in love with a married man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - for the first time i am opening up my problem .. here it is i met a guy in my office and somehow i liked him at the beginning and slowly we became good friends and i came to know that he is married. then many a times i decided that i shud nt talk ...

She made a joke but it's left me feeling really hurt. I really need advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - Hey guys I need help here.. I mean I been with my gf for like a month and a half I know it's not a long time but I been friends with her for a year. Anyway u know me and her play alot and joke around alot. But there's one specific joke I didn't like ...

I'm willing to forgive his faults: can this marriage be saved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have myself in a bit of a predicament. I have three children and have been married for 14 years. Like all marriages ours have had its ups and downs. We were married young. I was 18 and he was 19. Neither of us had been in a serious ...

My heart cannot survive this hurt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend off and on for 16yrs... in this time i found out i cannot carry a child. he left me 8 yrs ago...got a girl pregnant and i took him back i felt i could not give this to him so i accepted his child as my own. well low a...