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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I'm having a very strange problem. I know my guy is cheating on me. He has taken hundreds of photos of other girls, while telling me he has not done so. This is not the problem. The problem is when I find out some of these photos (each time), with the anger I start shaking and before I know it I have this strong sexual urge and want to masturbate!!!What the hell is wrong with me. I never intend to do a threesome with this guy or anything. Why do I get heavily turned on when I catch he has been cheating?And afterwards I feel so depressed, angry and terrible!Is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): Okay if there is anything I've learnt on this site its the that different things turn different people on. So what you think maybe strange isn't really taboo to the next person...in other words you are not a freak so don't worry about that . BUT, having said that, the depression and anger you feel AFTER you masturbate is a true representation of what you are feeling because when you're actually masturbating, the sexual urge you described blinds you of any other emotions. YOU NEED TO CONFRONT HIM. You should tell him that you found these pictures because that is the only way you will gain closure from the anger you are feeling. Personally, I think that you should really leave this guy because I don't think he deserves you. However, in the end, the choice is yours... make the choice your heart wants,,,,GOOOOOD luuuckkkk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): GIRL wake up the problem IS that he's cheating on you. Deal with the real problem and the other will resolve itself.
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