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writes:I have a boyfriend and he cheated on me and i wanted to pay him back, so i cheated on him and i am pregnant and i know that the baby belong to the other guy. How do i tell my boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): Whats so difficult? Tell him exactly the way you told us. You don't really want to know HOW to tell him... you want some way out of this.Facts are facts, he screwed up you screwed and now there's gonna be a kid.Give him the info and take it from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): without being rude, have you considered having an abortion. please do not bring a child into the is world when you know your bf will not accept it. don't let this kid become a burden. seems like you have many many decsions to make. the first thing you need to do is be honest with your bf, tell him you are pregant and more importantly, that he is not the father.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (31 August 2009):
 Oh dear what a mess. You got pregnant by cheating on him, and you didnt use a condom? For a start I would check myself out for any STD's, after all you have had unprotected sex.
It sounds like you have problems already in your relationship, do you want to try and patch things up while you are pregnant with another man's child? You will be completely at his mercy given that you will be in a very vulnerable position.
I think your old relationship is in serious doubt, you may just have to go your own way .
The father of the baby is liable to support your child so I would explore child support from him.
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