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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How can I console my friend who is a cheated-on wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - A good friend of mine just told me that her husband has been having an affair for some time now and this past weekend she discovered the whole thing. He moved out! She’s so heart broken and she’s crying ALL the time. They’ve been married for 5 ye...

Me, his ex wife and this other woman -all want him! Am I crazy to keep dating him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I started having an affair two years ago with my husbands cousin. He was married too. It was supposed to be just friends with benefits since we were both unhappy but, then i started having feelings for him and he said he did for me too. He said ...

We want to make our textual affair into a real one for just one night. But, the guilt is holding us back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Hi, Feeling a bit strainge writing on this website, but I need some help with out getting insults. I have been reading through some other problems to see what the replies are like and I know I am probably in for a telling off. Here's the pro...

After we split, he wanted to remain friends. Then I found out he's in a relationship w/ someone he'd been seeing since before our split!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - A month ago, my boyfriend of 4 years wanted to split up. I agreed it was the best thing as I didn't want a future with him. We both said that we'd always be friends but then he started to ignore me and when we did talk was extremely nasty. Instic...

Admitted to the sex... but there's more.. I'm so guilty - I can't hurt him more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6486 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - i am 24 and been with my boyfriend for 7 years , we have a child together, 4 years ago i had an affair and i recently decided to tell him, we are working through it even though i hurt him alot, i have also done other things with 2 people not full ...

Do you think that you should accuse somebody if you have no proof of cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - Do you think that you should accuse somebody if you have no proof of cheating? But what if they have a history of cheating? Do you think people can change and not cheat anymore or is it once a cheater always a cheater? I been with my boyfriend for ...

He has a gf but I like him a lot. What can I do to stop thinking about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - i dont no where to start , well this boy has fancied me for ages but i didnt really like him in that way until this party we went to but he was with his girlfriend but he was dancing with me and kisses me we were drunk but we both didnt regret it , ...

Is my fiancee cheating on me? What do you all think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - i have been with my fiance for two years now and things are starting to look bad in our relationship. two weeks ago her grandma who lives down the street had some work men in the house refurbishing the place. and she was always there flirting and ...

I love someone else and I want to be free of my husband! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - After my high school graduation I and my whole family left Philippines and migrated here in Canada.I left my boyfriend and planned to get over him. I never dreamed ending up w/ him.He's a total jerk.He was not studying nor working. He smokes, ...

I only found out my fiance cheated b/c her friend and mom told me! I split, she wants to get back together but shows no remorse!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I recently broke up with my fiance. She went to visit a man that she had previously slept with before when we were in an open relationship. She is 20 and I am 25. I confronted her when I found out (her best friend told me) and she denied a...

She's married and I slept with her.. I have strong feelings-what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - I've known this woman for a couple of years and we've always been attracted to each other,but she's married. And i regret to say we have slept together. I still have strong feelings for her, and she for me.What should i do?...

Not sure if I have done the right thing or not by dumping him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi and thanks to everyone who responded to my question posted on 10th Jan about naked pics of my boyfriend on his phone. Sat I asked him about it straight out and he admitted (eventually) that he sent them to an ex girlfriend whom he says he hasn't ...

My husband keeps chatting with women on adultfriendfinder!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - hi i dont know where to start last year i found out my husband had joined adult friend finder and a couple of other sites he was emailing women arranging to meet them when i told him i had found out he said he wouldnt have done anything i know he ...

I kissed my partners best friend, I feel guilty and confused. What should I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6490 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I am a 21 year old woman. I have been in a serious relationship for the past 4 years. Well about a year ago I started having feelings that I did'nt understand. I felt neglected because I am always with our children while he goes out clubbing with ...

My friend found condoms in her Dad's car. Should she tell her Mother? How should I advise her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - hi every1, i was just wonder, my friend came for me for help i did know what to say!!she saw condoms in her father's car as they were pulled up by a police! she and her mother had already discussed that her father might have been cheating since he ...

I love my best friend's bf...do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Okay. I love my best friends boyfriend. Yes. Today we was all out together, Her, her bf, me, my bf. It was great! Then i said to her bf 'HUG ME' cos i scream it all the time lol And he did, but he gripped me so tightly its like he didnt wa...

I have a boyfriend but I'm thinking of meeting up with this guy online who promises to give me 'wild sex.' Is this a good idea, or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid- Here is the problem: I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and I love him very much, but our sex life is a little boring. We usually have sex in the bedroom in the same position. I'm very sexual and I like to try new things in ...

I want the older, married guy out of my life as I feel guilty for cheating on my bf. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I am a 22 year old girl in a relationship with a boy for last 2 years with whom i wish to settle down. I recently fell for a married man of double my age and working in my office. Under strong emotions i slept with him twice and really enjoyed ...

I have a bf but how can I avoid my lecturer from school, that I really, really like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 22 yrs old and i stay with my bf for around 2 years. I found that i am having a crush with my lecturer who are 32 years old, single. He did know that i'm staying with my bf. I'm not sure whether he had same kind of feeling like ...

Does cheating on my fiancee automatically mean marriage is the last thing I should do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy since I was 14- now 21 and engaged to him. I always wanted to get married young and having a family is the most important thing to me. We have never broken up or taken a break-he has cheated on me once 4 years ago and I ...

He lives 200 km from me..any point in continuing this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Hi really confused 19yr old. Met a boy new years eve (friend of an old friend) we kissed the whole night. Since then we spend most days talking and flirting online. But he lives 200km away in another city, is there any point in continuing it? thanks ...

I'm attached to my guy on the side even though I think he may be using me. Should I walk away?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - Hi I am 32yrs female, married, but have been having an affair with a 48yr old single guy. I am confused as I really like this guy alot, may be falling inlove with him, we have been seing one another for 4 months now, and had sex in the last 2 ...

Should I have told her more about my cheating... or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - hey well i have made a big mistake. i cheated on my girlfriend and was unfaithful in the first month and a half of our relationship but after i realized how bad i felt i told her about it. she gave me a second chance and i am greatful, but i feel ...

Can't stop beating myself up over my past cheating...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - 3 months ago, I cheated on my girlfriend of then, 4 months with a friend from high school. I told her and she decided to stay with me, but I know that I don't deserve it. I never expected her to forgive me. We had a fight the night before it ...

She was scared into giving him a hand job b/c he was drunk and acting belligerent, but I think cheating is cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - i met a girl and we started goin out, and she was the first girl i ever had sex with or feel like i loved. 3 months into our relationship i was in jail for a couple weeks. while i was in jail she wnet over to a gf's house and got drunk. there was ...

My cheating partner has been telling lies to the health visitor! I feel so alone. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - hi there not sure where to start but here goes my partner has been telling lies about me to our health visitor and family she tells them i swear at her and that im verbally abusive to her which is untrue we have had our ups and downs shortly af...

The details of her cheating were a little too vivid...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - HI I found out the other day my partner is having a affair. After asking her about it she told me that it was becuse he was bigger then me and that he was white. She then told me that she loved this person but also loved me. She then went i...

My Ex Best Friend is sleeping on my Girlfriends floor! Trouble is they have slpt together before!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - HI ive had problems with my girlfriend for a while if you havent read my other questions then she cheated on me with my ex best friend while we were having a rough patch. Anyway things havent got much better and he is still around and sleeps over at ...

Do you think he's been cheating with the girl from his 3-week training couse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - I am unsure whether to trust my boyfriend of one year. I knew about my boyfriend before we started seeing each other and I know he has cheated on one girlfirend with someone from Spain and dumped the English Girlfriend eventually to get together ...

My boyfriend has been "disappearing"... Once a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid I am 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years he has a history of cheating he said that for the past 3 years he has'nt cheated on me anymore things have been good but for the past few weeks he began disappearing for long hours a...

Open condom packet!!! He says he hasn't cheated. I believe him but... I've been cheated on before!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - I recently found an open box of condoms in my boyfriend's nightstand draw. We haven't used any condoms since the beginning of last year. I've been in that draw numerous times before but never saw them before until now. None were missing and when ...

He's off to a motor bike rally and doesn't want me with him! Should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure if anyone here has heard or been to these biker rallys but this is where my b/f is going and here is what I have to say: I have been together with my b/f for about 2 years. I know you are supposed to trust but i feel its...

I feel bad! Should I have kissed a guy when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - should i have kissed a guy when he has a girlfriend??? He likes me and i like him n he doesnt like his gf anymore and we kissed :S im confuseed n i feel bad!! xxxx Some Advice Would Be Helpful Thanks!!! XxX...

I feel like I'm not big enough - while we were at a party, my gf blurted out that I have a small penis and she fakes orgasms!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - Ok, this is my first time posting, i have been strugling with a issue for a while now, a while back i dated this girl for about 2 years sex was great...so i thought. during the relationship shes at her frinds house at a small party and anounces ...

He emails his old school friend, pics of him in underwear! Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - Am I deceiving myself or could this really work? I must admit, in the past few weeks that my boyfriend and I have been dating, I've taken up snooping on him. I know it's wrong, but, for some reason, I've felt I've had to. I've discovered that he's ...

I have cheated on my wife numerous times, because she doesn't take care of my needs. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - I have been married for 5+ years and have a 3 year old and one on the way. My problem is my wife is not as excited about sex as I am and I have cheated on her numerous times. I have not had sex with another person since the summer but I have had ...

What are the signs that my gf is cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - i need help to find out if my g/f is cheating on me people are telling me she is all i say is i need pic proof or something well i dont want to wait know more i want to know the true now i need to know becasue im about to give her a ring plzzz help ...

Sexually, I don't get wet with my boyfriend like I did with my lover. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

22 January 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. I love him and want to be with him the rest of my life. He's still in Law School and I found a job in another city 7 hours away. We don't see each other much because of the distance, expenses to ...

My boyfriend can't turn me on as much as my 'lover' did. What can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

He cheated on me with another woman...I took him back. Do you think he's learned his lesson?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - I was married for 7 years and then seperated and met a new guy, I have been with him for 4.5 years and have just found out he has been cheating. He met this girl out drinking and they were just texting so he told me. I got her number and then ...

My bf trusted me and still--I cheated on him with 2 lads! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - Hi im 14 years old and have a 17 year old boyfriend. i have being going out with him for a week. Anyway i went to my friends brothers 18th and got drunk, as did everyone their. My bf trusted me and i cheated on him with two different lads. it wasnt ...

I'm 21 and married! But My mind tells me I'me too young and missing out! What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

21 January 2007 (M) - Hi. I am 21, and have been married nearly a year now to the first love of my life, whom I met when I was 15! I have always had eyes for her and only her - until three months ago my mind told me that I was too young and missing out! I have me...

Too much wine! My bf caught me passed out on the couch with another guy! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - On friday night my boyfriend came round and we just stayed in. He had been working n his house all day and was tired so he went to bed early. I stayed up as I didnt want to go to bed that early. I had a couple of glasses of wine and spoke to some ...

How do I ask my partner about his late night 'dating site' visit, without causing a huge row?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - My common-law husband is visiting adult dating chat rooms while I am sleeping. If I ask him about it I know he get defensive and hide the truth (he knows I wouldn't approve). Any advice on how I can approach this topic with him without causing a ...

My fiancee ran his hand down this girl's back at the bar he hangs out in... what does it mean!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - What does it mean when you are out drinking at a bar with your fiance' that you are marrying in four months and you see him run his hand down another girls back as she is walking by? From top to bottom not touching her butt or anything? I know if a ...

He's married but will he call me back for a repeat performance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - Question about behaviour of married men.. should I expect a phone call out of the blue in the future from a man I met a little while ago (one night stand, apparently intense feelings on both sides)looking for a repeat performance? Am not familiar ...

I told her about my affair with a married women and she was upset! Have I lost her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

20 January 2007 (M) - I like a girl but i don't know if she will ever feel the same as i upset her before. I first met this girl about five years ago. She was a friend of my sister and we started going out mainly as a group of four and although we seemed to get on...

What would you make of a disappearing condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - If you counted condoms one time at your b/f's place AND was pretty damn sure you counted right and said 9 to yourself and then another time count them and you are pretty damn sure one was missing..would you automatically assume your b.f was ...

My husband takes me for granted so I cheated on him with a guy at work. But this guy is married aswell. Who should I choose? My husband or the married guy at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - I have been married for 20 years to a guy who takes me completely for granted, we have no kids because he doesn't want any (I do!)Just lately I have been attracted to another man at work. I got a new job working in the same office as this man, I ...

Four years and four million reasons not ot trust her !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

20 January 2007 (M) - Help! Very confused! I really hope someone answers this question as i feel like banging my head against a birck wall.I met my girlfriend whilst in the first few months of an attempt at university. We got together very quickly and it was the first se...