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anonymous
writes: i need help to find out if my g/f is cheating on me people are telling me she is all i say is i need pic proof or something well i dont want to wait know more i want to know the true now i need to know becasue im about to give her a ring plzzz help me tell me signs. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): First of all look at whos been telling u shes cheating.. are they good friends of yours that u know can be trusted? Besides ppl telling u these things do u have any other reson for thinking this?Is she spending less time with you? Breaking plans often? Cant get a hold of her as often? Is there a change in how shes dressing or wearing her makup/hair? Does she hide her cell from you and never lets it out of her sight?Has your sex life been dwindling? Those are all signs of cheating so if you are going by soley what your friends say maybe you should look a little closer..Just remember you dont want to come across as controlling or a stalker but you do have the right to know!
I just wanna ask you: have you ever actually asked her?! Communication is extremly important in a relationship and if you should be able to ask her anything! If somthings going on you need to know..if nothings gong on you need to step back take a look at whos telling u these things. Weather shes cheating or not this is somthing youre gonna hafto get off your chest so the first thing you need to do is sit down and talk to her!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): why are you listening to other people,have you confronted your girlfriend.if she was cheating on you first thing you would notice would be in the bedroom department also she would be unavailable at short notice,does she make excuses why she suddenly cant meet you,has she changed the way she dresses,has she had her hair done,is she constantly looking her best,is she locking her mobile and keeping it constantly with her taking it to the bathroom etc.if this fits the way she`s behaving then its most likely as this is one i have experienced myself.
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