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*kimx
writes:i dont no where to start , well this boy has fancied me for ages but i didnt really like him in that way until this party we went to but he was with his girlfriend but he was dancing with me and kisses me we were drunk but we both didnt regret it , he is still with his girlfriend now but he tells me he wants to be with me but hes not sure , he said iv missed my chance because i didnt like him before, and he is scared to be with me just in case i leave him but i told him i wont and i mean that but now he wont talk to me and he is always with her. i text him all the time and ring him but he doesnt seem bothered now what shall i do i can stop thinking about him ?
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reader, xkimx +, writes (1 February 2007):
xkimx is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankyou those that have helped me it will be hard to let go but im sure il get through it nw THANKYOU XXXX
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (31 January 2007):
You only want him because you have seen that he must be alright if another girls with him. Like me, you want what you cant have. But, think about the other girl here. Dont you care about her feelings. If you were with a guy, how would YOU feel if another girl stole him. What Comes Around Goes Around, and if you do it to her. Someone will do it to you retun. Hes obviously realised that the girl he is with now isnt going to mess him about. Which is probly what he thinks your going to do. Just let him be happy.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (30 January 2007):
 He still wants to be with you but he's not sure??? This guy doesn't know WHAT he wants! If he can kiss you when at a party when his girlfriend is there, who's to say he won't do this with you, if you got with him, with another girl. Then he says "you missed your chance". He enjoyed being with you at the time, but of course he was drunk and he's now with his girlfriend again.
Put this down to experience. Don't get involved with a man if he already has a girlfriend. Play a bit harder to get and respect yourself more. By calling him and texting him all the time you're just coming across to him as a nuisance. Cut your losses and stop coming across as so desperate. There are hundreds of wonderful guys out there and you're still very young. Play the field, get to know yourself better and live a little before getting into a serious relationship but kick this guy to the kerb, he's really not worth all the trouble and effort you're putting in.
Eve
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reader, Nico +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Hi,
It's a hard situation to be in as you are like the 3rd person in the relationship, if you tell him i'm going to back off and tell him that if he likes you enough he will know what to do, tell him to make himself happy but you aint being the rebound girl or the girl who's his bit on the side it isn't fair on you. Try keeping busy as you can, if it doesn't change after a certain amount of time i would try and move on.
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