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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Email, SMS and call all in one day from ex-husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - What do I do? My ex-husband remarried very soon after our divorce. This was a couple of years ago. He has never totally let go. He has constantly stayed in touch every few months or so. This last call was very heart wrenching as he laid bare his...

I want my ex back but he's not interested. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I still like my ex but he does not want to get back with me. We are both in our thirties, and our relationship was very complicated. He had kids, I have a child, ex-partners etc etc ......it was very difficult at times for us to be happy. We live in ...

Why would she deactivate her profile after mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I know I'm young. I know I've got my whole life ahead of me. But I was with my on/off girlfriend for a couple of years. Rumour had it she cheated. The usual stuff I guess when you're young. Anyway, things got a little messy. W...

Is it ok to date a separated person?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - I'm divorced and met a woman through friends who's married but living separated lives with her husband for financial reasons. Long story short, she invited me out for a date. Is it wrong to date a separated woman who's husband is already out there ...

Is it silly to date an ex? Has he really grown up and sorted himself out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - My ex has changed so much in the past few months, it's like he is a different person. I can't stop thinking about him and now he wants to get back together but I'm still hurting from the way he acted when we were together. So, we were together fo...

Do I need the hurt again? He's trying to get back with me. I still care for him. But I keep on rejecting him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - It's so easy to say dont answer his calls or respond to his texts. I really love him and I want it to work but i know that he has to change. Someone said that he needs sex and that is why he is trying to talk to me again but i am pretty sure he w...

I don't think I love him as much as he loves me, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - Hey its me again.I've been hurt by guys from time I started having boyfriend Which is at 19 .I have never had a real boyfriend before until now,I'm someone who likes older guys but this one I have now is only 20 and doesn't seem to be what I want. I ...

She's upset because I didn't change my FB status, am I in the wrong here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

26 February 2014 (M) - Thanks for reading - not sure who to ask so going to ask you lovely people :) I have been on a few dates with a girl - i am 26 and she is 24 and she is very pretty and when we had our first date, we hit it off. She gave me butterflies and ...

Is he holding back because I walked away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - Hi everybody! Basically I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and 9 months. Most of those years were amazing, but we got to the point where we spent every second together, neither of us went out or kept in touch with friends, if one of us did th...

Left a troubled relationship and now he's being threatening. How do I cope when I go back to college?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - I m a 21 yr old woman, I was in a troubled relationship, initially he was really serious and in love but then later on he would abuse me for small things like not going out when I told him I would. Once I told him I would leave him in a fight an...

Why is the ex back in touch? Is he just playing games or is he for real?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid... Its me again.... its been over a month now and I have not talked to my ex, he started calling me back about a week ago and he is still calling and sending me text messages.I have not responded to him at all. I mean he said that he did ...

Tell me what I already know but don't wanna believe

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Hello! Heres the situation; I've been dating a guy for about a month, 'talking' for about two. In those two months we have been Facebook friends on and off, I have deleted him 3 times now, the first time was because a lady was putting comment ...

Am I wrong to give him a second chance? And I'm wrong for not holding our past over his head?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I've been a single mom since my daughter was 8 months old. My ex and I got along and then i found out that he cheated on ( he fooled around with a girl at a party) we decided that we would break up but We have been co parenting my daughter and ...

He wants me to move away with him but I can't stand the thought of leaving my friends and family behind

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - A year ago, I met the man of my dreams. I am 21, and he is 27. He is originally from Australia, and had spent the last three years living in the uk. He moved over here to live with his father who is a British citizen. We met through mutual friends,...

Is there any way to improve this situation? My ex is now working here and is dating a guy with a bigger job than I have!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - So I guess there are two parts to this that need explained. First my job. I've been working in my job for a while now; it's a job in the intended career path I've chosen for myself (got a degree at university to do this line of work). I'm go...

Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - I dated and fell in love with a guy in the summer/ fall of 2012, but who ultimately went back to his ex (a prior very long term relationship) and was living with her. We reconnected some months thereafter where we talked about how much we still ...

I am losing sleep and feeling really down on my self because he is having trouble getting over this, he makes me out to be such a horrible uncaring person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Okay I am having issues getting through a little speed bump with my boyfriend. There has been absolutely no cheating or lying just something from my past he cant get over. We had known each other for quite some time but only started seeing each ...

I am friends with a guy but it's too soon after my recent break up to take it further. What can I do? I don't want to lose him as a friend or potential partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - I broke up with an ex about 6 weeks ago and for the past 3 weekends I've been hanging out with a male friend. He's been wonderful helping me get over my breakup but last weekend he began dropping hints how he thinks I'm "wonderful", he said loves ...

His breakup excuse has confused me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend broke things off with me after 3 years saying that I am an "amazing" person but his "taste" has changed over the years since we have been together. What does that even mean?? I feel awful. I am a beautiful girl and was nothing but ...

Broken up for 1.5 years yet still cry almost every day

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Has anyone else ever thought about something an ex did even though you've been broken up for a year and a half? The thing he did was two years ago. I don't want to say what it was. I cry nearly every day. My parents think I'm mentally ill as I ...

Is it natural to have doubts after breaking up with someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2years have just broken up and I am obviously feeling very mixed and heartbraking emotions right now. I just feel better explaining on here and if anyone can give me any reassurance or advice it would be greatly appreciated. ...

LDR boyfriend talked terribly to me and now I think he's broken up with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hello I am a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship with a 48 year olf man. I love him very much but, in the pass he has been very verbally abusive, calling me bitches and saying fuck you! I forgave him when he asked for forgiveness and ...

My husband went out with another girl while we were engaged and now I'm wondering if it happened more than once!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I am in despair, and don't know what to make of it. I am married for 2 years, and have a 3 months old child. A week ago i found out from a so called "friend", that during the time when we were still engaged my husband went out with a friend o...

Does he want me or not? Why stalk me but not speak to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - i had a relationship with a man that was at the point of engagement. while there were some communication issues to be worked out, he left the relationship before sorting anything. now that we are apart, he does not want to be together and won't ...

We were in a rut. But has our break of 5 months gone on too long for us to start again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - Hi all, Cut a long story short, me and my ex boyfriend were together for four years. We started arguing all of the time and the relationship became stuck in a rut! We were making each other miserable so we decided to take a break from the re...

Girls: getting over your crush. After all, if he can't value and respect you - then who needs him?

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21 February 2014 (?) - so you had a crush on him, and you were pretty sure he had a crush on you too. you gave your precious heart to him, and he totally stamped it in to the ground, because the next thing you know, he's with another chick! so, what to do? firstly,...

Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" we...

How to clarify where I stand with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - After almost 2 and a half years my partner decided to end things out of the blue about 6 weeks ago. I am heartbroken and shocked. It's now been a week since I moved out of our joint apartment and he texts me constantly. He hasn't deleted our rela...

How do I break off this affair with an engaged colleague?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello, 6 months ago I fell deeply for a man who is 16 years older than me who works in the same building and department as me. He began speaking to me online while I was on holiday from work and we got close chatting and joking and staying up a...

Advice for a broken heart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I reunited after our breakup back in November. We were hanging out enjoying each others company, almost like it was new and exciting again. He started to become distant and having less contact with me in the past few weeks. I as...

My ex who tried to ruin my relationship has contacted me. I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to hurt my partner. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - Me and my ex broke up back in June after being together for a year and a half. We tried being friends but this proved impossible after I started seeing someone four months later. This lead to something of a bitter parting for us. She and her family ...

Do I tell him? I'd like to forgive and forget but I'm pregnant by him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - I reconnected with an old family friend this past summer. we began talking a lot and became really close. eventually he asked me to be his gf. we live in different states so he flew me out to visit for a few weeks. when I returned, we hardly lasted ...

Should I contact my ex? It's 6 months since I finished the relationship, and this would have been our 6 year anniversary.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Hi aunts, I'm feeling a little low. I was in a relationship for 5 and a half years. We were childhood sweethearts and got to together at the age of 17. I loved him to pieces but the relationship fizzled out after around the 4th year. We stayed ...

She broke up with me, acts like we're still in a relationship, but is talking to other guys

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

19 February 2014 (M) - So my girlfriend broke up with me after a year of being together. We moved in together after three months of being together so we have a close bond. My ex states that she doesnt think she loves me enough and that she isn't happy within herself so ...

Partner says he wants to be with me forever but has "itches that need scratching" with other women.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for 5 years. We met at uni. It's a long distance relationship but we are planning in moving in together this year. We are both each other's first sexual partners. I was in a long term relationship before but never had in...

He's been so disrespectful to me, I didn't even want to contact him except to tell him I'm moving so he can get his things!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - The guy I was seeing for a few months broke up with me a few weeks back. Well, I say broke up, he more or less ignored me til I got the hint it was over. When I finally spoke to him and asked why, he said it was because I was too much of a flirt ...

Do I keep blocking him or unblock him? I think how I've moved on is the best revenge?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - I had a few posts here and got really good advice. My ex dumped me nearly a year ago. We talked a few times. I initiated contact most of the times. I couldn't let go and get over him because we planned to get married before we broke up and he's my ...

How to save a relationship from being destroyed by depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have officially been together two months today. I know that may not seem like a very long time, but things became serious very quickly. We met in September and it was love at first sight the moment we walked into class (he is a ...

Should I let one ex help me get over another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I have just come out of a horrible relationship of 10 months. Another ex contacted me to ask if I was ok. He has been really supportive listening and taking me out to cheer me up. We broke up amicably last year because he wasn't over his ex and I ...

Should I go to see my online friend even though we face distance and cultural differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (M) - Hi, I am new to this site. I am from India and I love a girl in Romania. She recently got out of a relationship. They were going out for 7-8 years; even though she loved him, he never loved her. I suggested her to break the relationship. I might ha...

How can I meet someone who is the average only?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I don't know what else to do with my life. I am at my wits end. I just came from a break-up from my 4 year relationship and I am trying to meet new people. I am in a location where it's really difficult to find a new partner. It's either peop...

I have the most amazing partner in life, can I stop having random dreams about my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I'm 22. To cut a long story short(er), last year I broke up with my ex after having discovered he'd cheated on me numerous times during our 3 year relationship. To make it worse, I had no clue nor did he do anything that raised my suspicions, ...

Is history repeating itself? I took my ex back but we have problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - So cut a story short, I met a guy when I was 17, went through some really bad stuff, lying and cheating. Settled down at 19 and had my son, but then he kept staying out all night getting drunk. So I moved back to my mams in may 2012, after find...

No communication from my BF for 9 days. He's ignoring my texts. What is going on and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - Ive not spoken to my bf since 8th Feb, he works away. I held down and tried not to txt or ring but I asked him to ring Friday and never did. I texted on Sat, nothing, and rang yesterday and still nothing. I'm not sure what to do, I cant stop thin...

I am writing because I feel so low .............

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I'm writing this because I'm feeling so low, and maybe any answers might help. To cut it short, I met this guy many years back, we started off as friends, He lived away from me, but when we met up, it became more than friends. I then found out he w...

I don't see my boyfriend as long term material and I wonder about my ex FWB. Any ideas what I should do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a month now. Actually, we have dated before, over a year ago and it lasted about 10 months back then. We remained really good friends while we were not together, even though I was dating someone else. Afte...

Husband belittles me in front of friends and family. I want to leave him, but is there any way I can correct the situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I became very resentfull toward my husband. The main reason is that he complains to people about me. He doesn't complain to everyone but certain people. Like this couple that we don't see very much often, may be every couple months. Usually ...

He broke up with me but I keep hearing how emotional he is about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I'll try to make this as short as I can... About a month ago, my boyfriend of a year dumped me. His reasons for dumping me were, because he wanted to be single, he thought we were more like "buddies", and he was "tired of hurting me". Our ...

My LDR called me names and doesn't want to speak with me anymore.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - Why is he so horrible? He's really broken my heart:(? So my bf have been dating 10 months long distance where he'd call me all the time. But lately he had been acting weird lately not calling as much, no I miss you to love you. Today I went out ...

I just cant forget and get the trust back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I took my boyfriend back after he cheated on me. the thing is I truely love him and cant let him go. He broke myy heart and i still feel numb. I know it's over between him and the girl, he endedit (she told me- after he ended it as she was angry ...