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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Help! How do I let him go...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend, "Chris", broke up with me. I honest to God, truly loved Chris. I wanted to be with him forever, but he didn't see it the way I did. I'm heartbroken now, and I don't know what to do. I've told him before how much I liked him, but he ...

I miss my ex so much, but she wont answer my calls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I miss my girlfriend so much. My girl friend and I just broke up after about 3 years. I miss her alot it hurts me not to be around her we have broken up before and we have gotten back togther but this time feels diffrent she usally calls and we ...

I married in haste, and now he has changed for the worse

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I feel kind of weird writing this but I have no one else to talk to and I seriously don't know what else to do. I am 20 years old and just got married Oct. 9th at a courthouse to the guy I was in AIT training all summer with (for the army.) H...

Is this something that happens with military men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up due to his stress level and the upcoming tour in Afganastain. He said that he loves me unconditionally but doens't know if he is coming back, he is scared and that I should live my life and move on. He told me to gog away ...

I know she loves me and this is just mind games she's playing. How do I win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Never wrote like this before so here goes. I left my wife 3 years ago, I still loved her but the relationship was one sided, I left to see if she cared, as it turned out she did not want me back, leaving her and four kids. So to cut a long story sh...

I want to end it with him but I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my man for around 2 years, and its got to the stage where i've been mulling in my head for months that i want it to end. I truly do, i know this and i know it would make me so much happier if i could. But i can't! He lives near Sou...

I've tried everything too make her fall iin love with me again... help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I have been married for 9yrs and we have been together for 14yrs. We have a 12yr old son beautiful home. Gave her everything surprises, gifts, parties, vacations. We were head over hills about each other, but we also had financial problems at ...

My boyfriend has to leave the country to look after his parents in 2 months time, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - dear friends, I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months.we had really good time together and it was just understood that we will be together in long run. But now he suddenly said his parents are old and they need him so he has to l...

I want to tell this new younger woman what a jerk this guy is but I'm scared of losing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - i've been having an affair with a married man. he is now divorcing his wife and i found out he is seeing a younger woman. i followed him home from work the other night and he ended up going to her place. i want to confront her and tell her what a ...

I so want us to get back together and be exclusive but he doesn't know if he can do this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend and he was crushed. A few months later, we still were talking/rekindling things. I spent Thanksgiving break at his apartment with him, and we realized we are totally not over each other. We had agreed to sleep with other ...

I can't just be his friend... it hurts too much...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 years old and me and my boyfriend split up about a month ago and i thought things were going to be fine. I started seeing this other lad and things seem good to start with. Then all my feelings for my ex came back and i split up with my ...

Please help, I need to get this idiot out of my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi , Yes iv written before when my then boyfriend was being bad, distant and cold. He kept calling i rejected the calls and avoided the texts. then he turned up at my doorstep a couple of days later begging for anothr chance and I gave him one (de...

What are the chances that we will be able to resolve this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - My relationship of 4.5 years had developed some problems a few months ago. I think we just got a little too settled and were arguing about some petty things. Then things got much worse, and it turns out that my fiancee had begun talking to an old ...

On and off boyfriends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - okay i have a big problem. I have been in a relationship for six years on and off, i met this guy the summer of 2005, when my boyfrind and i broke up we became good friends and he really liked me, I lost contact with him for like a year and 4 ...

I feel there is so much still left unsaid between us, where do we go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. My ex and I were together for 6 years, all lovely at first but he was going through a divorce at the time which took a toll on him individually and us as a couple. It didn't help that he can be verbally...

I feel like she is using me and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - My ex-girlfriend of one year and I recently broke up about a month ago. She knows I want to fix things and get her back in my life. We still text everyday and there is no resentment towards each other. Over the holiday weekend we met at a bar with ...

He used to talk about taking vacations together, now he doesn't answer my calls. What happened?

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30 November 2009 (F) - Hi I saw this guy that I use to work with about 5years ago. When we worked together he was married, but when I saw him, he told me he was divorced.He asked about taking me on a date. He called me the same night. The nights leading up to our first da...

Will she ever get over her divorce and show that she loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I am not sure what actually should i put here...I am so sad, confused and depressed that it is all mixed up. I am in a relationship with a woman 2 years older to me. I love her a lot. She is divorced and I have never been married. She has this ...

He wanted sex and I said no, so he broke up with me. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi friends, I need to talk to you,I would like some advice and but I don't want to go into full detail, but hopefully enough for you to help me. I had been dating this guy for 2 months until tonight. He ended things, because we were not havi...

Why did he break off the proposal? What can I do?

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30 November 2009 (F) - I had a boyfriend for about a year and a half. I loved him, and he said he loved me. One day he poposed. I said yes, and everything was just great. Then, about three hours ago, he called, said he didn't want to get married, didn't want to date me at ...

My ex and I are friends, so why does he keep pushing me away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up a year ago, but we have remained friends. He keeps telling me that he loves me but that he can't be in a relationship for various reasons. We are not sleeping together, nor have we since we broke up. I'm smart enough n...

Is it too soon to see a lawyer? He left me 2 weeks ago without any money!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - my husband walked out 2 weeks ago. we were just fighting everyday. we have been married 11 years but together 20 years. i love him and want him home but he wont even talk to me. he came by last week to get his stuff and told me he loves me,hugged ...

I feel so empty and hopeless after our breakup. How can I get through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Hi, this is marcus, I'm gay and I'm having such a hard time trying to move on, my boyfriend decided to end our relationship 5 months ago, and I still love him and miss him so much, he was really rude on our last talk, it was really heartbreaking. ...

I ended it because I felt it was all happening too soon after my breakup, thing is... I miss him sooooo much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I recently seperated from my husband and I met someone else quite soon who swept me off my feet, I have now ended that relationship because i felt it was too much too soon and I couldn't cope with it all at the moment. This man was so nice to m...

Confusion here!! Why did he just stop calling me out the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) - Hello everyone! I'm having this problem and would love you guys help with this situation I'm having. First off I met this guy that's a year younger than me, and I'm 22 by the way, and from the first time we met he was up front with me about his ...

Back with my ex gf, and nothing's the same! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I got back together with my ex (were together 4 years)after a long drawn-out breakup in which we both had rebounds. We both made mistakes, and we both are willing to address them. She acts much differently now though: passive, unenthusiatic, ...

This is not what I want... but I love him, why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Sorry about the details of name being conor and being male. A friend set this up for me. I'm actually female! Anyway my question is: I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months. We've had several split ups but always 'kissed and made-up'...

Is is wrong to want to remarry again so soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I am married to man that i dont love before,i want to be honest i marry him because i want to have a good life,but in 4 years beeing married i am not that happy.i tried to love him, i do my best to be a good wife even my feelings for him is not real ...

I kept it all in the familiy and slept with his brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I slept with my current Boyfriends brother about 3 years ago, at the time I had broke up with my boyfriend because a)he moved in with his pregnant gf b)he hit me with my daughter(his 1st kid)in my arms, c)cheated on me with 3 different girls. ...

He wants space but wants me to wait. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Hello, I am writing again to ask advice from anyone who can help me. a couple of weeks ago I broke up with my partner, of 12months. He was having a lot of problems with minor depression and drinking, and was honest enough to say I can do this. I...

So why did he do this? Why was he involved in these sex sites, and connecting to women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three and a half years now. My man was a very moody person, but I, being passive, could usually take it. Like every other couple, we had our ups and downs. A year ago as I went to use his computer, I saw that he ...

How do I break up with a girl who adores me? I'll have to see her every day!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - I am in a serious dilemma.I am currently in an unhappy 3 months relationship. I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really adores me and she is planning out our future together and i am so terrified at breaking her heart and ...

Husband can't decide if he wants me or just the kids. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I have been married for fourteen years with 3 young children. My husband recently left me saying he does not love me, has not loved me for years and put up with me only for the children. He says horrible cruel things to me which make me really ...

Things changed for him when we moved in together, he went and I am left holding the bag

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend since February. things were going great. he came to my mums wedding, held my hand when i was in hospital recently and we moved in together 5 weeks ago. he's an only child and has lived away from home before now but i...

If I say we can't be friends, will he then chase me for more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (?) - Okay so my ex and I went out for a year and broke up a year ago. I was the one to leave the relationship and he agreed. I tried to get back with him really hard a couple days after the break up but he didn't want to take me back. He also said he ...

My feelings for him are so strong, I want to be more than just friends with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago. (He cheated on me and lied about it. Needless to say - if I never saw him again, I wouldn't mind at all) Two or three weeks ago, while at the bar, I met another guy. He's a student at the ...

The distance isn't working out and he wants to break up with me but I just can't do it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. we've been at it for almost one full year and i am COMPLETELY attached to him but recently the distance just hasn't been working out. We fight a lot and he's officially tired and bored of me. ...

I miss her so badly, but should I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I need help. A week ago me and my girlfriend (im 16 shes 15 and we're both female) broke up, as she had sex with another guy at a party whilst very drunk. We'd been togther on and off for about a year. What I dont get is that a week before the ...

He still tells me he loves me even though he has a new gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a year broke up 3 months ago due to him having feelings for another girl.he is now seeing her but still texts me every day and tells me he loves me.why would he do this??...

How can I move on and completely forget this man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I had a short affair with co-worker and end up to a big fight. We became close to each, send SMS and phone each other. He was married with a kid and I'm single mother with 2 kids. He is very vocal to his feelings and running afte...

I broke up with him because of his manipulative ex, but now I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I have a very complicated situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy. Now before I actually met him he had this female friend, I knew this girl was secretly in love with my bf. So he and I were just friends in the beginning ...

I love him really inspite of how he treated me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - hello! i just want to share with you 0n what i experienced, honestly because i really d0n't understand.... i have 24 at age going 25 next month. i have a live-in partner for 3 years and having him helped me lot to changed in a way that i am befor...

It just hasn't felt right since she decided she wanted a break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - I've been with my gf for almost a year...we had been friends and hooked up several times in the past...we've known each other for about 5 yrs...a few days after we started dating she got a dui and lost her license...she moved in with me almost rite ...

Breaking up is hard to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Well, I was in an eight month relationship. It ended on November second and I was devastated by it. He said he doesn't want his stuff back. But if we're broken up, what's the point of me having it? Everyone I have talked to has said that he'll be ...

What is the cure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - I need to know is there a cure? My girlfriend and I broke up last June. I thought I was fine and over her, I do not want to get back together with her or even see her again. But for some reason I found out that she is dating again and has a new ...

I need support from you for this heartbreak I feel...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - Hello everybody. I'm a long time reader first time poster. So i've recently been dumped by my girlfriend of 2 and a half years (on saturday in fact), and i'm struggling enormously to get over it. I know its still soon but my head is swimming and ...

Her boyfriend wants her to cut all contact with me even although we're now only friends...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - I was with my ex for over 3 years, in which time we became best friends. Her ex use to always cause trouble with us, asking her round to his at 2 in the morning and hooking up with her friends that kind of stuff. Im not a jealous person and I di...

Should I give this some time to see if he comes round?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My ex and I were together for over 3 years and broke up. After a year of no contact I still had feelings for him and contacted him and he said he can't jump back into this and it would be like starting over and he doesn't want something serious ...

What to do? things are constantly changing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - My fiancee decided to end things 10 days ago, the reason being that there was a disconnnect, something missing, and that she couldn't go forward with a wedding. We never fought about anything important. She explained that she had to end things, ...

What can I do to prove to him that I'm for real this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I am 23, me and my boyfriend (26) have been on and off for 5 years, i say on and off as ive dumped him now 4 times....it boils down to me being easy led and people tell me hes to nice hes to quiet bla bla and i was young and felt i was missing out ...