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Archived questions from: 3 November, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

He was abusive and now he's clingy. I want out, but how do I deal with the emotional blackmail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Ok I don't even know where to start. I've had a boyfriend for just under 2yrs. The last 6 months he's been different...like taking me for granted. He wouldnt take me seriously, didnt want to hang around me, would make fun of me and my weight and ...

Boyfriend's best friend has interfered with our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we have been taking it slow. Recently his best friend came back to town and is thinking about moving back. He is with us all the time. I don't mind, but... Things he is doing creep me out. He calls me all the time. ...

Is my ex leading me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have split up after 4 years, of being togeather. we are not just a dating couple, we lived togeather, raised his daughter togeather, bought cars togeather. everything was about us. he split up with me because he says he wasn't ...

I'm confused! Do I love my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Ok well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. I live in Illinois and he lives in Pennsylvania. I know many of you will say it's a long distance relationship and it doesn't mean anything, so just quit it, but it's not that ...

While I love the way things are, I want room for more in the future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Ok here goes I'll try to be brief. Im 39 divorced with two childen in a relatioship with a divorced guy no kids who lives an hour away. Weve been together over 2 years having broke up several months back as he had never said he loved me and didnt ...

We just broke up after a month of dating! What happened?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - ok PLEASE PLEASE HELP!! me and my gf have been going out for like a month now. She just broke up with me, she still has feelings for me... but she said it didnt feel right... in the space of two days she didnt feel right, something wasnt the ...

If I leave my girlfriend, will she let me see our son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been together for a year and a half. But, we consistently have problems in the relationship, and the love just faded a long time ago...anyway When I let her know whats wrong, or if I have a concern regardin...

I will seek help, I am obsessed about my ex-girlfriend. Do we still have a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - I've posted about my situation numerous times. Brief recap. Dated for a year and a half. I started of as a confident dude, then started losing confidence, low self esteem, etc. My ex is beautiful. She broke it off, but we still continued to hang...

My ex keeps contacting me. What is she playing at?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - havne't heard from the ex in 2 weeks. I've dropped off the face of the earth and avoided her. Sunday night i get the text message. "I have a book, movie, and a bowl belonging to you. Let me know if you want them". She has had these items for over a ...

Is it Mistake Identity or is my Boyfriend Lying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but things haven't been easy. I realised i didn't want a future with him for cultural reasons which I told him. He said its not a valid reason but it's fine and that we don't have to break up just because ...

Do you think that he is texting in the hope we get back in contact and get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - hi me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago, i didnt want it to happen but he said it had too due to him needing to sort out his life. he has a lot of debts plus we live some distance apart. he told me that the decision will haunt him for th...

Will he ever come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and at my ropes end. I got out of a really serious relationship about 2 years ago. I gave it my all and when it ended I felt I couldn't get emotionally attached to anyone for a very long time. I dated randomly but cared about no ...

She broke up with me, is seeing another guy and yet says nothing is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend recently broke up with me after 4 years and 2.5 year old twins. she started talking to a guy she just met and im losing my mind. she said nothing has been going on and i called him and he said the same. but she continues to talk to ...

I am VERY happy with my boyfriend, but still mourn the loss of my ex. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Im 23 Im having a really hard time getting over my ex finacee. I was with him for a 1 1/2. We loved each another very much but he had some insecure issues. I let my mother get into my head and i left him with a ring in hand and a broken ...

I'm losing sleep over my lost love! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - im 16 years old she 16 years old, i love that girl to death but shes in love with someone else, we dated in the past and broke up, i been in several relationships after that but everytime i kiss these girls i close my eyes and see her, i want that ...

Is it normal to act differently after a break up and reunion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - me and my ex recently got back together,after 2 and a half months of no contact ( my choice) he called me one day and told me that he still loves me and misses me alot and if he can have another chance, i agreed! since we have been back togeth...