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writes:I am in a serious dilemma.I am currently in an unhappy 3 months relationship. I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really adores me and she is planning out our future together and i am so terrified at breaking her heart and also we go to same collage so i would face her literally everyday after i break up so what should i do. please help me out Reply to this Question
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reader, prime05 +, writes (29 November 2009):
prime05 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your considerate suggestions.....
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reader, prime05 +, writes (29 November 2009):
prime05 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your suggestions. You really helped me out...
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reader, Frenzotic  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 Unfortunately avoidance is hard in this situation. However you really need to tell soon before she keeps dreaming bigger and bigger...the sting for her would get worse if you let it drag.
You need to sit her down and tell her "Listen, I don't think it's working out. I don't want to fall out with you but I don't believe we're compatible" etc...break it to her gently.
It will hurt her, thats expected from all relationship breakups but be glad in the knowledge you told her sooner rather than left much later.
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reader, savvy  +, writes (28 November 2009):
Well, that is a hard desicion when you know that you will see her every day. The thing is, it is better to tell her how you feel now rather than later. If you are feeling this way only after three months then it probably isn't going to work out between the both of you. If you are unhappy with the relationship then you should break up with her, it will help you and you wont be lying to her. Even if you really cant bring yourself to completely break up, just tell her you need a week or two to yourself. She is already planning YOUR future if that's not what you want, tell her.
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