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writes:I am 23, me and my boyfriend (26) have been on and off for 5 years, i say on and off as ive dumped him now 4 times....it boils down to me being easy led and people tell me hes to nice hes to quiet bla bla and i was young and felt i was missing out etc.....we finally got back together 4 months ago and i love him so much and i now realise he is the one, but what can i do to prove to him to let him know im for real this time and he says he trusts me, even though he knows i have slept with other men while we have broken up.....hes a great bloke and i dont want to lose him...do you think i have messed this up forever?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 November 2009):
 Don't know, have you? Only he can tell you this.
You would have messed it up with me, but he isn't me. Ask him.
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reader, Jay_Jacks +, writes (26 November 2009):
 I don't think you have messed this up. Have you spoken to him about why you have split in the past?
You need to reassure him and tell him that you have realised that he really is the one you want to be with. Flatter him a little. Maybe cook a romantic meal, candles, take a bath together. Make a bit of a fuss of him. We all love to be taken care of once in a while.
In the past you clearly haven't had much consideration for his feelings and emotions. Maybe a gesture like I mentioned above will allow him to see that you really mean what you say and a small romantic gesture will help to show how much he means to you. Don't just do it once though, every now and then suprise him with something considerate.
I wish you the very best of luck sweetie!
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