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36-40,
*overrrgirl
writes:I broke up with my boyfriend and he was crushed. A few months later, we still were talking/rekindling things. I spent Thanksgiving break at his apartment with him, and we realized we are totally not over each other. We had agreed to sleep with other people, but I found out that he was actually almost seeing someone else, even while telling me how much he still loves me and wants to get back together. This girl is also kinda involved with someone else, so it's not very healthy. I told him that he can't have both of us, and that I'm sorry for hurting him but I do want him back. He says he "doesn't know" what he wants to do about either of us. I can't bear to lose him again...what should I do??
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 Nothing, there isnt much you can do, you have told him you want to get back together with him, you are aware he is interested in somebody else, you have told him he cant have both of you, and his response was that he didnt know what he wanted to do about either of you.
So, do you hang around waiting for him to make a decision, or do you get on with your own life? The ball is in your court.
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