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writes:Never wrote like this before so here goes. I left my wife 3 years ago, I still loved her but the relationship was one sided, I left to see if she cared, as it turned out she did not want me back, leaving her and four kids.So to cut a long story short, I started to move on after a year trying to win her back, I started to date again and found I could get dates easily, it gave my ego a great boost so I started seeing lots of girls nothing to serious with any of them until (why I am writing).I met someone who was not really the sort of girl I am attracted to i.e. not tall blonde blue eyed shallow I know but trying to be truthful, this girl was petite brown hair, older then me but boy did I fall head over heels in love with her, and I know she felt the same, from that moment on I never contacted any one else or wanted to, we never argued we done everything together, I know she is the one.After about 6 months the ex wife started to interfere text phoning using kids against me, I moved in with this girl she took me and my kids with open arms, but the ex kept interfering, I was getting grief from both sides so I foolishly left her, one thing led to another and I slept with the ex wife while I was not with her, bad mistake. The ex girlfriend came looking for me again and we got back together it was great but for the ex wife blackmailing me that she would tell my girlfriend about what I had done. Eventually my girlfriend found out kicked me out, to cut a long story short my girlfriend had me back, we have been together two years both very much in love, all was going well until one day my ex wife went round and said I needed to concentrate on my kids more as they need me more.The next day my girlfriend said leave and never contact me again, I was on my knees my whole world fell apart, I done all the text and email begging with absolutely no response, I gave up on that and now 7 weeks later with no communication whatsoever, she text me asking if I had receipt for a fire we bought, bringing all the feelings back I feel for her, I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her, I replied hours later text sorry no, then the next day I text I hope you are happy now. Help me please what should I do? I think she loves me? I have read all these mind game help things but I don’t want to do that as I want her to love me the way she did. Probably don’t deserve her but I love her.
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reader, angel hands  +, writes (30 November 2009):
Hi there, my heart really goes out to you!! form reading your post, it seems to me that your ex wife got qiute jealous that you meet another lady and were happy in your life, then when the lady who loved you for the last few years found out what you did, really hurt her and asked you to leave, she was devasted at this, she genuinely txted trying to see if you did have that receipt but i wouldnt honestly think that she wants you back!! you have to understand how would you feel if the role was reversed and you found out about her with some one? ,your heart would be broken in 2 and i can asure you you wouldnt take her back!! things happen for a reason and maybe in the near future things might get back to normal, be patient and wait and see!!
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