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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my man for around 2 years, and its got to the stage where i've been mulling in my head for months that i want it to end. I truly do, i know this and i know it would make me so much happier if i could. But i can't!He lives near Southampton and I live in Wales. We go to separate uni's and it's always me making the effort: ringing, visiting, being spontaneous ie. sending letters and little things, letting him know that I miss him. He has never been that kind of guy, I don't expect the same from him. But recently I wrote a lil list about the pros/cons. He makes practically no effort, I have talked things through to him countless times, and EVERY time he sighs, says 'f*cks sake' and tells me i am being negative. He doesn't compromise or agree to make allowances to make me feel better, it's all about convenience for him. He is selfish in the bedroom, is never romantic in the slightest and I can't even remember the last time I got a compliment. It's really getting me down, we have split up before because of uni and I am blind for getting back into it again. How do I end it?
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 Be upfront and honest, he obviously is taking the relationship for granted so just break up with him and find someone better.
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