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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He went from dating me to just being friends with me and now...he's ignoring me! What is going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I finally started going out with this boy who I liked for a couple months. We seemed to really connect; we hung out a lot and always laughed and smiled when we were together. But best of all is that we could talk about anything together, including ...

My army guy deserted me years ago and now...he's back and wants to be with me! All these feelings are coming back..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i have a big problem when i was 16 i fell in love with an armyboy we would spend all our time together when he was on leave he was 3 years older then one week he never came back and stopped answering my calls i found out he had got married 6 yrs on ...

Should I take this guy back after he dumped me??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hey, i was wondering if anyone can help me. i went out with this guy for about 3 months and then he dumped me and on valentine's day. my friend introduced him to one of her friends and he started going out with her about 2 weeks after he dumped me ...

Can I ever win her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - Help. I'm 35 and I'm so confused. I felt i was being neglected by my g/f whom at times didn't seem interested in me. I felt emotionally disatisfied and told her. Our love life was also non existent. She went away, evaluated our relationship and we ...

His mates tease him about us and it's harming our relationship! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hey i have a real problem ok ive been out with this guy 6 times...and it hasnt worked out for more than a week because his mates keep making fun and saying crap like 'have you f**ked her yet?' and he didnt want that. ...

Do you think I can encourage him to give it another try, before he dcides to end it with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I am currently gutted that my bloke has told me he wants to finish things. We have been together for 5 years. He has always had periods of moodiness, but this time I asked him to try and talk to me about how he is feeling as I was starting to ...

Just 'sex buddies' and he dumped me! Having a hard time moving on..any tips?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I'm 18 and since May I have been the 'bed buddy' of a 29 year old man I met on the internet. I grew attatched to him. I had feelings for him. I wanted to tell him how I felt but didn't get the chance because he was busy. So weeks passed and I didn't ...

I having a hard time with the pain of breakup-I want my bf back! How do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Heartbroken, help?? I broke up with my boyfriend of 3years, 2days ago. I love him so much, but he isnt giving me all I need, I feel like Im the one that needs and loves him more than he needs me. He works long hours and I get that hes tired but I ne...

We snogged and she took it seriously. Now she's being real clingy! How do I tell her I just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Theres a girl i've been friends with for about a year now. Shes a bit fragile and I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what to do. A couple of Fridays ago, we both were pretty drunk and ended up having a bit of a snog. I just took it as a one...

Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships? I am a 33 year old attractive and intelligent woman, who has (unfortunately) had the worst luck when it comes to relationships. I've been broken hearted more times that I care to rememb...

Found out he cheated on me a week before we broke up, but want to still get back with him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've heard from a close friend that my ex boyfriend cheated on me about a week before we broke up, kissing a girl in a public place with onlookers (one of them being my friends bf). I'm in the process of trying to get over him as he has a new girl, ...

He has a pregnant gf now and I can't get him out of my head! What should i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6636 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - This guy and i have been friends for a while and for the last year became closer. He would call or text all the time we would hang oiut on a daily basis. and i started to have feelings so i hinted to him thst i had feelings so then he just moved. no ...

I wnat to break up with my bf but it will break his heart. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I have been going out with this really lovely guy for almost 2 years, But recently I have started to have feelings for my best guy friend instead of my boyfriend. I know the right thing to do is to break up with my boyfriend, but I know that he ...

I just break down and cry sometimes, is this normal???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hey guys, My gf broke up with me around 2 months ago, we've been together for almost 2 years. Im 22, shes 21 and we moved in together after just 2 months when we were stll together. I loved her so much, i still do but she doesn't have feelings fo...

Left our spouses, but now he doesn't know what he wants....what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6636 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I got married August 2006 after living with my partner for 5 years, our relationship was more a convenience that anything else and I always had strong feeling for someone who worked at the same company as I did. Having been married for 8 months I ...

Should I break up with my gf of 2 months? She kissed her ex because he is depressed and lonely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi there Ive been going out with my gf for 2 months now things were going gud. I live 3 hours away so i do get to c her that often mayb once a month. Last week i went over and she told me that he xboyfreind had kiss her. She did not like it but ...

Will he forgive me? Can we still end up being friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - i ran upstairs as fast as i could, i need to find him it was my last chance and then in the classroom i saw him standing in the corner, he's eyes glisten in the morning i was so thirsty inlove for him i ran to him holding his hands but was trying to ...

What should I do, if I want to have the best chance of my gf coming back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi there, I am getting the sense that my ex-girlfriend's current relationship is coming to an end. I alwyas felt that it would as the guy was the complete opposite of me, had little in common with her, and was of a different religion and she's from ...

After celebrating our 5th anniversay together..he just picked up and left the next day! I am so distraught..how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been crying for a week now and I have just started to cry again now I am writing this note. I have been with a man for the past 5 years. In the first couple of years, I did not take the relationship too seriously. However, he w...

My unhappiness over our breakup has caused me to drink a lot!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - Two weeks ago I split up with my boyfriend and I still can't stop thinking about him and it's getting me down all the time and I am so unhappy. I recently started drinking as this makes me happy. How can I go about getting over him before I start a ...

He left all my belongings in bin bags outside my door! What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - need some advice plz, i phoned my bf yesterday to ask him what time he was coming to pick me up and he said he would pick me up at tea time which i said that was fine. so at 7.45pm he still hadn't picked me up so i phoned him again and he was in the ...

He said he thinks I'm lovely...so why did things go wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6637 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I have been divorced for 3 years and have not wanted to get involved with anyoneuntil 10th Sept when a man came into my place of work. We chatted for some time, and some 2 hours later he phoned me, saying he would like to see me and left his mobile ...

HAving a hard time dealing with our breakup. Any tips or thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - my girlfriend broke up with me because she said that her feelings for me had gone i still love her so much. its been about a month since she broke up with me and i still feel the same way if not stronger with my love for her. she said that we can ...

He dumped me to date other girls..but now claims he loves me and wants back in my life. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - to all cupids, me and my bf went out for about 3 months then we got into a big arguement which ended in him dumping me. we stayed away from each other for a few months then he emailed me saying he wanted to talk. so we talked it turned out that he ...

His new gf is fat and busty. Should I be insulted that he chose her over me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - My ex has a new girlfriend. She's fat and ugly, massive bust, and not very similar to him in personality. I'm slim, average looking (although since we broke up I've been getting a hell of a lot of offers from guys!), my chest is quite small but in ...

She wants her space and freedom but still wants my money

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - ok now i really don't know what is going on... Me and my gf (ex now...) broke up 2 months ago, she said she wanted some space and that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. I love her dearly, and treated her with all my love when we were tog...

I no longer feel physically attracted to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, we met at university where we were studying for the same degree and we got together 6 months after my previous boyfriend and I split up after a four year relationship. When I graduated last y...

Well, I'm no saint

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - Subject: Almost 20 years married, no sex for almost 8 - ready to finally leave. I never thought I'd be in this dilemma. I just hope this experience will help someone. I've been married to the sweetest and kindest woman I know for almost ...

My fiancee online dating mistake, has me wondering ..if I should marry him? What do you all think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - My partner and I had an argument that lasted over several days. We've since made up but whilst using the computer I just found out that whilst we were not on speaking terms, he registered with a dating agency, advertising for another woman. ...

I broke his heart and left him. Now I am heartsick at the idea of him finding someone else! Why am I this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I was with a guy for nearly 7 years and was so happy with him. We moved in together and things started to change after about a year. I started to notice things about him that i could not stand and i began to feel bored of the routine and the ...

Our relationship: In a rut. That's what I told her and now she's dumped my ass

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - My relationship with my g/f is in a bit of a rut and the other night i pointed this out to her. We love each other and I don't want a split but would love to make it work. Anyway, i was over critical of the relationship and of my g/f. She is very...

He just calls me up when he needs me and it's confused me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I've wrote on here before but here's the general situation. After 3 months of being perfect my bf and I broke up for 2wks because we had each kissed someone else (I had moved away a month prior to this), we were back 2gether for a week, then I ...

My son's father came back in our lives and now he's dumped me again! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - i was in a 3yr relationship from 13 to 16 with Aaron i fell pregnant and he left me when i was 4 half months pregnant it destroyed but i had our beautiful son i moved on and met lee and i was with for 3yrs until 2 weeks ago i ended things he took on ...

Do I stick it out with this current guy or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I last posted that I didnt trust my bf because he was communicating with his ex who still have feelings for him. Well lately i've drifted as far as my feelings. I want to have kids and get married and he already has kids and i'm not sure exactly how ...

I like my friend's bf and he likes me! Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - hey i need help! i used to really fancy this male friend of mine and i know that my friend did as well so i decided to set it up for her and now she is with him but i still really like him and he isnt happy with her and keeps making passes at me. if ...

My friend is having a tough time getting over an ex! How can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

26 October 2006 (?) - What advice can i give my friend about getting over her ex?...

She's going to make herself sick, as she can't let go of her ex bf. How does she ease the pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I need help with giving my friend advice about getting over her ex. she's really down on herself and she gets in a really depressed mood when she thinks about him. He's currently in another relationship and no matter what i tell her about not ...

Still too hung up on my ex...it was a horrid break up. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - i went through a terrible break up this year and found my life to be shattered. i lost friends, people i considered family and numerous material possesions. i lost my future, i had it all maped out and it now seems to have been cruelly snatched away ...

To be with him he thinks I should leave my faith and join his!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been on for about a month now. He is very kind, spiritual and pure. But that is the problem really. He expects me to imitate him and has strict standard that i really dont think i can keep up with.I really di...

We broke up and he saw how upset that made me - has he asked me out again out of pity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6641 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - hey... me and my boyfriend split up just over a week ago becase he told me he felt uncomfortable because im 2 and a half years older ... after a day or so he kept askin me if i was ok becuase to him i was acting stange.. and he told me because ...

I was thinking of dumping her but she dumped me first..now I am shocked and gutted! How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - A few days ago i told my g/f i was unhappy and stated a few reasons. I told her she didn't make me happy, but i wanted to work at it and not split. Now, after 3 days she has come back and said " you are right, i agree, i thought i was happy , all ...

My new wife ended up being a nightmare--how do I put this horrible marriage experience behind me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, well I have been here before and some very kind people have given me some very good advices. my story is very sad, it is like what it only happens in the films and I can't get over it, I think I am going mad. I married about si...

How can he really be over the relationship after just 2 days???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Is it really that possible for my ex to get over our serious relationship after 2 days after we broke up? The day after we broke up a friend of ours said that you could tell that he was bummed but 2 days later he acted like there was nothing wron...

Should I arrange to meet up with the ex again or will I be risking heartache?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Do I arrange to see my ex? I am about to move back to the area I happily lived in for 5 years with my ex. I originally moved away when he left me because it was so sad being there without him but I actually missed my "home" as I've grown to see it. ...

I don't love him anymore but he is the only good thing is my life...would it be wrong to get back with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - 2 Weeks ago my bf and I agreed to break it off. I agreed because I thought that he was the reason that i was never happy anymore, and i felt as though I had lost my identity. We've been single for 2 weeks and after the initial 3 days or so when I ...

His ex is making our life a living hell...what can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi all, I have asked for advice before. I feel i am going out of my mind. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years now. We are really happy, apart from his ex. She just wont let go, even though she didnt want him. She keeps making up ...

He left and hasn't given me a satisfactory explanation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - i have been in a relationship for four years. We finally moved together three months ago, now he left because he said it is to much pressure for him, but diddn't really explain. He says he loves me and misses me but still hasn't said he wants to ...

We keep spliting up and getting back together...work at it or time to move on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - My girl friend an I have been together for two years and we keep breaking up and get back together. should we try to work things out again or should we move on? ...

How do I get over him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - This guy and I were together for 2 years but were talking for 5. And we broke up 7 months ago for complicated reasons, we still talk once in a while and he's been talking to another girl, but I still can't get over him. I've tried everything. I even ...

He denied calling her until I showed him the evidence and he is still contacting her!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - i found out my BF has been texting and calling a girl for upto 6times a day, when i confront him he says it was a lie and when i show him the evidence he said she was a friend. i want to finish with him but he is begging for me to take him back but...