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writes: i have been in a relationship for four years. We finally moved together three months ago, now he left because he said it is to much pressure for him, but diddn't really explain. He says he loves me and misses me but still hasn't said he wants to come home. He also says he will call me to explain but never does I want him to come home what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 October 2006):
 Sometimes when a relationship comes to an end the person ending it either doesn't know the complete answer to why just something doesn't feel right nomore or they are not telling the whole truth as to spare your feelings either way we don't always get the explaination we deserve and even though we sometimes need that in the help to come to terms with the end of the relationship or to use to help work on to get the relationship back if he isn't going to give you the explaination nothing you say or do is going to make him give it.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (24 October 2006):
 You've been in a steady relationship for four years, he moves in, freaks out and leaves. Hmmm.
Well, it seems like you've got a solid relationship if you've been happy together for four years. Maybe he just freaked out at the sudden jump in committment. Maybe it was just a jerk into reality ("oh God. We're living together. Next is marriage, then babies.... by moving in with her, I am committing the rest of my life to her."), which can freak a lot of people out. Cold feet.
I'll bet he genuinely loves AND misses you, and he just needs some time to sort out those "manly" thoughts. He needs to get a hold of himself. If you two are really based in love and compassion, he'll come back to you for sure.
Don't push him, don't pressure him, just keep lovin' him and be ready for when he's ready.
Good luck, girl.
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