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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Boyfriend gaining weight, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is gainign weight. I'm not saying it to be harsh, I'm saying it because I'm worried about his health. Everytime I mention it he gets all defensive and goes 'you should be the one telling me I look great.' I don't know what to do, please ...

How can I become more confident, especially in my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - I really need some advice on ways to boost my self-confidence. I'm approaching 30, so I think I should be able to function in an adult relationship, but my lack of confidence is threatening to hinder or even ruin things with my current boyfriend. ...

I agreed to an open relationship, he said we'd talk about it once I was back off holiday but still no word....should I mention it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok, so I've been seeing this guy for the last six weeks. 4 and half weeks ago, he said he could only be in a relationship with me, if he had the chance to have sex with other women otherwise he wouldn't be happy in the relationship. so I said I ...

Is it normal to want to explore women but not be interested in them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - I want your advice and insight. I'm straight, I have a boyfriend but I often have fantasies of having sex with girls and I really enjoy watching lesbian porn. It feels weird to say that, but I feel like it's true. Or...maybe it just really really ...

How should I propose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - So I'm sure i found the love of my life. We've been friends since May of last year, and been dating since December. I know it's only been a short time but I know he's the one. I'm not one who ever wanted to get married but for some reason I want to ...

Why did my married collegue keep taking off his wedding ring at lunch?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Hi ! I just had a business lunch with a male colleague. During the entire time, he kept taking his wedding band on and off and twisting it too. It was not very subtle and a little distracting. What does this mean?...

I'm considering confronting this bully from my former workplace

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I encountered this irritating co worker at workplace 2 yrs back . We had mutual friends though whom i got introduced to him. He appeared real friendly at first. Later he and i were made to work in the same assignment with another senior member (a...

Being with me isn't what's right for him, but encouraging him to move on hurts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I lost my husband just over 2 years ago. A young man befriended us during his illness, and took care of me after his death. He came round every evening.He listened to me, made me laugh. He started flirting with me a bit - then more. I couldn't ...

Do you think I should lie and tell my family that I have a job, or should I just tell them the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I'm nervous about going to a family party this weekend. I'm unemployed, and my family members have really good jobs, and they seem posh ( i'm not saying that in a bad way ). They live in different parts of the country .I am from a very small town ...

What are the biggest reasons for divorce?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I was wondering what are the biggest reasons for divorce. Or I could call it cause for divorce. My husband is not intimate with me anymore, Is this very common after 20 something years of marriage? I know ,there are some marriage, what was ...

Looks don't matter, or, are men really this shallow?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Well, I know that people always say that looks don't matter to guys, or that they're not the most important thing, but are they just being polite? 'Cause I read an article and it really made me lose a bit of hope in men... http://livingw...

Negative thoughts are getting in the way of my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hi, For the past year or so i have been having really negative thoughts and i am always questioning my looks and personality, i never feel good enough for my boyfriend, i feel worthless and ugly, i hate the way i look and i feel like i don't des...

Is wearing a sheer or see thru bathing suit OK?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (of many years) asked me to remove the lining from a couple of my bikini's, so that when we go to the beach they will be see through. I did this to one of my darker suits, the results being not too dramatic. More noticible on top, but ...

As hard as I try, I'm still not doing as well in college as I wish I was!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Ok. So i know this is one of those standardised question but I have to ask. I have lost all confidence in myself at college. Nothing seems to be going my way. I spend ages working and studying at what I am doing in college but it never works out ...

How do I find the courage to approach and ask a girl out to the Prom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - I have recently tried to find myself a Prom date for my senior year. I have ahd the toughest time finding one because my old friend group fell apart and the few girls that I know have already been asked and the prom is still another month and a half ...

What are the biggest problems that most people have to deal with in a lifetime?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - What are the biggest problems what most people have to deal with in a lifetime? In my family we have so much problems , that it is hard for me to see, if everybody got problems like that ,or it is out of the ordinary to have them,like that . ...

Could the erection problems be because I'm actually gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - I am 22 years of age, relatively fit and healthy. From an early age I was interested in girls and have had several serious girlfriends with a really healthy sex life. I broke up with my last girlfriend three years ago and it took me a while to get ...

Not quite sure how to present ourselves/our relationship to the world?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - my husband and i have been together for 9 years( married for 5).We are now having somewhat of an open relationship for the last year and so far everything is good. We have made out with other people a lot of times even in front of each other, went ...

Why do girls find me intimidating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I'm posting this question because these girls comments have been bothering me quite a bit.I was on this random forum and I get a lot of comments people saying that im very pretty which is hard to believe to be honest.Anyone one of the ...

Dumped for a rich guy: was girl being shallow or practical?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - Yeah so a couple weeks ago this girl I was seeing for a few months. Really pretty girl, my friends even said he was hot. I'm an average guy, maybe a 6 on a scale of 1 to 10. I make a decent living but def not rich. Anyway, to make a long story short ...

Awkward situation at work, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles, I'm looking for some advice about an awkward situation at work. There's a new guy, X who recently (approx 3 months) started working at the same place as me. He's 22 and acts very loud and confident but seems to be insecure and ...

Any advice to keep me going through this break up, or any tips on how to stay strong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I broke up on Saturday. It was so abrupt I've been in such shock ( the gist of it being I thought he was the one, he didn't feel the same anymore so I left) So far I've been doing ok, quite up and down but generally al...

I think he behaved so badly as a defence mechanism...is he worth it anymore? Should I try to keep working on this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Am I trying too hard? Okay, I have major trust issues--so much to the point I never liked anyone who showed me too much affection, I saw it as clingy. Even though I'm very emotionally needy. Heard of abandoholism? Anyways, I finally decided to let ...

Boyfriend shouts he loves me during sex, what does this mean? And what is the difference between making love and sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hi All, I would like some opinions please!! the last two times me and my BF have had sex, it seems different somehow. He kept telling me he loved me when we were doing it. When a guy says this during sex, does it mean he loves you , or loves th...

Could my new male friend help me on my road to recovery from my past with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Well I just got out of a relationship.. and for months he would send me mixed messages, I love you, or you're too attached and need to let go. It was getting crazy. I was his sexual partner for awhile but unlike him my emotions ran deep and it was ...

I don't think I'll ever see my co-worker again. Should I leave him a note or forget about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I want some quick advice please as this is make or break should I do this or not. I started a fun kissing thing with a guy I stated a new job with. It didn't come to much as he has a girlfriend. But i have really fallen for him. I was off sick for 2 ...

Why aren't men more loyal "til death do us part"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - I know that Shakespeare writes that man always has "one foot on shore and one on sea," although he says it more poetically, and he continues that women must say, "Hey nonny, nonny!" and try to accept man's nature. However, not to disagree with the ...

Met an aspiring actress, got on so well with her but found out she plans to sleep her way to the top!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - Right so last week met this girl a stunner at a local pub. we got on right away and i started seeing her. everything was going just fine until we started off talking about careers and she revealed that her plan is to sleep her way into roles! I was ...

How do I get my boyfriend to start showing other people we are together so they know not to mess with our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Hello guys I need a mature advice of dealing with this situation. I am in a LDR. There seem to be a trust issue that I have gotten over after I did all my homework and realize that my man is not physically cheating. Hey I have friends too in my area ...

I love him to bits but he is hurting me all the time! Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years, but lately we are having a lot of arguments. He has started to become friends with these other guys, at first I kept telling him to go out with them because I didn't want him to feel lef...

She says I suck in bed because my penis is too small and I'm not very good at having sex with her! What can I do to give her the best sex she's ever had?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - Hi I have a really big issue with my girl Basically she says I suck in bed that there is only one position that she likes that gives her pleasure but not nearly enough to satisfy her. She thinks it's because my penis is too small and since I lo...

Stressed and unhappy all the time, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - i cant put a finger on what my issue could be and i dont know how i can talk to someone about it, my problem is i cry a lot and get lonely. I am afraid of staying alone because i will think a lot sometimes i cant let go of things people did to hurt ...

I trust my boyfriend with my heart, but I can't trust his "friend" whatsoever. Should I be worried that something will happen between them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Here's my situation: I've been officially dating this guy for a little less than a month, though we've been together for about a month and a half... When we first met we instantly clicked! I couldn't take my eyes off of him, and from what everyone...

Should I break my 'don't date clients' rule for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - I'm a tattoo artist by profession and I believe that ethically I shouldn't date any client...But am I wrong? I'm absolutely crazy about a girl who's getting a tattoo off me in a few days...I've been refraining from asking her out on an actual date ...

Post abortion guilt is now setting in

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - I had an abortion last November. I had been going out with this guy for a few months, the relationship had all happened very quickly as the boy I was in love with, who I had been seeing but never was officially with for three years got a girlfriend ...

Is he abusing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years has been verbally and emotionally abusive. I have been devastated but he says it's not abuse. Again today he shut off the cable, the Internet and the phones. All meanwhile he is calling me a slut, dumb bitch, stupid and my 10 ...

Question for the guys: Why do married men flirt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I have a question from you guys. Why married men flirt? They want to get in to your pants? They want to add just a little flavor to their day? Or to see if they are still capable of attracting someone? So what is it? Why I am always a target, ok I ...

Is looseness a sign of cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - Okay I'm a young male around 18-21. My girlfriend lately has been very distance and when.we do have sex she feels loser. Is this a sign she is cheating?...

How does a woman stay happy regardless of whether she's in a relationship or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - People always say as a woman, you should not need a man to make you happy. I agree with that, and I think its important to learn to stand on your own two feet and be happy with your own company. But sooner or later, you will meet a guy. And if th...

Single, old and broke -- what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I am starting to feel like a bad person. Basically I am 31 and broke. I have no money. I work and have a job, but I have only been in it 2 months. I earn an ok salary, not great. mid £20's a year, which in London at my age is not great, but a...

My wife is matron of honor, and the best man is her ex!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - My wife and I have a question about weddings and what to do. My wife has this very good friend. After me, I guess you could say she was her 2nd best friend. She's getting married this summer. She asked my wife to be her matron of honor. My wi...

Why do I hate seeing my ex's having a good time and getting on with their lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - Hi guys, I was wondering why do I feel pissed whenever I see my exes having a good time and getting on with their lives while I'm stuck here dwelling on pasts reminiscing, I hate this because I'm the guy, I'm supposed to be having fun whenever ...

People give me nasty looks, so when they get one back they don't like it! Why is this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - I dont get it, People are rude to me give me nasty looks but then when i do it to them they dont like it. Well what do you expect? What you put out you will get back? If your nice people will be nice back. Why are people like that if they dont ...

Guys: would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modelling?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - I have been modeling for an online lingerie site. I was approached by a porn site for nude modeling... The money they offered was amazing! I told them I would NEVER do photos with a man or another woman... Guys: Would you date a girl if you knew...

I feel that I am one of the worst people known

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - I'm a little unsure of where I should even begin. I am 23 years old and I am married to the most amazing person I've ever met. We've been together for over three years, and things are pretty much perfect. We both have decent jobs, a house, two cats, ...

My boss's fly is always open!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - My boss's fly is always open. I've been told that if it's a stranger, you shouldn't say anything because it would be...strange. But if you know the person, it's fine, isn't it? Well, I don't want to make him feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. O...

What do you think about death?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - I had many death lately in my family. Very close family members died, from different causes. So it is very difficult time for me, and I have hard time dealing with it. That got me thinking of death a lot generally. And its funny , but I can't find ...

I get this feeling that I'm missing something big in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I have this overwhelming feeling, sometimes it fades and sometimes it comes back strong, but I can't ever put my finger on what it is. It's a feeling of something big is missing in my life. I'm always feeling restless, I always want more, I go ...

My wife agreed to introduce this third woman into our sex life to spice things up, but now I have feelings for her. My insecure wife is fine with other women but not this one, why doesn't she want me to be happy?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

22 March 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been married 14 years. Pregnant at 17 but in love at the time. Because of the diffucultys of being young parents we went through a lot of struggles. I feel this had a registering effect on some of our marriage because of the ...

What happens to a person with unique style but ugly characteristics?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

21 March 2012 (M) - I have a weird assumption in mind and I'd like to have people talk about it. It is about variation of choice in partners. Lets say there are two groups of people: 1)Ones that are relatively normal, are tolerant against ugly characteristics suc...