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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My friend stuck her used vibrator in my boyfriend's face

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - So recently ive found myself in a strange situation and its one i never thought i would expect to deal with in a relationship and i truly hope no woman ever has to deal with this. I know your all thinking you boyfriend cheated on you. Wrong. So it ...

Our trio has become a duo and I'm the odd man out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Evening folks, So, about two years ago, I went to this night school and I got on well with two other people. So well in fact, that even up to now, we're still close friends - and always meeting up together and stuff. However, as is expected with...

About to get married, but am I am settling? We're more best friends and I love him but not "in love".

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I have been in a relationship for the last 12 years. My fiancé and I have one child together. My fiancé has recently asked me to marry him and I said yes because I feel like that we should be married and thats what the next step is. For a long tim...

I'm married and had an affair with a colleague, but he decided to stay with his GF. I'm so miserable and crushed, and can't face seeing him at work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am married 6 years with a young child. 10 months ago I started texting with a guy I work with, who lives with his girlfriend. We had an instant connection and starting texting non stop. We fell in love...always wanting to see eachothe...

Will my ex's new lesbian partner leave their same-sex marriage and go back to liking men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I posted a question here recently and have another one. I'm a lesbian and my ex left me for another women who has only been with my ex. And they got married after 6 weeks. Do you think she can stay married to her, or will she go back looking for...

Why can't my ex accept that we're not going to be together anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - This guy that I have been knowing for many many many years, we use to see each other. He was a great person when I first met him then when we started going out he took me on ride that I wished I had never got on. This beast was nothing but a woman ...

My boyfriend never wants to socialise with my friends. Is he being selfish and want can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - Ok my boyfriend of 3 years never wants to do anything with my group of friends, it always has to be his. For example tonight, we were invited to a NYE party with my friends weeks ago but he has been hesitating about going to it. I have asked hi...

How long to get over a break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - He was the third bf. My first ex was my first love - we were together 2 years and I got over him in one year, the second I got over in one month. But this one, we were together just around one year but I can't get over him at all. I was strongly i...

Should I respond to ex's new GF's message?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship a few years ago which lasted two years. Now we're just friends, although we don't keep in touch, we do meet up whenever we happen to be in one another's cities. Recently, his current girlfriend for about a year ...

Short with small penis - what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I’m a 22 year old virgin male – cause I only want to date when I am financially stable. My problem is that I’m short (5'4) with a small penis (3 and a half inches erect). I look like a hobbit. Plus girls always say I’m cute and sweet, which ...

I like my neighbor. I want to tell him that I like him. Will this work?

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30 December 2012 (F) - i live in a dormitory and i like my neighbour… I have a reeeally hard time to tell if he likes me there are some signs but he loves to touch and tease other people (like my best friend who also lives there and she has a bf since 4 years and he k...

Is it wrong to have wanted compliments - not dinners?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Is this wrong to think like this? My ex did alot of stuff for me paid for meals, drove me places etc but he didn't make me feel special in a sexual way. I feel like I would of preferred him to make me feel sexually special rather than take me out ...

Questions about cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I am kind of surprised when women get cheated on and they weren't expecting it. It worries me, has anyone here ever been cheated on by someone who didn't have a reputation or someone who has never cheated before?...

I want my BF to grow up and save $ - Am I controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He doesn't have a car or a license. So I drive him to and from work and everywhere else every day except on his days off. He pays for gas, most of it, and buys a few groceries since I stay with him at h...

Is it legal in Canada to marry your cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - i want to marry my cousin a girl of same surname as mine in canada. is it legal this in canada to marry my cousin?...

Knowing who and what is right for you....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4325 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - “How do you know someone is right for you”? If most of us knew how to answer this question, you would tend to think there would be less questions posted to this site. Answering this question successfully does depend on a large degree of self-a...

Help me give advice, is her guy drawn to her because he needs her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - If a man is 39 years old and has his own house that he gets behind on payments with and the only thing he does is sit and play video games and watches movies when he's not at work or at his mom's house where she cooks for him and does his laundry. ...

In love with my step mom's step sister but it's a secret. Curious what to do and say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - Ok the situation is I have a STEP mom who has a STEP sister and her and I believe that we love one another. Through the family we believe family. But, at the same time we are no blood relation what so ever. Is it right or is it wrong? I don't kn...

Why are women so confusing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - Why are women so confusing? Why can't women ever just say whats on their mind? This past semester I met a nice girl in college and I would text her regularly. We would talk about music, movies, sports and whatever else was going on with school. I ...

I want to date. But I'm also carer for my mother and sister. How have other carers been able to juggle studies, caring and me-time or even a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I hate starting these off but basically I'm 17, I have only ever had 1 boyfriend and that's because I'm a carer for my mum and sister, my mum has COPD and my sister has cerebal palsy. Over the past few weeks I've started developing a crush on this ...

Is it ok to purposely mislead or lie about your past to get someone to commit to you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - Ok I want to ask this and give my opinions on this subject. First let's use some scenarios. #1guy has a past of hitting women, or criminal past, but has not been in trouble for years he's "changed" as some would say. #2 women has a past of chea...

He did the chasing, I was confident he liked me but he seems to be acting like a sociopath? Was it all a game to him? Help me understand his actions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I met a charismatic quite popular guy on a night out when I was a bit drunk I'm 23 and hes 27. I’m always louder and more confident when I’ve been drinking and we hit it off. He asked me to meet up again and we got on really well, although he ...

Holiday blues. Why do I feel more alone than ever, and without a partner, especially during the holiday times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Why is it that I feel more alone over the holidays? I have family and friends, yet I long for the warmth of a man. I feel like I will never find a man and have that marriage I so long for. I'm 43 and never married. Something BTW, I always wanted....

How do you know if someone is right for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - When you've found the one if there is such a thing, do you question it? or little things about them that just don't seem like an ideal fit with you. I was in love a long time ago. crazy, stupid, love. I just adored him. (I'm over him now, and don...

How do I deal with people who make fun of my height?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - any ideas about how to deal with people who make fun of my height? usually i would just walk away and ignore such people but then i go home feeling i should replied them in kind. my major problem is i cannot get negative comments abt my height out ...

How do I come out to my transphobic parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - I am a FTM transgender and gay, meaning I like men. I am currently dating a questioning but that is not the problem. This is my problem. How do I come out to my parents as transgendered when they're transphobic? This is very crutial as I want to ...

Is pursuing a masters degree with a baby realistic?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone! I'm looking to hear from people (especially women) that have raised a family while pursuing their post-secondary education. I'm currently 25 years old and a full-time university student working toward two degrees (simultaneously)...

How do people so young achieve so much in a short time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I know i'm going by television here, but i'm sure this is a reality for some people. But i've always wondered how is it that people in Los Angeles for example, live in these massive houses and always have these parties with so many people!! But the ...

My bf likes to sleep with other people and doesn´t mind if I do either

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I recently met this guy online who has since told me that he thinks we were made for each other. I was totally into him from the second we first met. We have mind blowing sex and he says he has never loved anyone or anything until he met me. He a...

My boyfriend says he found another girl that gives him happiness. Can I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Have been dating my bf for 3yrs. Recently he started complaining about my attitude, saying am too insecure, demanding, and that he has found another girl that gives him happiness and there is nothing I can do. Truthfully, have been kind of rud...

Torn between my ex and the new guy. What should I do for the best?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I have been torn between to men now for a few months, but I think I have decided to give my ex another chance since we have has such a long history together and we have children together. But I don't know how to let the other man go, because I feel ...

Everyone I know is married, has babies or is in a settled relationship except me! Am I behind and missing out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm having a little age crisis I guess haha. I've just turned 20, and I don't have one friend that doesn't have a baby or isn't married. Everyone I knew from school is married, had a baby or has been with the same guy/girl for a couple of years. ...

Suspicious of my wife. I keep a voice recorder in the house and heard her and my younger brother being over familiar. I am confused.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - Hi all, Seeing other posts, I think I can get opinion here. Please suggest for below a thing that occurs in my home. Me and wife, 28 and 24 yrs and are married for 3 years. We have good relationship. But due to some suspicion, I kept voice rec...

Is my boyfriend taking advantage of me financially? He also makes me feel insecure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - First of all I'm sorry for the long read I'm guessing this is going to be but I need help in what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend now for a year and well I have basically lived with him for that whole year. I give him £75 a week for rent...

How do I move on from the heartbreak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - So, it's been a year since my ex dumped me after calling me the one and only for her and I still can't sleep and don't know why. I want to move on with my life but i just seem to get trapped in the thought that I can't trust a girl that is single ...

Husband is never around for me or our baby. Should I wait or hand him the divorce papers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I'm young, this I know but like most people my age I don't have all aspects of my life figured out and i'm not sure where to go from here. I have been married for about 2 years now and I have a 8month old baby with my husband, but now i'm not sure...

Our marriage deteriorates day by day. Sex is almost non-existent. Problems beset us. What can you advise? Because we need help now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I am having difficulty sleeping with my husband. We have been together for the past 6 years but our relationship seems to deteriorate by the day. In the beginning we couldn’t keep our hands off each other but these days the very thought of bein...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

I'm not attracted to women but I made out with a female friend. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I have never questioned my preference....but I am confused on what this may mean. I had my lesbian friend over a week ago and we would make sexual jokes/ gestures to each other but I was only joking as she knew that I wasn't being serious. At one ...

Women's perspective on a guy's height please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

24 December 2012 (M) - Ladies, I'd like to hear from you how you feel about height as it relates to attraction. Is it a non-negotiable for you that your man be taller than you are? What about when he's taller than you, but not taller than you in heels? I'm 5'8" and l...

I want to break up. What he is doing is very wrong. What can I do and how do I deal with his threat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - Modnote: One this first occasion only your text speak was tidied up. Do NOT submit in text speak again. I need your help. I have this bf who I only know him through chatting He claims that he love me so much and that he's ready to get married to m...

Engaged but having second thoughts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - Just got engaged but now Im having second thoughts, and these thoughts are not leaving me alone. Won't get into details why Im feeling like this, but let's just say I don't feel as loved and appreciated as I think I should feel, especially after ...

How can I forget him? I miss him when I don't see him.

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23 December 2012 (F) - The guy at work looks after me so much, he protects me and every one notices how protective he is of me. People who have known him for years see the difference i have had on him, he is more happy, cares more about his appearance but also gets really ...

How can I learn to love myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - How can I learn to love myself? I'm 24, and I have always been on the reserved, shy side... I'm don't mnd that a lot really, but sometimes I feel lonely because I find it difficult to connect with people. I'm mostly OK with my personality and ...

What should I do about my mum having a relationship with a married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I recently found out that my mum has been having a relationship with a married man. My parents are divorced so its acceptable for her, but he is not. Also they are related to each other which i find very wrong. His children go to my school and i'm ...

Is it OK to date the daughter of family friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

23 December 2012 (M) - is it ok to date a family friends daughter? my parents, her parents and my step mom where all friends growing up. My dad "got" them in the devorce. We lived togeather for a short time while my dad looked for some where to live. Then I hadn't seen ...

The affair was supposed to be just about sex!! He says it's getting too serious.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - This is probably a very old problem but I am married having a relationship with a married man off and on for the past 4 months. The relationship was under the understanding of just sex. I have been able to keep my marriage separate from anything ...

Is this guy just friends or does he feel more deep down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4356 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - How do you know when a guy likes you? I've been in my job for over two months and I am slowly making friends. There's one guy who i think is lovely but he has a very strict face and not every one's cup of tea. When he see;s im really stress...

My LDR girlfriend wants to see other people. I feel that she's playing games and sending mixed messages. Any advice/ thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

22 December 2012 (M) - Dear cupids, I need some reassurance on my thoughts. Here's my story. I was in a LDR (couple of hours away) for the past 3 years and we began to fall apart last few months. We visited a lot and had the utmost respect for each other. Loved each o...

What if I miss out on something great because in my mind I can't overcome fear of the wrong that could happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - Hey everyone,I dont normally talk bout the fact that i am single but im on a very self destructive path and im not sure how to get out of it. I am 29 i have just seen so much badness. People cheat all the time. Its so common. Its after making me ...