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Archived questions from: April, 2022 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Writing a love letter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

30 April 2022 (M)

age 18-21 - My gf and I have been dating for two years. I want to write her a love letter but need help. What to say? I would like our relationship to be more intimate. Can I mention that in a love letter? ... (46 words)

Should we wait?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

30 April 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. Since a few days, we've been talking about having sex. We really want to do it, but I don't know how to have sex and I'm also scared of getting pregnant. My friends say different things – some say do what your heart says, ... (61 words)

Why is the spa tech flirting with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

29 April 2022 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 26M and my 30F girlfriend strongly prefers me to have a completely smooth upper body. I find that I kind of like it and it makes me feel like a fitness model wannabe. I definitely like my girlfriend’s reaction. It is a win - win. To keep me smooth my girlfriend sets me ... (656 words)

Is 40 really too old to have sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

29 April 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband stopped having sex with after I turned 40. He told me that men with not want to have sex with me because of my age. He tells me that I am beautiful with a sexy body and a tight hole and I do not look like I am In my mid 40’s and I have been getting there is no way ... (549 words)

DUI dealbreaker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

28 April 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, Anyone ever deal with a S.O. getting a DUI? Is it a deal breaker? Its not rubbing me the right way. Actually I wasn't even dating her but she just got it. Now a week later she confessed she had feelings for me. I know shes going through the ringer with the law rig... (168 words)

Should I forgive my parents for the trauma they've caused me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

28 April 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - For the last couple of months, my relationship with my parents has been awful. Let me start with the fact that I was raised in a very chaotic and abusive house, however, things have been more calm for the last couple of years but still, my mom does disgusting things with men to ... (440 words)

My wife has an unusual business proposal

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

28 April 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I've been married to my wife for 8 years now; I'm 39, she's 38. We have an open marriage. No, not that kind of open marriage where it's open to other partners. The only open marriage here is one where both of us are open and honest about things. About the only ... (1087 words)

Am I being hypocritical about seeing married men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

27 April 2022 (F) age 36-40 - This is a question about the past... I'm just trying to understand if we're "born smart" or do we live and learn... I know I have learnt from my mistake. And if it is ok to forgive oneself at some point… When I was 19 years old I fell in love with an older man. He was in h... (624 words)

Do I tell my friend about her brother's interest in porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

27 April 2022 (F)

age 18-21 - I am a 16 year old female. I borrowed a lap top from my best friend's younger brother. He is 13. He has had a crush on me forever. He would probably jump in a volcano if I said it would impress me. So I used the laptop and did my project, but I admit I got curious ... (447 words)

Boyfriend and I broke up due to long distance. Did I dodge a bullet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

26 April 2022 (?) age 26-29 - My boyfriend (now ex) and I have been a couple for a couple of months, and have been dating for like a year and a half. (In person, I didn’t meet him online, I met him at uni) He went to an exchange program in February, and he isn’t returning until August. When he left I t... (810 words)

Family & Friends not supporting my baking business!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

26 April 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - When the pandemic hit - I like many others ended up having my hours at work cut drastically. I tried for months and months to get a full time job or another part time job to go alongside my existing job but with no luck. I have a mortgage and bills to pay and I’m si... (486 words)

Boyfriend and I are back together but why has he still not told his mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

25 April 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Just some brief background. My boyfriend and I were together for 7 years before we took a relationship break to work on ourselves. We have not seen each other for 2 months but he will be back next month. We have been having FaceTime conversations regularly while he ... (250 words)

What’s the nicest way to tell our good friends that their daughter is turning into a little tart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

25 April 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - Yesterday when my 13 year old son asked me to sort out an issue on his iPhone I decided to have a little snoop through his messages. It felt really sly at first but I’m glad I did because I found WhatsApp messages between him and the daughter of another couple who I’m good ... (684 words)

Am I been taken for granted

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

25 April 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there, I am hoping you guys can help me with something. I have been with my partner now for a few years now and we get on great. Last year, he got himself a dog and I genuinely love this dog a great deal myself. However, I can't help but feel that as of rece... (828 words)

My boyfriend does nothing but watch loud women on tv

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

24 April 2022 (F) age 36-40 - Hi there, I would like to know what others think about my problem. Firstly I would like to make it clear that in no way am I a jealous person but I do have my own morals and standards. I have been with my partner for about 10 months. In this time we have never been out... (229 words)

Fiance wants support but I am not sure how to help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

24 April 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. This question isn't about me but my fiancee. She was made redundant from the firm she worked for (in tech, a mom-and-pop firm with around 4,600 employees across three sites, ) in April 2013, which she'd worked there since January 2004, due to the economic climate... (456 words)

Wasting my time with this guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

24 April 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy and we texted back and forth for a few weeks, after we decided to go on a date. We kissed and everything went well, and we continued chatting and video calling. A week passed and he didnt text me following that I reached out to him and he said work commitments had ... (323 words)

Is he beginning to change his mind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

23 April 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone So, my boyfriend has always said that he wouldn’t ever want to get married to anyone. He says that he’s not really religious, and the idea of committing to someone in the eyes the government kind of scares him as it means you are financially tied together and all ... (319 words)

Can we save this relationship for the sake of our unborn baby? I feel like I’m walking on eggshells

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

23 April 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, first of all my thank you so much for looking at my question. I’m 29 and my partner is 25, I met him at the start of last year, 14 months ago. I’m not sure whether he is emotionally abusive or if we are just a bad match. I don’t want to break my family up unless ... (1593 words)

Addicted to soda

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

22 April 2022 (?) age 18-21 - My mom reprimanded me again over my addiction to soda which she sells. i steal and drink alot of soda about five in a day or minimum of two and my parents have caution and corrected me alot. i have tried to stop i had gone weeks and months but i bounce back. i started taking t... (214 words)

Intimacy issues have me feeling like I am in a rut

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

21 April 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - I seem to be asking quite a lot of advice recently! I am married to a really lovely man. We have been married 7 years, together 11. I am starting to feel unfulfilled and resentment though and I really don’t want to. My husband has kids from a previous relationship - I... (338 words)

Is my ex playing hard to get?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

21 April 2022 (M)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my girlfriend after many years together. I snapped one day after her complaints. I wasn’t in a good frame of mind. We gave it space and I met her again last week as I was in the area. She was star struck, giggling didn’t know what to say. We briefly spoke fo... (433 words)

What are signs of interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

21 April 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to a girl for the last 3 weeks. We met online and we have not talked about whether this is only friendship Or if we potentially want more. Some important information: - yes, we have met and hung out -we text each other everyday - she is usually t... (140 words)

Sex and kicking girlfriend to the curb

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

21 April 2022 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 23 NY new girlfriend of about 6 months says the first time She seen my penis it was not erect at the time she was very disappointed I asked her if there was a problem she j7st said it's so small Real ego booster she said he ex had a large penis she figure... (236 words)

Should I give up my singing career?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

21 April 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, its 3am and i cant sleep. I need really an advice. So here is the story. I am singer, more than 1/2 years of my life, this is already my proffesion and music is my life. Im now in my 50s and still active in music. Since 2020- 2021, entertainment is down ... (701 words)

Do we back off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 974 days ago

20 April 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - So this is quite a complicated blended family problem I have and just not sure how to handle this. My husband has 3 children from a previous relationship. His eldest isn’t biologically his, but his dad didn’t want any part in his upbringing, so my husband brought him up a... (319 words)

Would it be terrible of me to find and contact these guys and inquire about the possibility of trading stories?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

20 April 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all! So, I've been married to my wife for about 4 years now. Before we started dating, she was on a bit of a "wild streak" after her previous marriage ended. I'm completely ok with this and understand why. The thing is, I find myself turned on by imagining her with the ... (126 words)

My son's friend's mum left the kids alone at night

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 974 days ago

19 April 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - My 12 yrs old son went to stay over with his mate, I assumed the mum of said child would stay in but my son told me she went to her mates for drinks and left them till 2am alone in the house to do what they liked , my son has never been left alone in the night so I am not happ... (133 words)

How do my trainer and I deal with weirdness of his crush on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

19 April 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi. Call me Marcus if a name is needed. I am a 20-year-old college student in my third year as undergrad. I am on a 100 percent scholarship for swimming with stipend so I don’t have to work and just focus on school and swimming. My scholarship renews annually so I have to ... (1080 words)

Married but attracted to a workmate

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

19 April 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! So, I know I'm probably gonna get a loooooot of answers telling me not to be a slut and to stop acting like a baby and so on and so forth. I've read them on numerous other posts. But I would really appreciate some kind advice please. I am a married woman. I'v... (626 words)

My husband's ex travelled 90 miles to see him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 975 days ago

19 April 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello guys. Not sure how to deal with this problem involving my husband and his ex. On Friday afternoon, his ex had come to our house, I didn't recognize the woman asking for him, she said she hadn't seen him since 1995, and wanted to talk to him about something. She sai... (563 words)

Am getting social blowback admitting my virginity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 976 days ago

18 April 2022 (M)

age 16-17 - For this anonymous letter I am Calvin and my girlfriend is Susie. Like the real Calvin and Susie from the Calvin and Hobbes cartoons, Susie and I have always lived in the same neighborhood. Unlike the cartoon Calvin, I have always liked girls and had a crush on my Susie. ... (1656 words)

My First Love returned.. now it's messy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 975 days ago

18 April 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 36 years old. About 8 months ago, i met my first love where we dated back in highschool. We used to date in McDonalds, the local malls and he was my first love and first kiss. We broke up eventually. He got married to someone else. Recently, we bumped into each other ... (235 words)

Stepson using home as a hotel

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

18 April 2022 (M)

age - Please help, I am really struggling with my stepson. He is 21 years old, in the army and visits us about three times a year. So, no biggie I hear you say - but when he comes he stays for three weeks or more, we hardly see him as he uses the home as a motel returning only t... (143 words)

Husband addicted to masturbation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 976 days ago

18 April 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I had asked a question here earlier, for which I did not receive answers. I think I rather framed it very vaguely. Now I'm here with a follow up question that's more clear. I lost my mind at my husband the other day. He has been ignoring me sexually. We have been marrie... (697 words)

Can I encourage these people to just move away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 972 days ago

18 April 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - My new neighbors, a married couple, scare me! My husband and I are quiet friendly people. We tried to say hello when they moved in but they actually seemed annoyed we even spoke to them. Since then, they have done everything humanly possible to avoid ever ever having to i... (214 words)

Attracted to a female and confused about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 976 days ago

18 April 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always identified as a straight female. However, I've recently become close with an openly gay woman. I have to admit that I found her attractive at first but didn't really think anything of it. But as time has gone on, it's become clear that our friendship has clearly ... (206 words)

I am 13 and scared of sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 975 days ago

18 April 2022 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi I'm 13 and have a boyfriend who wants to finger me and have sex I've tried and it hurts should I be concerned that I will hate the first time?like will it really hurt? ... (43 words)

I don't know if I can continue in my relationship but I am scared of being a single parent.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 975 days ago

17 April 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Myself and my boyfriend have been together for nine years and have a 2 year old son. I wouldn't say it's been the best, or easiest relationship, and there has been issues in the past but we have had shared some good memories. There have been a few things over the past 6-... (579 words)

I only want to see my parents in a public setting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 976 days ago

16 April 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - Growing up, I did not have a good relationship with my parents and my brother. My dad had a temper and was a control freak. He also blamed others for his mistakes. My mom was a drama queen who freak out about everything. She also had to go to drug rehab twice. My brot... (368 words)

What is proper?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 976 days ago

16 April 2022 (M)

age 22-25 - Is it right to use love letter to approach a girl at first ?... (14 words)

Husband and game testing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 978 days ago

16 April 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has told me he wants to take on a second job, being a video game tester, eventually going into it full-time because he's getting fed up with the way his job is and the job market is right now. I've heard however, that it's all hard work and no glamor; he claim... (475 words)

Sister involved with married man. I am worried about her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 977 days ago

16 April 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My sister who's 28 told me that she's been dating this guy since November (when lockdown had well ended by then, but Plan B was in the news) and that he's married but had been in the process of divorcing his wife since September yet she refuses to sign the papers, even though ... (679 words)

Tired of being wary of husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 978 days ago

16 April 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 12 years this may. I once caught him taking herbal pills along with viagra. He told me he was too ashamed to tell me. We talked about my feelings of omission and lying and he quit. Now, I just found a whole envelope of viagra with about 10 ... (111 words)

I am seeing a side of my husband that I don't like

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 975 days ago

16 April 2022 (F) age 30-35 - Hi all. I am married to a man who has started showing me sides of himself I never knew. Prior to getting married, he was always apologetic if he offended me. After 6 years of being married, he has shown an arrogant side that disgusts me to say the least. I know some people may ... (251 words)

Son found nude photos of me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

16 April 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - My 14-year-old son recently came across some pictures of me that his father took of me back when we were teens.we have been together for a long time and got married when I was pregnant with my son. The pictures were in an old shoebox filled with baseball cards and other ... (168 words)

Needle play?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

15 April 2022 (F)

age 26-29 - My new boyfriend has introduced needle play and I'm wondering if anyone else has tried this. I am into new kinky things and actually enjoy needle play. He has done patterns on my belly, back, and my buttocks. It really is not that painful. He uses new surgical needles ... (56 words)

Should I have a breast reduction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 980 days ago

15 April 2022 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I have a breast reduction? I feel really awkward about this, I am 38G (uk size) in bra size and it's depressing, they are so heavy and yes they retain the shape and they aren't the worst and I understand that some women would love to have breasts this size but im stru... (302 words)

Why does he want me to swallow?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 707 days ago

14 April 2022 (F)

age - My husband doesn't get turned on by intercourse. He only gets turned on by oral sex and he wants me to swallow, and I really don't want to most of the time. Why is that so important to him?... (40 words)

Can a prostitute have romantic feelings towards a client?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

14 April 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - I am single and live not far away from the red-light district. To get to my appartement, you have to walk a while through this area. In any case, this is the shortest way. Since I come back late almost every evening, it is inevitable that I pass some of these girls on the stre... (535 words)