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writes:I am 23 NY new girlfriend of about 6 months says the first time She seen my penis it was not erect at the time she was very disappointed I asked her if there was a problem she j7st said it's so small Real ego booster she said he ex had a large penis she figured 8 or 9 inches Of course I couldn't get erect The next time we were going o have sex I made sure I was hard when I took off my underwear she freaked out and couldn't believe how large I am she will not even try vaginally sex wtf now I don't know what to do we won't have much of a sex life if I stay with her she tries to suck it but she's not very good at that I have to jerk off I just think ishould kick loose I can't believe she screwed her old boyfriend if he had such a big dick she is 18 it must have been the first time she seen a grower cause she could not believe mine grew so much thanks for reading and commenting -
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reader, QueenCupcake  +, writes (26 April 2022):
 The problem is, you two are far from the same page. She seems confused and honestly quite immature, which is fine, considering her age. But it’s not very nice to criticize your penis size, and as we all know by now, size doesn’t really mean much. But then she complained about it being too big… sshe obviously doesn’t know what she’s doing. She’s way too immature for a sexual or romantic relationship with someone if your age. Move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2022): I would suggest coaching. The practical is more demanding than the theory. It may help widen your horizons and help expand prospects. It’s quite inquisitely important to supply abundance of patience and good hearted ness. May I also add it is of paramount importance to pay attention to love requests as the suggestion of such events could give an indication of insight of the neurological system of an organism. The royalty aspect of the status of liberty is one that has questions thousands of members of parliament to ponder.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2022): Seems this relationship is pretty shallow. And all it is based on is sex and penis size. Superficial. And it seems the wrong relationship for you.
What kind of a girlfriend complains about her boyfriend or husband's penis size? Especially in a new relationship? That is so mean. And arrogant of her. How perfect is she? I am sure there is something about her face or body that is less than appealing. Tell her that her boobs are too small. Or she has too fat of an ass or droopy labia! See how she likes it.
A man's penis size is not important, as long as he knows how to use it. There are so many other things that constitute great sex, and if all she is concerned about is penis size, then she knows nothing about sex. I would tell her go find someone with a big cock and enjoy herself. She will see that a big cock does not guarantee great sex.
What the heck does she want? A big cock? A small one? She seems so confused OP. She doesn't want to have sex because your penis isn't big enough? then she doesn't want to have sex because it is TOO big??? WTF?
She seems incredibly immature and inexperienced. And has no idea what real sex is all about. Not the kind of person to start a relationship or even a sexual relationship with. You are not on the same page.
I suggest you tell her this is not going to work. She will just make you feel bad about yourself. She is not going to make you feel good sexually either.
She seems to have way too many hang ups to just relax, let loose and live in the moment.
You are not sexually compatible.
So, yes, it is the right decision to move on and find somebody who is more on your wavelength.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2022): I stumbled upon a real good BJ tutorial. I wish I would have bookmarked it. I believe it was a marriage sex prep website. It was tastefully (no pun) done somehow. A good looking 20's couple where the actors and a woman narrated what she pleasure provider was expertly doing. She demonstrated several ways. Use all, some or just one was suggested. He was pretty big.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 April 2022):
 No one is going to be great at ANYTHINg the first time they try it, or the second or third. Especially if they have no idea what they are doing wrong/right. She is 18 and you expect her to be some expert on BJs like a porn star?
She probably didn't HAVE sex with the ex either. Are you even sure she HAS an ex?
But she PROBABLY has seen porn and had a certain "expectation" of size. If yours is the second penis she has seen, then yeah you got compared. Was that dismissive of her? Yes.
Seems like she is not really wanting to have sex with you. She might have tried the BJ thing to AVOID vaginal sex with you.
To me, she seems like someone with NO experience at all. And that is OK, perhaps she should just have been honest about it? I don't think she is actually ready for sex yet. Nothing wrong with that either.
You are 5 years older than her, so maybe you need to try and date someone closer to your own age and find someone who is on the same level (experience-wise) as you.
If sex is more important to you, then yes end it with her, NICELY. And move on. Date women your own age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2022): Uhm...do you have a question?
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