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writes:I have always identified as a straight female. However, I've recently become close with an openly gay woman. I have to admit that I found her attractive at first but didn't really think anything of it. But as time has gone on, it's become clear that our friendship has clearly become more than just friendly. The sexual tension feels like it can be cut with a knife when we are together.Well, one night we went out for drinks, and she leaned in and kissed me. I kinda pushed her away at first because I was so caught off guard (even though I'd hoped it was going to happen). But I stopped pushing her away and let it happen. I really, really enjoyed the kiss. But now my head is all over the place. I've never liked a girl before and I'm freaking out. I'm unsure how to handle these feelings. On the one hand, I want to be with her all the time. On the other hand, I'm panicked because I've never done this before and it's so confusing! I feel like I'm giving her such conflicting mixed signals and I'm not meaning to. I'm just confused. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2022): Say pretty much what you wrote here to her. If she's a good friend and cares, she'll allow you to work through these feelings. Love is love, you have a great connection with someone. Don't overthink it, you really like her and are interested in a romantic relationship- life is too short to pass up an opportunity for happiness.
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reader, Claire Byrne  +, writes (19 April 2022):
 You need to be honest with her, tell her you need to speak to, go somewhere private to meet and tell her you fancy her, kindly ask her out on a date. Then, hold her hand and slowly kiss her lips and smile, .good luck.
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