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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Clean now and sober for 23 months. How can I show these people that I've changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

29 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was in my early 20's I began a bad habit that got me hooked on drugs (pills) and alcohol. I was able to hide it from almost everyone I knew. I met an amazing girl “T”, who had no idea what she was getting into and I thought I could just give up everything and things w... (270 words)

Would he ask me out if he isn't really interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - What is going on with this guy?. Someone I know is having an operation this week. He has cancer. He is in hospital at the moment. One of his friends sent me a text message yesterday saying that he hopes his operation will go well ,and I said I hoped it would too. I thoug... (196 words)

Could the abuse I suffered as a child explain my same-sex attraction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 24 years old. As a child and teen, I experienced sexual abuse growing up in Saudi Arabia. My mother is full Saudi and my father is an American military man. I was born in the U.S. and am an american citizen, but moved to Saudi when I was one and lived there until I was 18. ... (812 words)

Hardened intuition- trust or not??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My long distance boyfriend (we are in our late 40s) insists that he is fully committed to me, is exclusive and has plans for us to retire together In 10 years... He was married for a year when he was 19 then played the field as a partying bachelor. He talks about past ... (313 words)

I feel like guys don't want to talk to me unless I dumb myself down

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't keep a guy's interest after the first night, will someone ever stay around long enough? I meet a guy out in a pub or maybe a friend of a friend and I can hold their interest for the night but after a string of promises that I will get a text in the morning, it rarely h... (206 words)

Do you think this man will bother me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3735 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My brother in law recently tried match making me with a single friend of his! This guy started messaging me and things began to flow. He started off pleasant enough but the messages soon started to turn very flirtatious! He knew of me as I'd dated a friend of hi... (256 words)

It seems like he can't make time to talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for 2 years, currently we are in LDR due to his work. Its been days since he contacted me, he talks to me only once a week for few mins. I call him once everyday he never picks, if he does always finds reason to cut the call in few secs. Says he ca... (193 words)

Feeling resentment because of sex in otherwise great relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year and a half, and since we go to the same university, we spend most of our time together and are very close (she was my best friend before we went out). However, when it comes to sex, I am starting to feel resentful becaus... (350 words)

I haven't told him about the baby for fear of rejection

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - my baby is two weeks old. in all honesty, i had a lot of doubts and had actually considered adoption because i was so unsure about being a mother. everything changed the moment i met him and I'm happier than I've ever been. he's so perfect. i had a rough pregnancy emotiona... (439 words)

What makes a guy lose interest early on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Another men disappearing question..for the guys. What makes you lose interest in a woman before you have even gotten started?? I spent a little time with someone recently and liked him. He asked me out before and I did turn him down once but I had my own reasons. Reluct... (171 words)

No second date after 3-4 weeks of texting and talking...should I give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Last month, I met this guy online and we hit it off really well. I gave him my number, and we have been texting every day since … We went on one date, 3 weeks ago and it went great! All kinds of sparks, and he was very romantic and attentive. I really like him, and had assu... (592 words)

After we married I found out she'd been a call girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - A year and half ago i happen to know a girl through her relative. She was living in Singapore and i was living in UK. But we both were from Nepal(asian country). She was there since she was 8 or 9 living with her parents and two siblings. Her family was completely a typical ... (680 words)

I know he's a player but my gut says he really likes me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so here goes.. I met this guy in march just after i broke up with my ex and we hit it off straight away! its like we just had this little spark as soon as we met each other. I knew he was a player from the beginning and had commitment issues but because i was just out of a... (431 words)

Is he really too scared to get attached or is that just an excuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this could be a long question so bare with me. Ive written about this previously. I had a 'thing' with my boss who is now my ex boss.I knew him before I worked there. Its very personal as to how we met earlier on this year i was attacked quite traumatically (I won't go... (1139 words)

Can this be fixed? Broke up. Reconnected for 1 night. But says we're done as he can't trust me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice. I split with my boyfriend of a year a couple of months ago and flitted between getting back together and then not doing so. (I was going through a big depressive episode a and he was finding me difficult.) I also kissed someone while we were broken up. Two da... (184 words)

Is there any other way to handle the situation considering how strict my parents are?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello :) This guy really likes me and he even said "I love you" to me and I'm actually really into this guy. We started off really good friends and we found that we have a lot in common. We actually tried dating and it lasted for 7 months but a lot of things came between us. ... (316 words)

Sex with Guy at work. Do I try to dodge her questions or tell her the truth, and lose her as a friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So a few weeks ago I had sex with a guy that I work with, it was just a one time thing as we are just friends and I was leaving the job and we both wanted to have sex with each other. However now I feel really guilty as one of my close friends really likes him and I knew this... (249 words)

Has my GF moved on, or can I restart and save our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey friends..my gf has been annoying me for the last few weeks. she has also been spending time with a new male friend, because i refused to have sex with her last time as i was not feeling well. Is she teasing me or something else?please do suggest me. i want to save my rela... (56 words)

We've lost our mojo. He's no longer affectionate. How can we revitalise our 13 year marriage? .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupid. I have a relationship question. My husband isn't very affectionate and is embarrassed my romantic gestures even when I make them. We have been married for 13 years and I feel like we've lost our mojo so to speak. Couples counselling is out of the questi... (127 words)

How can I encourage this girl to want to show more interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm fond of a girl.. She is in my school and we've known each other for 5 years. I love her. Though she didn't know about this till a few months back. In grade 6, we used to sit together as our teacher had made it so.. I stood 1st then and she stood 2nd..but now we are in gr... (265 words)

3 wishes: want him to treat me better, be more passionate, and erase his tattoo. Too much to ask for??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He's wonderful man. We are both 25 and he's going to proposed me and give me that hint ( asking me about the engage ring that I like and accidentally told me that he's going to marry me next year). He's very concern with fin... (703 words)

I'm just having a really hard time dealing with my uncle's death and the guilt is pretty overwhelming at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, this isn't a relationship question but I've been using this site for over a year now and love the advice and help people give on here and thought you guys could give me some for my current situation. Unfortunately my uncle passed away just this weekend due to h... (150 words)

Should I reconsider? And try to work things out with him? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all so my boyfriend and I have been off and on for almost 2 years. Here recently we broke up and he moved on. He took his new gf around his friends like 2 or 3 times. Well he broke up with her 2 weeks ago and decided he wants us to work things out and build a relation... (207 words)

I don't know how to get past this, and I'm not willing to stay in this relationship if he wants to keep her in his life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

29 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I are together since our late teens, and before I met him a girl he wasn't even dating gave him oral sex. She is certainly not a pretty sight and I don't mean to be bitchy. He said he never felt anything for her, he just agreed to let her because when he initially ... (248 words)