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Archived questions from: 25 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Breaking up with an abusive partner..anyone else have that experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a rather long relationship, and am feeling like I'm finally looking at it for what it was rather than what I forced myself to believe it was. I felt unsafe the entire time we were together. Not physically. I mean emotionally. Any time my partner upset me... (711 words)

My cheating married lover has grown cold

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I got involved with a married man and quickly felt like we had incredibly chemistry. He kept telling me that he feels so connected to me. We met twice , had sex. That part was understood. But now the chase is over. After the second time, he seems to be distance. No more good ... (287 words)

Am I wrong for apologizing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I was recently at a high school sporting event and my spouse was going berserk! Shouting, pacing back and forth, yelling at the opposing team parents. He wouldn't settle down and I got upset and yelled GD SIT DOWN!. The next day on facebook, oh yeah, there's the letter ... (176 words)

What should I do about my secret obsession?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 September 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I can't get this girl out of my head. I've known her years and we talk now and then. I have a girlfriend who I really like but I know isn't 'the one'. I think about this other girl constantly and replay our conversations over in my head. I don't know what it is about her. I've ... (120 words)

I feel like my gf is better friends with my roommate than she is with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

25 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm currently in a relationship that started 3 months ago. She and I spend a lot of time together and we already feel very strongly about each other. She is over my place a lot and she has become good friends with my roommate. The three of us hang out together and I'm... (287 words)

Why is my husband so insecure about his size?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have great sex but he still thinks he is too small. It is a tight fit and I have to be really turned on in order for it to be comfortable. Even more so now that I am pregnant, my third baby his first. He cums really fast most of the time unless I go down on him ... (297 words)

My husband supports his grown children more than us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age - I have married to this man for 22 years and we have no children together but he seems to support them first rather then our home and things get put back. Am I wrong for being mad about this.plus his grown daughter has a job and a child of her own but still asks for help from ... (58 words)

After 7 years together if he's not ready for the next step will he ever be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years officially. We met at 15 years old and have been happy ever since. As we met in school we have the same group of friends and regulaly go out as a big group. Me and my partner rarely if never argue we are like best friends who have a ... (166 words)

How does a guy get over a fear of rejection for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 September 2014 (?) age 30-35 - How does a guy get over a fear of rejection for good? Ive dates three girls, one for two years, and the other two for two dates each. Asking them out was a huge thing in my mind. When I did I felt good, but I am really unsatisfied with how I do with women. In Contrast, my ... (234 words)

My straight friends sleeps in the same bed with me and masturbates. Why does he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

25 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm confused. I'm gay, my best friend is aware of this. It's not really an issue. He's straight. When we were younger, before I came out, we used to watch straight porn together. Which I don't think is uncommon for teenage boys. And, it never went any further. W... (205 words)

My fiance has lied to me and I've lost trust in her. Can this be fixed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

25 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My Fiancée and I have been together for over a decade and have had two kids together. Like most relationships, we've had our ups and downs. A lot brought on by me working away from home and perhaps not doing as much around the house when I get home, although I do help out. I... (722 words)

Should I Tell My Friend About her Friend Quizzing Me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently went to an event to support a friend. While I was there I spoke with two of her friends there who were a couple. The wife started asking me multiple questions about my friend including her work schedule. I simply said I didn't know her exact schedule, we have ... (180 words)

Is he interested? polite? I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - we hooked up on 2 occasions he spent the night we were drunk nothing happened just kissed and cuddled but i asked him to an event and he happily said yes, he then cancelled saying he was poorly and i never heard from him since. today i mailed him just casual hi hope your ... (103 words)

I feel like I can't compete with my boyfriend's threesome! Should I tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have gotten myself into a really, really stupid situation here. My boyfriend and I have been in a very passionate and loving relationship for about two months and I'll just skip the part where I tell you all how perfect everything else is. Otherwise I'd be... (365 words)

Do u think he's blowing me off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

25 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I would like some advice relating to this guy that I like. We have known each other a few months, through a mutual friend. We met up on 2 occasions at the club and he was complimenting all night and we ended up kissing which was really good :) the following w... (218 words)