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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We're no longer together but I was offended by his actions

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I went to a wedding recently with an ex bf. we didn't go as a couple but we went together because we were both invited, our mutual friends would be there as well. during the wedding I noticed him talking to this girl on the dance floor. then I saw the two talking again near the ... (239 words)

I hear less and less from my LDR

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I really don't know whether to stay with my boyfriend. We're in a fairly long distance relationship, about four hours away, so it's not easy seeing each other. At first it was fine because we'd text and skype all the time, but recently things have changed. He doesn't text me as ... (192 words)

We broke up in 2011 but I still can't move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't move on with my life. I break up with my ex in 2011 since then I never been able to move, I'm not interested in any men I attended counseling sessions but nothing helped. The fact is I feel lonely and need someone in my life but my heart belongs to my ex where it will ... (80 words)

Should I stay and try to work things out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age - I am engaged, but my fiancée is asking me to do things I don't want to do. I still love him and I want to be with him, but he keeps asking me to do things I cannot do. He likes for me to go to bars and dance with strange men while dressing very sexy. I have done this with ... (585 words)

I feel she was leading me on and then she pulled the carpet out from under my feet!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

14 September 2014 (M)

age - A long time female friend, (know her 50 years) and I both divorced. We date as friends. During one of our dates she talked about sex. She told me she hasn't had sex in 7 years. It kind of sounded like an invitation, so I asked her if she'd have sex with me. I haven't had sex in ... (220 words)

Should height be a factor in not picking someone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Should height be a factor in not picking someone? There's a guy I went out with recently, cute, sweet, funny, and we got along fine it's just that he's so short. I mean I'm short too but he's like 2 inches taller than me and I'm 5'1 I love heels and I never want to be ... (141 words)

What do you uncles and aunts mean when you say "children come first" if a childless person is dating or married to another person who has a child or children?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'd like to know, what do the aunts and uncles and others mean when they say: "children come first" if a childless person is dating or married to another personwho has a child or children? Does that mean the person with children does not have the same responsibilities and ... (112 words)

Should I try again and contact my ex after 30 years apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age - Hello 30 years ago I broke up with my fiancee when we were in our twenties. We had enjoyed 7 years together and shared lots of interests and he was a good, fun, kind, interesting and loyal boyfriend. But we had been together since our teens and, after 7 years together, both w... (451 words)

I'd like to discover more about this guy at work and have some fun. Can I consider that, and yet not hurt my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 1/2 years. I love him and that I could possibly have a life with him. But over this past year those feelings haven't been as strong and I've thought about leaving him at times. I have now found out that someone I work with and ha... (121 words)

My married female teacher is about 28 and she finds many opportunities to touch me. I like it. Is this OK? Does it make me a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a student, 19 years old, good in studies. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend. I have a teacher in my college,she is married and has a year old son. she may be of 28 or 29 years of age. she is a good teacher. she is very friendly, frank and kind. when i met her for ... (526 words)

Does he want to be in our child's life or not? His new Gf says he saves pictures of his son that I post on FB

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with someone for only a month before I found out I was pregnant. At first he wanted nothing to do with me or my child, but two months into my pregnancy he decided he wanted to be there, however, this soon changed a month later when he left me and found himself in a new... (182 words)

Should I move on and find someone new? Or should I find out why she broke up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

14 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to like a girl a lot. We were in a relationship. A long distance one. One day she just broke it off. Didn't tell any specific reason. From that day I have had no contact with her. Now I'm really lonely and need someone. What do I do ?... (54 words)

Can my mom and her new husband really change my name? I don't want them to!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

14 September 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - My dad die when i was ten, and for 2 years it was just me and mum. I still miss my dad. Mum made a new friend Dave, he is okay actually and i get along great with him. After a while we all started holidaying together and then Dave moved in with us. He is a nice guy and i like ... (213 words)

How do I change the feelings of indifference toward my husband? Is it just a slump? Or have I fallen out of love with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts and Uncles, I am in desperate need of advice. I have started to become indifferent toward my husband. He works a lot. 5 days a week from 530am-5pm. Right now hes also remodeling a house so hes gone all weekend. Right now we only have one "working" car ... (311 words)

What does he want from me? I rejected his FWB request 3 times. But I do have feelings for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

14 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, before asking my question, I'll give a 'little' background. I'll try to make it short :) Last year around winter I became closer to one of my friend's friend, and I fell in love, and after awhile he kissed me, and we started dating. I thought he actually like... (985 words)