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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is inexperience worse for men than for women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Why does inexperience turn women off more than the other way around? why is it that if a guy is a virgin and never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the vast majority of girls that are non-virgins and have had their share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship ... (129 words)

We've broken up yet again. Should I forgive or forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Advice please. My boyfriend of 3 years has just told me he want us just to be friends. We have broken up quite a few times in the yearswe have been together due to him accusing me off being unfaithful. For which i have never. Should i forgot him? or forgive him? ... (52 words)

What should I do about this tension between mom and I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've lived at home my entire life and recently graduated. Now that I'm working, I pay for my own things and rent to my parents for my room. However my parents kindly gave me a "discount" and so I don't pay for utilities. My sister in university recently moved to a new a... (308 words)

So many of my friends were my ex's -- how do I make new friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on making friends. About 4 months ago I walked away from a long term relationship which had become abusive. I was engaged to my ex and we had a life together with a lot of mutual friends we had accumulated over the years. My ex had a mental health problem ... (389 words)

My ex says if I date before my kids are grown he'll keep my property

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My last Question was in March about the living situation with my ex. Well the relationship could not be repaired and we went our seperate ways shortly after. We are still in contact having a child together, and we are in a legal battle over some property. I am trying to move ... (617 words)

If you've never had a girlfriend, does it get more hopeless the older you get?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

13 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - If a guy is past a certain age and never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, should he just accept and deal with the fact he will never get a girlfriend? Because the older a guy gets and is inexperienced, the more of a turn-off it becomes to women, guys who are in their late ... (80 words)

My B/f said he was 'glad' that I had found out about his cheating as it has really shaken us and allowed us to see what we were neglecting in our relationship. What did he mean by that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I just want some opinions or insight into this. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years, everything was amazing until around may. We started arguing all the time, we couldn't even look at each other without it erupting into an argument. Neither of us wo... (542 words)

Can I claim Housing Benefit in my situation and move out? Are there any free helplines I can call or people I can speak to about my situation at home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21, and my family has been abusive towards me ever since I've grown up. My dad used to be physically abusive (though my mum divorced him when I was at uni, and doesn't see him any more), and my mum and elder siblings have always been extremely emotionally abusive too - ... (473 words)

My boyfriend calls me and rants about things, is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm dating a man who likes to/ needs to "vent". This is what he calls it anyway. To me, "venting" has always meant something like calling a friend (or even talking out loud to myself in the car) and just saying what's bugging me. Just kind of getting it out. Almost ... (690 words)

His ex paid for his college and housing, now she wants him to do the same!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m almost 26 and my bf is 27, his ex is 29. A little background first; his ex helped him get through University as a full time student while she took care of the expenses of their house and his fees. When they split up after 6 years of relationship they apparently had a ... (472 words)

I want to break up with him but when can I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for a little over two years. At the moment he is away and working in the uk whilst I am in Germany. In this time apart I have begun to realise that I haven't been myself in this relationship. I constantly have my trust issues invalidated and this ... (156 words)

He is always busy and I don't feel he prioritizes seeing me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing my fella for a year now and it's going ok, but we both have very busy jobs and he lives in another town from me,anyway I wanted to see more of him so I suggested seeing him on a Friday night but he couldn't because he had something else on so I suggested a ... (132 words)

My boyfriend seems to be lying about porn for no reason.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Thank you in advance for reading this and answering to whomever answers. I've been with my boyfriend quite a long time now and I found out not too long ago he had been watching porn, I just looked at him and said what's this? And he looked guilty and said it was a stupid m... (269 words)

We have feelings for each other but he's leaving for Iraq soon.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically a good friend of mine is going to fight in Iraq an I've started getting feeling for him. We want to be together but we also both know that it's close to impossible since we already live so far away from each other. I'm confused an don't know if I should go for it or ... (118 words)

I know what I want to do, but how do I start this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - This is the only site I trust, and honestly the only one I know of that can answer my questions. This is different. It's about my future career. I'm sorry if this is too out of context, but I need to know. I'm in high school, and know I need to start planning for a career, an... (250 words)

I need suggestions for convincing my purely orthodox Indian family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - im in relationship from past 3 and a half years..... and we want to get married.... my parents are not at all getting convinced for this... im facing lot of problems in convincing them bec my mom cries and my dad scolds me as its a question of prestige here.... its be... (192 words)

Did I push this man too much or did he just get what he wanted?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - About four months ago a guy I knew from years ago became friends on facebook. We have mutual friends and I live abroad and he lives in my hometown. Immedtiately in becoming friends he told him he was separated from his wife and that he had a daughter but he wanted to take me ... (366 words)

Straight man is sending me mixed signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

13 September 2014 (M)

age - I am a gay man that has become good friends with a straight man. He knows I am gay but I think he is curious about his sexuality. He always says he is straight but he is sending me mixed signals. What do I do?... (48 words)

He rejected me but still flirts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - My guy friend had rejected me and when he rejected me I was really devastated but know he flirts with me and when I wore pants with ripped knees he kept touching my leg and tried to put his fingers up under my pants where my pants were ripped and he teases me.Why does he so ... (58 words)

All advice welcome: crazy in laws

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

13 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here goes! Please any answers would be grateful to you for advice! So , shortened down I met my partner and few months later we were madly in love and I was pregnant. I hardly knew his family but spent some time with them. They never made an effort to come to my house and ... (521 words)