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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Re-precautions of being a Turkish husband wanting to divorce wife with one child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Please anyone out there who could answer this question. What would be the reason as why a man with a child who claims to be separated from his wife, still wants to stay married to his estranged wife? He is of Turkish background. His excuse is because of his son who is only 10 ... (101 words)

Words of wisdom for starting a LDR? Boyfriend going away to college

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over 2 and a half years, and the time has finally come for him to go off to university in nine days. I'm a year younger, so I'm only beginning the application process at the moment. He's going to the bottom of th... (279 words)

Do I owe it to my ex to give it another try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf of four years about five months ago. We had a volatile relationship on both ends and even though I loved him, I was glad it was over. I felt free again. I started dating someone new about six weeks ago and we get on really well. We see each other once ... (266 words)

How odd is it that her pets are "brothers"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this girl Aimée for about 3 months. Met her at work and she's really nice, seems genuine, she's not judgemental or anything like that. She seems like she'd be a good friend. Here's the catch though, we were talking about our families and she said she had 3 brothers ... (349 words)

What does he think now that he's seen that I'm really not skinny?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so bare with me on this. I'm 24 and I have a "sex friend". We have been seeing each other for just over a year now, but I'm not a skinny girl, and you can see I'm not skinny. I'm a curvy 16 and I've never gotten completely naked with him. I've always had a vest top on to ... (243 words)

Tips for a fourth date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Background/Context: I'm a man (18yo) dating a man (23yo). We live in London and for the purpose of this, the person I'm dating is called John. We met like many online, through a well-known dating app for smartphones with a reputation. However, I consider myself diffe... (422 words)

Why does he trust me with his phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Having a little fling/casual sex with a foreign guy from Germany and on our 3rd date/meeting where he's giving me a lift to his place, he tells me to keep his phone while he drives. He doesn't text and drive though. I just found it strange. I don't usually like other people ... (77 words)

Did I give the wrong vibe on the date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - What should I do? Should I move on from this guy, date other people? So the situation is that I was dating a shy guy. He and I went on one date, and clicked. Before this, we kept on talking on Facebook and we got along pretty well. So we meet in person, and the date goe... (969 words)

Does no sex after pregnancy mean no orgasms either?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey i was wondering is it safe to have a orgasm through clitoral stimulation after having a baby almost a month ago? I know your not supposed to have sex until 6 weeks after but i don't know if an orgasm this way is safe, i keep hearing different things. Thank you... (52 words)

Any insight on adoption?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Has anyone ever put a baby up for adoption or is there anyone on here that is adopted? A family friend of my bf's asked us if we would be interested in having an open adoption. That way we could still be part of the baby's life. I'm just not sure if emotionally that... (74 words)

He tells me he's looking for a divorce, but ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age - Hi I've been seeing my ex boyfriend behind his wife's back for almost a year now. I was very much in love with him at one time. He dumped me and got married. We were together 13 years. He comes to my home and is very comfortable. He told me he was looking into getting a divorce ... (98 words)

How do I convince her that she's still my beautiful woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

3 September 2014 (M)

age - Hi, I am 60 years old and my partner whom lives with me is a very beautiful woman whom I love so very much who just turned 68. Although I reassure her each and every day how beautiful she is and how much I love her, she has an extremely low self-esteem. She doesn't... (179 words)

Is she playing games?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - A young woman hired me to look at problems in her home and while I was out to fix them she was nice and even flirty, I thought this girl may even have a thing for me but out of the blue she went to my manager who insisted to come out with me on every visit afterwards until the ... (136 words)

My husband looks down on me because I'm a housewife and he puts himself on a pedestal because he is the sole bread winner

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1805 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I do everything I can to be a positive uplifting person for my husband. I Build him up always say I love you first and I am the affectionate one. He can be affectionate but only on his terms. I can never do enough to please him he is always complaining about how he busts his ... (264 words)

How can I get him to miss me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for over a year now. We live together. And things have been good until now. He's acting weird. Like he went to spend time with his family and friends and they live like 45 minutes to an hour away and he said he wanted to just go and relax have time to ... (245 words)

Should I warn my assistant that the man she's chatty with almost had an affair with me and is married? Or is it best for me to stay away and let this happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago I got chatting to a guy I work with and we got close very quickly. We both had a crush on each other and both wanted more, well I did anyway. He made me send him photos, chatted about sex a lot and I did really like him. He knew I liked him, We met up for a chat ... (272 words)

Is my new love interest playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a new girlfriend about a year ago. She is coming out of a bad marriage. She went through a bad time including financially during which I was supportive, but lately she has re-established her career and is doing well. During this time there was always some romantic... (283 words)

The consequences of whatever's happened have left me feeling completely unsexy, undesired, unwanted and second best to the girls on the internet who my boyfriend masturbates to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Problems in a relationship, i moved a year ago to another country to live with the guy ive been with for 2 years now, we were long distance friends for 7 years before getting into a relationship, he was the most trustworthy, kind and understanding person i met. ive given up my ... (655 words)

I wanted to go slower than he did and asked him not to contact me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a couple of dates with a guy 18 months ago but he wanted the relationship to move faster than me at the time so I cooled it right off. We had both just got divorced and I wanted space to process things. We stayed in touch from time to time - just emails or the odd ... (385 words)

Should I walk away from the impending wedding or just give him another chance? My life is a total mess!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I been arguing a lot lately. We normally argue over the same things over and over again. Such as bills, wedding preps, punctuality and etc. Yesterday, he started to argue with me over my whatapp last seen and accuses me of cheating on him. I have never ever ... (249 words)

I don't like my best friends boyfriend at all but I don't know how to tell her I don't like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I don't like my best friends boyfriend at all!! She started dating him about 8 months ago and all he can do is get on my nerves! So he is currently in the army and my friend is head over heels for him...she loves him. So to the reasons why I don't like him...1) he is ... (530 words)

A man who is so afraid to lose me, he opted for lying

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a good looking turkish man over the nternet 6 years ago. The chemistry was awesome , we spoke almost everyday on all these years , unti I stumble upon his picture and his real name on facebook. Call it God's guidance , imagine after six years. He is married with a child. ... (335 words)

Can someone help me save my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I've been with this guy for the past year, he's everything I've wanted in a man and the one I want to spend my life with, at least that's what I thought. I lost my virginity to him and have lived with him off and on since we got together. We were getting along great ... (245 words)

How can I create situations that might help me to get my wife back? I cheated and she cannot forgive me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

3 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I confessed that I cheated on my wife, but she wont forgive me. I've read a few web pages. I understand that in order for it to work, she must be willing to try too. This is not possible for her now. She wont talk to me. Please help me think of how to create a situati... (294 words)