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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My crush made a fake ID, talked to me and then blocked me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

1 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone.. I am very depressed these days. I m going to discuss it rite now and would like your help. I had a huge crush on a girl when I was in 11th standard. But was very shy to approach to her and tell her how much I felt about her. I always talked about books n ... (326 words)

Are soulmates even real?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

1 September 2014 (?) age 41-50 - Hi everyone, my mind has been all over the place lately and i just wanted to ask you some questions about soulmates. Does anyone out there believe they have found their soulmate? Maybe you thought you did but then realised afterwards that they cudnt be you soulmate??? Or maybe ... (78 words)

Am I a fool to wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need help on whether I should wait for a guy or just move on. here is the story: I recently met a man at a summer job who I began to have strong feeling for. When i chose to voice these, he reciprocated them, saying he felt a strong connection between us. Despite h... (331 words)

I would like the power difference in our relationship to even out. Any suggestions on how to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing my boyfriend over a year ago, we've been official since December last year. Despite the fact that we have both been in relationships which have lasted longer, we have both discussed how this is our most serious relationship to date and plan to move in together ... (248 words)

Could my crush be gay too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

1 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been crushing on this guy for 3 years now. We met at University and became great friends instantly, we were even called a Bromance by our other friends. I always wondered if he might be gay, the "interested in" section on his facebook has been left blank (I lie a... (367 words)

Her family knows about my reputation -- how do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

1 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so I need some dating / making the parents like me advice. I was a not so nice guy to girls in high school / college. I admit that I was jerk. I dated A LOT of girls, several girls at a time, I cheated on girls, was famous for "fucking and chucking" girls. I basicall... (333 words)

Has he moved someone else in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry it's so long-I'm very bad at saying things in a quick way lol I have (or had until the other day lol) a boyfriend who lives in a city about 30 miles away from me.He's on a low income with children to support so I didn't expect him to find the train fare to come to my pl... (929 words)

Please advice me on how to make the separation and divorce as painless as possible for my son

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello aunts and uncles. Ive been married for 5 years. My husband cheated on me. He doesnt know why. To be honest Internet dont wanna hear it either. Maybe life was too perfect and he got bored. His own fault. He sleeps in the guest room until I can get him to move out and I ... (176 words)

Is she just friendly or does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

1 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl I like that works in my parents shop, I think she likes me too but I'm really bad at picking up on things. she always texts to let me know when shes working and if she will see me when shes working, also she will talk to me a lot face to face and via text but if ... (240 words)

Am I being a "princess"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend used to be my fiancé. Now I'm not sure if he's even my boyfriend anymore, but I guess that's where my question comes in. I called off the wedding about 6 weeks before we were to be married. It was a very unsatisfying engagement, sadly. I think he proposed to ... (871 words)

Where do you draw the line between friendship and something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

1 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I know if my best friend and I are really just friends or if there is potential for something more? We met at work and have become especially close in the last few months. We always know exactly what is on the other's mind and we are rarely apart. We know how to be ... (147 words)

Is it normal that my Bf wants to watch porn when he's getting oral? Leaves me feeling hurt.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry the Q is a bit long but I need to give you all the details, I really need your help!!! My boyfriend and I have an almost perfect sex life. Last night we came back very drunk from the club and started playing around for fun in order to have sex. We would switch posit... (207 words)

Is my Bf hiding something from me? He just blows me off when I ask.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I found a woman's eyelash on my boyfriends dorm room floor it doesnt belong to me , and it was under his desk so It can't belong to his roommate... I also found blonde hairs on his clothing... I do not trust him and I'm afraid he may be hiding something from me. I get the fe... (103 words)

My Bf calls me insulting nasty names. I want to leave him. What can I do to ensure my future is happier?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My fiancé accuses me of cheating every single day. He heard me get raped. Ever since then he has accused me of cheating. He constantly calls me a "c**t, a stupid worthless piece of s**t" and all these other fowl things. He expects me to tell him a name of a guy that i would ch... (137 words)

Is this a college disaster? How can I spend time with my sister and alone time with my Bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I need some advice about my boyfriend and my sister We have all recently started college and are attending the same university, me and my sister will be rooming together and my boyfriend will be living in the same building but a few floors below us. I thought this e... (256 words)

We both kept up the pretence that we were asleep. Our bodies touched. Could he be gay too? Should I say something or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

1 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm sure that this message sounds way to obvious however its been consuming my thoughts for the last week. I'm a 21 closeted gay dude btw. I work in a supermarket, most of the staff go for a few drinks after work on a Saturday night so it was nothing new for us to have a... (403 words)

How does one deal with a one-sided relationship where there is one rule for her and a different rule for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

1 September 2014 (?) age 51-59 - How should I deal with my girlfriend who states she can say whatever she feels like, whenever she feels like saying it, and however she feels likes? Then if I don't like it I can stop talking to her. Yet if I try same thing she gets mad and says I am trying to start an argu... (72 words)

Why is my advice to her the least valued by her? And do we need to learn new ways to discuss and resolve things considering how often we fight and resolve very little?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

1 September 2014 (?) age 51-59 - So I am currently confused about certain aspects of my relationship with my girlfriend and would appreciate any insight. My first confusion deals with my girlfriend takes advice and everyday comments from her friends in a positive and receptive manner, yet when it comes fr... (183 words)

What can I do about my parents who annoy and confuse me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents annoy and confuse me. I'm 18 and have just started community college, living at home and my parents will not let me be. If I get out of the house, they scold me and if I stay locked in my room, they make excuses for me to come out. What should I do? I'll be moving o... (149 words)

18 months together. At first it was perfect. Now all we do is argue. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

1 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to start this but here goes.. I've been with my partner just over a year and a half. I had just turned 19 and he was 22 nearly 23. At the beginning everything was perfect. We spent a lot of time together and did everything together. But now all we do is a... (325 words)

Is my fixation harmless? Or am I too obsessed with erotica writing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

1 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - For the past year, I've been writing a series of stories about sex. I can't stop writing these stories--or at least, posting them in as many places as I can--and I don't think they're without merit, either. But they bothers me and I want to be able to stop writing them soo... (423 words)

Flirting: How would a girl react to my attempting flirting with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

1 September 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - How would a girl react to me flirting? What a question I know but something I think I really need to know is what do most girls do when a guy approaches them? Do they get inward butterflies are they flattered or am I just one more person to be ignored? Through all of this plea... (171 words)