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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get around an exotic dancer's emotional barrier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

18 September 2014 (M)

age - Sorry this is a pathetic request for advice because I am just so lost in this relationship. I met this amazing woman through my kids. She is just a few years younger than me but looks 20 years younger (yes I am that old!). Even up close she could almost pass for my daugh... (319 words)

I don't want to lose her but I don't want to pester her either

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

18 September 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, i have been in a relationshipship with my girlfriend for 5 months. At the moment, she feels withdrawn from me. We don't live together, she lives in a different city. A few months ago, she had a miscarriage, she brought down, however our relationship stood the test, ... (236 words)

She has caused trouble for us and my friend and I cannot stand her. How can we drop her from our lives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My friends and I have this issue that we really can't talk to an adult in our lives about without getting into trouble and we don't know how to solve the problem either. There's this girl who hangs around us who we really just don't like and would prefer not to have anyt... (1157 words)

Will it help bring us closer and stop us fighting if I become more accepting about his pot use? I don't want to lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He smokes pot everyday, all day. I hate it, but I'll do it every once in a while. I was sober from it for 2 years, up until June, then I smoked with him, towards mid/end of July, I smoked with my sister, then towards... (217 words)

Did I really love him? We are now divorcing. Why don't I feel worse? I'm not crying over this breakup.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - 6 months ago I thought I married my best friend and love of my life. We were together for 3 years, lived together for the last 2. It was practically love at first sight! We waited to have sex for the first time. Even our first kiss took time, like 5 dates. Well, it was l... (366 words)

Friends together a long time. Then broke up. Are there factors that suddenly make people unable to stand someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there this is not really a dating question but some recent events got me thinking.. Recently two of my best mates broke up for the slightest of reason. They always had been close and inseparable. Always happy in each others company and the other day they had a sma... (146 words)

He doesn't want kids, but I don't yet know whether I do or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a dad of a two year old who he had with another girl. We have been dating a little less than two years now. He has always seemed ambivalent about having another kid at some point in his life and that was ok with me because I'm not sure if I'd have kids someday ... (222 words)

16 years of marriage and I've lost the spark for my wife. How can I get it back?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

18 September 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - We have been married for 16 years, four kids, financially stable...I have never cheated. I don't think she has ever cheated. This has been building for some time now: when I look at her, there is just no sexual spark. It's gotten to the point where I would rather satisfy myself ... (280 words)

I love him but feel I am nothing to him. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am graduate student.I have a friend whom i met in my school. he is a very good guy. Funny at times,and very intelligent.We were schoolmates and we grew closer as time went by and now, he is my best friend.But sometimes I am really unsure if he feels the same way abou... (355 words)

I think I could marry this girl but how do I make her like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1124 days ago

18 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey! dear cupid user-reader thank you for taking your time and reading this. I really appreciate what you do! After my 2.5-relatlionship I couldn't like anybody except this girl who I saw on Facebook. She is studying law,so respectful,funny,gorgeous I mean she is amazingly... (277 words)

I found the guy I have dance class on facebook. I like him, should I add him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, For six months ago I sometimes saw a guy on a dance class. And during the summer I saw this guy in a zumba lesson somewhere else. I always go to a group training zumba. I stay always in the front and this guy always stays beside me, but he never looks at me, as if ... (399 words)

How do I make myself stop watching porn to get off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

18 September 2014 (?) age 26-29 - I'm straight but I watch lesbian porn to get off, I have don't it like 5 times now and feel that I might be addicted and when I have sex with my boyfriends, who doesn't know about it, one who knows me does. I feel like I have to think about it to make myself cum and I really ... (109 words)

Should I tell my g/f of 6 years about my drunk mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

18 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Help I got drunk I usually can control myself but this time I had a slight interest in another girl got drunk we got a little handsie immediately after I was and am ashamed of myself but I put a stop to further action ive been in a relationship for a while 6 years I know what I ... (114 words)

Am I Really Overrreacting or Is He in The Wrong When It Comes to Not Talking to Me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'd like to give a little background before any opinons are made so please bare with me. My boyfriend and I will have been together 3 years this coming October and we are both 22 years old going on 23. I have asked something like this in the past but I'd like to give ... (801 words)

I feel like I'm looking at a life-time of 'what he thinks is best'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having some issues with my boyfriend and the decisions he makes. We've been together for three years. Last year I finished my undergraduate degree and moved to the city my boyfriend lived in to do postgraduate study while he finished his undergraduate degree. Now he is ... (418 words)

I'd like a bit more affirmation from her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (M)

age - I have been dating a woman for about 7 months. We seem to mesh in most ways but I could use a little more affirmation from her. Not long after we started dating she made the statement about how "sexy" the lead singer of a band was. Just recently she made the same statement a... (133 words)

I want the freedom to test the waters but my ex won't let go

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am a freshman at college in my third week and I broke up with my bf at the start. He loves me soo much but almost too much. He also now lives two hrs away. I need a real and tangible relationship, not just skype dates. But at the same time I don't even want a ... (345 words)

His being late makes me feel disrespected

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for about 2 months. He was on-time our first date but almost every time after that he is late. I am not talking 15 mins late. I am talking an hour! There have been times when he had decent reason for being late and I just went along with it ..but ... (233 words)

Why doesn't he see my potential? Is he sexist? Complacent about life?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

18 September 2014 (?) age 41-50 - I feel like my boyfriend doesnt understand one aspect of my life and I need help explaining this to him. I am going to graduate late next year with a degree in engineering. I have worked very hard with my school and it is because I want to provide for my family in the future. ... (213 words)

My boyfriend went out with a female coworker and I didn't like it. Should I go out with a male to see how he likes it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

18 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my boyfriend told me that he had a super nice dinner with a co-worker/friend because they were leaving. He then told me how the waiter thought they were engaged and he laughed and told me how he said no. Wait what? The friend was a girl. And they went alone. M... (243 words)