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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband wants sex every day and I'm afraid it will destroy our marriage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel that sex is going to destroy my marriage. We've been married 3 years, together 6. In the beginning we would have sex every day, sometimes twice or more a day, quite healthy, occasionally somewhat adventurous sex. 6 years on, a big mortgage, massive work commitments and a ... (151 words)

I wanted her to be there for me too, but she seemed too focused on her own life and other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i'm a 19 year old girl, i had never dated until i got to varsity. i met this girl, we became really good friends and then we started dating. it was perfect at first because we were both very much into it. her life started to go a whole lot better than mine, this bothe... (291 words)

I'm scared to get hurt again but I think I'm starting to feel something for my friend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just came from a very bad case of unrequited love. I've been trying to get over the guy for almost two years.That guy was also the first guy I ever liked and loved so it's been two difficult years of emotional pain and ugly crying. But just five days ago, I went out with a ... (272 words)

I really thought my ex would be there for me as a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - We were in an off and on relationship. He would always dump me because I'm bipolar and he couldn't handle it. I am seeing a therapist because of this. He knows, but thinks I am the right girl at the wrong time. He broke up with me over nothing and feels like this relationship ... (616 words)

Involved with flat mate and not sure what to do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I wrote in yesterday about having an affair with my flat mate he's 28 I'm 44 he came to see me yesterday to use my toilet he came out the bathroom belting up his trousers I couldt help but look he then said why was I looking at him we then was play fighting I had messaged him ... (139 words)

Two months of dating and now he seems cold and distant..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try to make this short and sweet ! I have been dating a man that I really care for ( i am 31 , he is 36) We have been dating a short time..2 months. We have talked about our future..getting engaged...starting a life together its been exciting!...we both seem to want ... (393 words)

Boyfriend has overly attached bromance...what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone hope someone out there can give me some help on this issue i have. I recently started dating a guy who is wonderful andi really do like him. We only see each other about once a week because i work and he lives about half an hour away from me. My issue us that he ... (347 words)

Should I ask him out again? (While I'm still touring in his country)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this dude, let's name him T.(He lives in London while I live somewhere in Asia) We met in an online game a year back. We were sort of close, played the game together a lot. But after close to a year, he started playing lesser, and eventually quitting. Our friends... (365 words)

My boyfriend's female friend doesn't like me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am frustrated with myself and my boyfriend. We were in a distance relationship but I moved to live with him about six months ago. Mostly it's been great. He has this female friend though. I've never felt that comfortable about their friendship cos I have heard him compliment ... (226 words)

I thought I hit it off well with online guy but then he stopped texting. I'd like to know why!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy online. We totally hit it off. I am extremely attracted to him. We communicated through text. Then all of a sudden he stop texting me. When we were texting he was working so sometimes He took awhile to respond and sometimes I took awhile to respond when I was ... (286 words)

My boyfriend won't give me money for an emergency, only advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't help me in emergency situations when I need financial help but only gives me a bunch of advices. He spends a lot of money for himself to buy luxury goods like Apple IPhone 5 etc. Is he a good partner?... (43 words)

What would you do at work with the person who broke your trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I got played but now its about how to finally move on. I liked a guy for two years at work who honestly i thought and felt , felt the same. The other day going to a friend wedding i over heard to people we know basically sl agging me off saying "hes not coming".He had t... (161 words)

Was he insinuating he is not happy with his significant other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

17 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I was talking to a man I know, and somewhere in the conversation he said his significant other always finds ways to comment on stuff and can't be quiet on any topic....she always has something to say. He laughed nervously but quietly while saying it. I was caught off guard... (76 words)

Is is possible for a married woman to turn into a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

17 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married for 7 years. Lately I shared some lesbian porn with my wife and my wife found out that it really turns me on. My wife after a day or two asks me if I would want her to become a lesbian, but with a condition that once she gets into girls she would no longer be ... (89 words)

Which internet guy do I pick? If any?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Which guy do i choose? Both are from the internet. Guy 1) Met twice, one occasion being going to a restaurant. He paid fully for the bill, i did offer and he joked saying i could pay for desert in this other restaurant. He opens doors for me, (rushes to do so). When i did ... (273 words)

LDR--Does he like me or just trying to impress me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3716 days ago

17 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have fallen for a man miles away. He tries to say things in many languages and change up how he says goodbye. He shows more interest now than ever in talking and wanting to meet up. I was wondering if this is a sign that he likes me or if he is trying to impress me. I ... (96 words)

She seems to be hung up on her ex, what should I do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

17 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok me and my girlfriend have been together just over a year now but have had numerous arguements over her ex. She was with him for amany year....16 in fact yet chose not to marry or have children. They still have regular contact n see one another very couple of weeks. For 6 ... (140 words)