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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My feelings for her are not reciprocated. What can I do so that I don't lose all contact with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a female friend who has just figured out that I have feelings for her and now she's getting awkward and doesn't talk to me as much. Things aren't like they used to be. I'm worried if this keeps going we may end up not talking whatsoever. If it meant i'd have to just... (81 words)

Does he need time to recuperate or is he letting me down slowly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's a little about what's going on with me. I'm dating a dad with joint custody of his children that is going through a financial crisis. Naturally, we haven't spent as much time together as I would like, but the communication as been limited as well. Should I take that ... (66 words)

Do I break up with him or tell him the truth about the affair I had with his father and ruin things for his family?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so before you read this I know what I did was wrong and deeply regret it and it's all a big mess. Four years ago I was in a really bad place. I had fallen out with my parents and moved out of home in to a grotty flat which I had to work 3 jobs in order to pay the ren... (395 words)

I do not want to send him the pictures he asks for. Why should I send these pictures?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - im dating tanzanian man since like 7 months ago we chatting every day online. he is calling me on viber...he sent me pictures of his private parts,and he said he wants pictures of my private parts. i said yes to him but i do not want to send such pictures to him. please, w... (71 words)

Do I share my money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently asked a question about being married and my husband being not rich. He works really hard to provide for me and and our child. I have 30,000 pounds in savings. I haven't mentioned it to my husband as this was before we got married, as i plan to save it towards ... (195 words)

Suddenly my best friend of several years has forgotten our friendship now that she has her 1st Bf. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been best friends with my best friend for over 6/7 years, however in the past year she has got her first proper boyfriend and since then she's totally forgotten about me. I used to see her all the time and always meet up with her and go out and stuff but now we do no... (457 words)

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

6 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am a straight heterosexual male. ... (90 words)

Two years together, but we can't seem to get along very often. What's the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years. Lately, we've been constantly fighting. We've been fighting about every week for the whole entire summer. The fights usually start off because I do something he doesn't like. Some examples of our arguments are: one time I playfully ... (487 words)

How Do I End Our Relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, So I've been talking to this girl I met for about three months now and I've come to the conclusion things aren't going to really work out between us, there's a lot of reasons but mainly we're just at different points in our life. The problem is she has a histor... (130 words)

How should I handle this friend's unwelcome comments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm really upset and need a bit of advice please. I'm recovering from a 20 year relationship and it's been 3 years now since I've been alone. My ex was abusive and alcoholic and it's taking me a long time to recover. I always worked and had my own flat. He was effectively ... (862 words)

Why do guys seem to act weird around me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so there is a guy at my class that has been acting weird. I think he likes mme because I noticed some signs. Well he always glance at me and we once hold the gaze for five seconds. Then he looked away awkwardly. He sits in front of me in my class and he acts tottaly ... (218 words)

He said he'd post naked pics of me if he ever saw me with another guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me i have the same problem and it is much worse because he just doesn't wanna see me happy.. he hasn't post my naked pictures yet but he would if he see me happy. I dunno what to do with it... I don't want my pictures to be posted all over the internet... :( please ... (213 words)

I don't want to care about him no more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 24 years old and I still care about this guy I loved since Iwas 17. There was always a mmisunderstanding with the two of us to where we never got back together. But at times he would say he wanted to be alone and then when I'm in a situation he wants toget back ... (223 words)

I'm his first and only -- will he regret not having played the field?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been together over 2 years. We've talked about marriage and kids and I really think, even though we are young, we're going to be together for a long time and I see him when I think of raising a family together. We got together when we were 17 and 18. We were both vir... (274 words)

After 17 years I think he's cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, thank you in advance for reading this.... Ive known for a while nowmy husband has been doing some serious facebook flirting, recently though i think he has went a step further and met up with someone. This has completely devastated me because even when i new he was flirting ... (188 words)

He's hot one day and cold the next. Is this FWB going stale or does he want it to become more than FWB?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anyone could give me an outside perspective of my puzzling situation. I'm 24yrs old and have what I assume to be a friends with benefits with a guy 16yrs my senior. We started hanging out 2months ago. we clicked instantly and it wasn't long before th... (179 words)

What are the best options to get through these issues with my partner's 28 year old daughter?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age - My partner's 28 year old daughter has never accepted me into her father's life. She pretends I don't exist. At first I would have done almost anything to get her to talk to me. Now 9 years on I don't care, but now she has decided to pop back into her dad's life for a short ... (163 words)

Does it sound like he hinting around about marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Does it sound like he hinting around about marriage ? The hints: We live together We've been together for 2 1/2 years We share expenses We've talked about the future (I can't have no more babies but tells his friends we've talked about it) He's talked about havin... (295 words)

What is the answer to this problem? Lately, every single thing I do is always wrong in his eyes.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been dating for 2 yrs. My boyfriend was a lovable person, cared, always show his feelings to me, and so on. But lately he was being so heartless, stubborn, never told how was his day even i asked to, everything has changed. I loved him so much, he always try to find ... (174 words)

He seemed to be the "one". But now I feel guilty. Does this mean my feelings have changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a boy friend from two years ago. We had so much fun he was my soul mate he taught me the meaning of love. We broke up because of some issues he had. He promised me that he will propose to me and we would get married, when the issues is resolved. And am sure he is not l... (159 words)

Guys, what would you prefer?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - In general, do men prefer a gorgeous woman (say 8/10) who isn't very good at, or interested in, sex? Or do they prefer a more average looking girl (say 6.5/10) who is more sexual? ... (35 words)

Why don't guys hit on me more often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (?) age 36-40 - I'm a tall female with a bit extra weight, like I have a normal BMI but I'm definitely soft and curvy. People often compliment me on my looks indirectly or openly, guys as well as girls, we even had an anonymous survey-type game in one group I was attending and 50% of the ... (334 words)

Decision-making help needed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (?) age 36-40 - I'm 26 years old female and have a dismissive-avoidant attachment style. At the age of 14-19 I had an older guy friend who I was obsessively in love with, like if he asked me to ditch my whole family and friends and run away with him I'd most likely do it, luckily he didn't ... (587 words)

Texting - he said he could tame me sexually so I gave him some back and he didnt like it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy I've met offline and he and I are 12 years apart. I don't know if it's the age difference or my immaturity that's causing him to shun me for my behavior. We were texting about sex and he said he could tame me and I started talking a lot of playful mess. He s... (124 words)

I thought I was over him, but then I heard he had been asking after me and the feelings come flooding back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello guys,i'm a female 19 years old. first of all, i want to thank you for your advices i've been here almost two years now in this website,everytime i needed someone to help me,you did!so thank you so much!for everything it means a lot to those who needs help. Well,i was in ... (546 words)

Childhood Sweetheart & Soul Mate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically I met a boy when I was 9 years old, we had gone to school together.. he was my first childhood "boyfriend" and my first kiss etc. We were together as a couple for about fish years (I know it was nothing serious we were kids at that age) then when we had started ... (513 words)

My crush likes my friend instead... should I still try to impress him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, Oh gosh, so I have an enormous crush on a boy in my grade. I have just started high school with him and we talk often enough. However, today he told me he liked another girl, one of my closest friends. What do I do? I want to impress him and get him to like me, ... (90 words)

A girl in my college class is being bullied. How can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Can I ask a question? I am at college and really enjoying it, however there is a girl in my class who is being bullied, she isn't very bright but is stunningly beautiful, and the other girls in the class talk behind her back saying stuff like, "ugly slut, fat b*tch" ect. Even ... (149 words)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I've liked this boy in my year who i've really liked since year 7. I'm now in year 9. I'm not sure if he likes me. Everyone says he's cocky, but he's always nice to me. He holds the door open, helps me out a lot and he always stares at me. The thing is, he's in the popular ... (171 words)

My crush is going out with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3729 days ago

6 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Well please I kinda have a crush on this boy don't think he knows but some times we look at each other I've been dreaming about this guy I really like him BUT he is goin out with someone else pls what should I do... (45 words)