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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm over my ex, but I feel emotional about his new baby with another woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I will try to condense a long complex story .I split with my sons dad three and a half years ago .it was a painful and messy split .we had a very intense 5 years together where we were either deeply in love of fighting. We were over the moon when i became pregnant and the ... (272 words)

I love him but not his tattoo! How can I convince him to erase it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - l been with my boyfriend for 5 years and our relationship was great. We are both 25. He loves me so much and serious about our relationship. He would do anything to make me happy. But now he has changed. Its because of me too. Its my fault. I've made some mistakes to him. He ... (242 words)

Three dates later, I think he's lost interest. Should I text him or wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on three dates with a guy who I really like and who seemed to like me as well but this most recent date was a week ago, and we went out then I ended up sleeping at his place. We didn't have sex and he wasn't pressuring me to, we just fooled around a bit. He was being ... (174 words)

After everything I did for him, LDR guy breaks off with me through a text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this man over this past summer in June that I thought was amazing. He was here for a 3 month internship and was going to leave to go back and finish his last year of school in a town 6 hours away (45 min plane ride). I met him through my friends, a few weeks after we met ... (778 words)

He called me names and now we are dating but I can't forget what he said!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - ok here is the deal fellow cupid readers i have been in a LDR with my bf for a month now and it wont be another month until i can see him again, i think about him non stop and it is around the time of my GCSE'S but my distraction isnt the issue although ways to stop thinking ... (191 words)

How can I integrate my friend's boyfriend into our relationship? I don't seem to like him very much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! This is a situation I've never really tackled before so excuse me if I sound a little naïve. My best friend of several years recently started dating a guy who I just can't seem to get along with. Her and I traditionally spend a lot of time together ( we ... (234 words)

He slept with 2 other women while we weren't official and I can't get past it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy in the states this winter whom i started dating. He is from Australia and we hit it off and had a thing for about 3 months then he left back to Australia. We discussed that it would be dumb for us to be together because were in two different countries so we said ... (463 words)

It makes me feel guilty that my boyfriend does things for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3745 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) age 51-59 - My boyfriend enjoys doing things for me so much that i tend to feel guilty. We met over a year ago. He buys me things, gives me money, lets me decorate his house use his car. Im 43, hes 34... hes so easy going, happy at his job, i havent seen him lose his cool. Thoughts?... (59 words)

Significant other and friends of opposite sex--should they limit their contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really curious on what others have to say about this. Here's the thing: Before you and your significant other began dating, they had a co-worker/friend of the opposite sex. It was platonic, but they hung out a lot. After beginning your relationship, their frequent one... (108 words)

I don't like my ex having contact with her godchild because it means involvement with her ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i need some advice. my new girlfriend of 3 months has a godchild with her ex girlfriend whos the mother of her god child. she doesnt go out any where or want much to do with her ex its just the kid she wants to spend time with as she loves her very much. my partner takes her ... (144 words)

How do I make my feelings of love that aren't returned go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i love a girl whos a few years older than me she has no feelings for me but i definitely love her ive never felt this way about anyone will it go away help please?... (35 words)

Need advice on my boyfriend going in the marines

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3745 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im courtney. im 16 an my boyfriends 19. we have been together for 3 years and he told me that he is going into the marines. im going to support him all the way, but i am going to find it very hard. how do i cope? im finding it hard already and he hasn't left to do his ... (156 words)

My Russian wife has been watching Russian tv and I think she has become brainwashed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (M)

age - My wife left Russia some thirty years ago and travelled the world. She was a great conversationalist and worldly wise. Then she discovered Russia Television ( RT )on our TV. Now she watches it for most of the day and seems to be becoming brain washed with the most bizarre ... (170 words)

I heard a man I like has cancer. Should I go see him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - A man I like has cancer, should I go and see him? I haven't seen or heard from him for a while. We have liked each other for a while, but we haven't been in a relationship. I am devastated. I was out in a pub last night ,and his friend told me that he has a tumour in his mouth ... (440 words)

Tips for first time oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - hey ladieas i wanna favour from you..me and my gf are planning to go for oral for the first time..please tell me what caution should i take and how i could make this more pleasurable for my gf..... (40 words)

He likes me or not? He still have feelings for his ex? So confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Here is a guy at my class that I think he likes me. He does tease me sometimes and stuff and gives me some signs that he likes me. Well he once asked for my friend to move so he would sit next to me. Sometimes he tries to make me jealous so he flirt with my friend only infonr ... (274 words)

Which one of these places is more likely to be my g spot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been trying to find my g spot for years. I'm aware that the g spot is not a magical button and it takes practice but I'm willing to be patient! When I lie on my back and enter in my fingers i have found TWO areas which feel a bit different from the rest of the vaginal ... (152 words)

I feel like I want to move on and get over the guilt and try things with the new guy! Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3743 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! Well I'm not sure if I am just going through a phase or is this serious because I am talking with someone for well over a year now. I am not in college right now but I was planning on to but things changed.So for orientation day I met someone from the past and h... (880 words)

How do I lose this desperation vibe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (?) age 30-35 - I need to stop obsessing over girls. I'm still a virgin, even though I've been in a relationship and dated a handful of girls. Despite having a lot going on in my life and confidence in many things I do, I dont seem to have it with girls. I have looked inward to see why I don't ... (142 words)

It seems like he's hiding behind his social awkwardness

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupids. I need some advice. I have liked this guy for quite a long time now... Over a few years the timing has seemed all wrong. It has generally been that he likes me more than i like him. Last year we had a brief fling, and then his shyness got in the way (he is ge... (206 words)

He seems to be moving awfully slowly ...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Last week, I finally had a first date with a man that I felt I had a lot of potential with. We had "matched" on that hot app over a month ago. While he immediately asked me if I would be interested in having drinks with him on our first chat, he gave me his number on our ... (715 words)

Boyfriend never cares when people compliment our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've noticed lately that my boyfriend doesn't like or care when people compliment us on our relationship. For instance, the other day some random lady asked us for directions and then joked about how cute I looked and then said that my boyfriend has a good choice in women. To ... (240 words)

He broke the engagement by accusing me of cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3747 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) age 51-59 - I am so unhappy! My boyfriend asked me to get engaged, for which i was over the moon and Said "yes" this lasted 6 weeks then he accused me of cheating. He has always accused me of this untruths for which iv always got back with him and reassured him. How do i tell him in a nic... (83 words)

He likes me as a colleague but I don't know about more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A male co worker and I get on really well at work. I just feel this chemistry with him I've not felt before. I can't work him out though, he always nice to me, has a joke with me asks me to do things for him. He asks me a lot about myself. He's flirted with me once or ... (191 words)