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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

(More questions from September, 2014)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I remain close friends with my ex after our breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3759 days ago

5 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, my boyfriend and i decided to split up last week, but the relationship ended in good terms and we both decided to be friends, i really think very higly of him as a person and really want to be close friends, so my question is should i write to him? or should i wait for him ... (95 words)

New to dating and the drama that goes with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a dilemma. My rating for my advice is kinda sucky, so I've decided to step on the other side of things. I have problems with social life too, like most people on the Internet. So here it is: Ok, it's my first time going out. I've been pretty independent thro... (169 words)

I feel like the house is taking over our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have tolerated my boyfriend's house renovations since we met a few months ago. This has meant our relationship has practically been on hold while he beats the clock working outside before the winter. This is his second renovation and the first took two years but he was single ... (217 words)

Could he really be in love with both of us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I had to meet my ex recently (broke up couple months ago - he fell in love with someone else at work). He had something of mine that I needed back. Think I was ready to meet him and glad I did, we chatted for about an hour and he left. During our conversation, I told him how ... (608 words)

Is a 20-Year-Old Girl Too Young For a 35-Year-Old Guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20, going on 21 very soon, and I've recently met a 35-year-old guy whom I really fancy through a friend at work (I have a full-time career as I never went to university). He definitely isn't my usual "type," and we have some quite significant differences (he's very reserved ... (648 words)

Money and promotion, or job satisfaction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Quick question.. When it comes to work, would you rather choose a job you adore and could see yourself doing forever, but has little chance of promotion and low pay OR a job you tolerate, but the chances of promotion are high, and the pay is fantastic? Just looking ... (64 words)

Should I Be Worried That My BF Doesn't Love Me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age - I am 50 and have been with my BF who is 53 for a year. He has been divorced for 8 years and has had 4 serious relationships, including me, during that time. He tells me that he loves me but is hesitant to include me in his future plans, saying that it is silly to plan for the ... (154 words)

How do I figure out if my friend likes me the way I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 22 years old girl i have been friend with someone he is my childhood friend after a long time i saw him and i like him i don't know why i like him but how should i find that he likes me back or he just want to be a friend with me ... (58 words)

My ex's friend is interested, but I've fallen for my tenant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Ive lost my boyfriend of 7 years through suicide last year october 2013. Since then never dated. His best friend has shown sme signs that he wants to be with me cause recently he has broken up with his girlfriend and always tells me that we have go out cause everything ... (229 words)

Confused because he wanted to keep an old relationship from me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Should we know our partner's past relationships? Lately I found a really old archived blog post from his blog talking about a girl he used to date 2 years back. (How much he likes her and how happy she makes him). I asked if he dated anyone during that period and he... (124 words)

How can I change myself to not care? And should I change ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Sorry for this boring question. First of all I'm not looking for sympathy, I just am tired of being emotional. I know people will say it's because I'm going through puberty or something but it is nothing to do with that at all. Basically I am tired of being the emotional one. ... (289 words)

It seems clear that my husband wants something I can't give him and nothing will change

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 15 years and I are currently seperated . A large part of the reason for the separation was his lusting after other women and porn use. He never complimented me . I felt undesirable and very unhappy. We even went through counselling about it but not much changed . ... (218 words)

I appreciate my boyfriend's efforts at trying to prove that he's now faithful but this is not what I meant by 'prove yourself'!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Ive always got great advice from here so I thought I would ask again! Me and my boyfriend have been together for just under 5 years. Over the summer I found out he was having an affair of 5 weeks with another women. He had ended this affair before I found... (599 words)

Should I Start To Pay?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age - Hi I am married and my husband is not so rich. He works really hard to provide for me and and our child. Money is a hardship for him. However I have 30,000 pounds in savings. I haven't mentioned it to my husband as this was before we got married. I hardly spend any o... (130 words)

My LDR can't get past the fact that my best friend is an ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone well I have this question that has been bugging my mind ! I've been speaking to someone for well over a year now and I'm glad he has stuck around. Honestly this is a long distance relationship and I have heard everything about LDRs but this is my first, I guess ... (701 words)

Overwhelmed by college so I stopped going, but my boyfriend will be disappointed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Well this isn't really a relationship advice more like an educational one. But it does involve my boyfriend, who I've been talking with about my career and education. Ok so I started college this past August and my first classes on Mondays,Wednesda... (574 words)

What is this connection / "thing" with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 14 years about 8 months ago. We grew apart in the way we were doing separate things and we also hadnt had sex for 6 years. He would want sex but I didnt feel close enough to him anymore to want to do such intimate things together, and also I ... (611 words)

I might get rejected, and I'm freaking out! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

5 September 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey DC, Forge back again, and I'm freaking out. I recently (the day I posted this) asked out a girl that I fell for on day one, and have had a serious thing for her since. We've known each other a bit less than two weeks. I was told by several people that she liked me... (341 words)

Can't get past the hurt from his cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 September 2014 (F)

age - I found out 4 years ago my husband had a 6 year affair with a ex-girlfiend,we have been married for 29 years,i found out he sent money,gifts,she live in another state,when I confronted him about the imformation I had before me,he begin to cry and say he did not love her he was ... (150 words)