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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My FWB guy said I love you..was it just post sex emotion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) age 26-29 - 4 years ago I had a brief fling with a guy. It didn't work out but it was good while it lasted. About 6 months ago we bumped into each other after a night out and exchanged numbers. Since then we've had a fwb situation going on. We spoke about it beforehand and said while we ... (224 words)

Fifth Date and then He Disappeared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about a month. We have a bunch of mutual friends and he knows my sister. We don't text often, mostly just to make plans and then he calls me the day before or day of to finalize. Majority of the time he would text me the day or 2 after our date ... (238 words)

My girlfriend is never horny anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

23 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - so ive been dating this girl for 2 years things are going okay besides the fact that we argue so much and she is very immature at times .. But anyways i really been stressing because we've always had sex every single day almost multiple times aday for these two years shes ... (116 words)

I'm scared to commit to my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend, dearly. I pounce on the phone whenever he texts or calls me (we do not live together and live in different cities) and could talk to him all day if I could. I'm alway eager to text him, my parents know about him, etc etc. We've been dating for a year. ... (347 words)

I'm afraid of getting hurt so I act strangely and then wind up alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi im in a bit of a pickle, I've been single nearly 3 years, im a single mum,have been on a lot of dates in the past but never really met anyone I click with, altho I did meet someone at one point we dated became an item quickly but I totally ruined it and he dumped me within 2 ... (176 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend want sex more often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age - When I first met my boyfriend it was in a "business only" relationship. At that time he was in a "bad relationship", that was pretty much sexless, that took him three years to finally get out of. When I first met him I liked him very much as a person but was not attracted to ... (782 words)

I don't like my boyfriend's belly!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

23 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and I have a problem with him physically. He is 6 feet tall and has nice big arms, which I like, but he has a huge belly from years of living a sedentary life style. He's 22. He used to be anorexic when he was in his teens ... (321 words)

I met my boyfriend when he was my personal trainer and can't help worrying he might meet a new girl the same way!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend when he was my personal trainer and taught the classes in my gym. We got along really well and became friends - started taking a yoga class together. There was a lot of sexual chemistry between us and eventually we gave in. He told me he had to think long and ... (211 words)

I'm not entirely sold on us "getting back together"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a "relationship" (with no labels) with this guy for about a year and 10 months. Last month, things ended when I got really angry and went off on him about all the grievances I'd felt throughout the relationship and especially this summer. See, we had agreed sometime in ... (613 words)

Dating is difficult because I'm too picky and lose interest too quickly

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

23 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I seem to find dating rather difficult as I tend to be rather picky and not find connections with ppl straight away and I am finding it hard to get a partner. I have only been out on like 1 date a year for the past 3 years, and out of them 2 of them I lost interest in and ... (207 words)

I want her to reconsider just being friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and this girl were in a relationship at the end of last year and she ended it because she didn't think we were right for each other and also because she needed to sort her head out. Last week she wanted to give it another go saying how she made a mistake and wanted to try a... (152 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like me having a sex toy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, so I recently brought some sex toys for myself because my boyfriend and I were too busy to have sex. It was one of the artificial butt toys and I like it a lot. I made the mistake of telling him and now he's very upset about. There are some things you should know about my... (339 words)

She spends a lot of time with her ex boyfriend but tells me I'm still her 'one and only'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I've been dating this girl for 6 months now. It all started when I needed help with getting the size for my suit from the girl I like, because I was ordering for Valentine's Day because I promised my friend, Adele, (who is straight but I wanted to show her how she shou... (534 words)

He doesn't seem interested in me or our new baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to hear some of your perspectives on what I'm going through: I used to live in a foreign country (as an expat) and I met another guy (also an expat from a different country). We started seeing each other and in a short time I got pregnant. Initially, he sa... (425 words)

My boyfriend prefers time spent with friends over time spent with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my bf have been dating for almost 3 years and we are both the same age, 23. Lately I have been stressing to him the importance of him establishing a "career" because he is about to turn 24 in a couple of months and I do want better for him. He tried enlisting into ... (395 words)

Is this an addiction of some kind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 September 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I am an average 15 year old freshman in high school, with a regular range of problems. But we've all been in that position. Although I've noticed something a bit different. I absolutely LOVE the music I listen to (techno/electronic) and would do anything to listen to it. Wh... (237 words)

This friend won't give me the support I need, how do I deal with it when I'm alone with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony people, My problem involves a good friend of mine. A few months ago I was abused and cut up by so called friends. Other friends of mine had been told lies about me also and some of them turned on me and gave out to me for everything saying that it was my fault even tho... (356 words)

She likes romance -- what about this idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

23 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have an idea I would like some feedback for? This girl I like likes romance a lot so I have been thinking of a way to just do that. I thought about leaving notes around school in places that I know she will look. I'm shy but I can get over that if I know if she likes the ... (89 words)

I came on too strong and scared him off -- any way I can fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A little over a month ago I met a guy and we went on 3 dates. The first 2 dates went amazing and I really felt a connection but on the third date I slept at his place and things got a bit awkward, I kind of came on too strong, asking too many questions about where it was going ... (193 words)

I was going to break up with him but then I fell for him again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have an on and off relationship with my bf for past 4 years. He always verbally abuses me, belittles me, ignores me for long period of time, make sure my esteem always stays all time low.... Coming to the current happenings, he was nice to me for past 2 weeks,... (318 words)

I'm still hoping we can make it work but I'm jealous of his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I was in a long distance relationship for over a year with a guy who I thought I could really see myself with in the future. However, we recently broke up due to fighting a lot mostly from trust issues and my insecurity. We agreed to take a step back and see if we co... (662 words)

LDR since Dec 2013. Plan to see each other in 2015. So why did she get upset about talk on intimacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship since Dec 2013. We met online and in one month, we will finally meet in person. She will introduce me to her family and relatives, and well even be going to an island resort for a few days together. Ho... (294 words)

What to do? I can't forget him. Yet now I am not the sort of girl he would go for.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3711 days ago

23 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - *Am currently in a long term serious relationship* When I started high school I was instantly attracted to this boy who was not in my circle of friends or in any of my classes. He just started saying "HI" to me every time he saw me. In high school I never fitted in,but he... (222 words)