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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My heart belongs to my ex. Can't sleep from thinking about her. How can I resolve this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

2 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I'm in a serious predicament. Please help... I'll make my story as short as possible. I fell in love with a girl, who I started dating after a few months.. Not knowing she had just broken off with someone whom she had serious feelings for. Ended up betraying... (409 words)

What can I do with the mixed signals ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - what do i do with a guy who gives mixed signals on a daily basis ? He gave me his silver ring and put it on my " engagement " finger after dating me for six months ...then the next day he asked for it back ! he is divorced so maybe he is being cautious , but it takes a lot ... (146 words)

Whenever I make a move she reminds me we're friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

2 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So ive met this girl little over a year ago however we've only really gotten close these past 4 or 5 months. This girl is the best friend ive ever had, we always take each others advice on relationships and we can trust each other with anything. I spent all summer away from her ... (129 words)

I'm irritated that this girl who is pretty vile personality wise and isn't even that attractive seems to have my crush attracted to her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel pretty stupid writing to an agony aunt site but i feel like i have nobody i can talk to about how i'm feeling. There's a guy at work who i have a sort of "crush" on. I've been talk that he likes me, although he's never said it to me. Apparently he's just broken up w... (363 words)

I'm struggling to form solid friendships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid reader I feel sad, I feel that I'm struggling to form solid friendships. From time to time I meet new people, but my friendships never stick. I have no idea where I'm going wrong but it must be something I'm blindsighted to because it feels like a reapted ... (206 words)

His first weekend out in America and my B/f got a lapdance and kissed a stripper! The trust is completely gone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for 3yrs. He is younger than me. He had the opportunity to go to Florida to study for a year, which I have supported and encouraged. I was, however, aware of all the temptations that would be there in Miami etc for a guy and the fact that we wil... (677 words)

I had an affair with a younger man and I wanted to hurt his girlfriend so I told her about what we did. I thought this would break them but they're back together. What do I do now?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been very stupid. 6 weeks ago I started to talk to a man 11 years younger than myself, he was at work when I met him and I asked for his number for a job that I needed doing in my home. I text him and it started off innocently, I new he had a girlfriend of 4 and half ye... (583 words)

What does my mother see that I don't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a man at summer, he was really nice and helpful to me, as am a single mum with a 3 year old, he done a few jobs round my house for free, and in that time I got to know him. He has asked if he could take me for dinner and I said yes I will ask my mum to babysit, who said, ... (115 words)

I hate the way he accuses me of being unfaithful.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Break up are so upsetting! My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 years. We have broke up and got together loads of times. I hate the way he accuses me of being unfaithful. He is really unwell with mental health and im scared he will do harm himself as he has done this in ... (60 words)

How do I deal with negative people in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't about love, but it is about two relationships. My sister is the most negative person I know. She's always been that way. To her, if anything can go wrong it does go wrong. She is constantly posting on Facebook about how her life is going so wrong (but it's not ev... (286 words)

Why Did This Lady Act This Way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - i moved area's a year ago and while here i met a lady who owns the local shop; she seemed really friendly and after some talks i invited her out for dinner one day to get to know her more as i didnt have any friends and thought to make a friendship. She replied that I w... (202 words)

My Husband Reads Erotic literature

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I just happened to see my husband's browsing history while searching for a file . He seems to be reading erotic stories involving incest between mother and son .. This is the second time I ve seen him read this topic of erotic literature .. The first time I just let it go since ... (111 words)

12 years together..will he ever marry me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Will he ever Marry me? We have been together about 12 years, we have 2 kids (6 and 8). I think I have finally come to except that he will never marry me. I don't want that to be true, but I keep bring it up and he keeps giving me excuses. The first excuses (9 years ago) ... (215 words)

Is there any deeper meaning to his visits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Very confused, I've been off sick from work for a while now.. My marriage Has broke up.. We were married for 22 years to cut along Story short.. My HR, manager came to visit me at my Home to see when I would be returning yo work.. But my boss Came with her. ? and I ha... (181 words)

I'm pregnant and worried that boyfriend is enjoying his last bit of freedom before the baby comes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has barely talked to me at all in the past few weeks. His reasons are normally that he was at work or he was at his one friend's house. Granted, I'm happy if he is really getting as many hours as he is claiming to get considering we are expecting a child and gett... (546 words)

My wife is changing and starting to look elsewhere. Do I go along with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 September 2014 (M)

age - I enjoyed a wonderful loving relationship with my common law wife for 15 years. We always gave each other the impression that we were the only ones for each other. We never married, both figuring if it ain't broken, don't fix it. I gave her a ring the second year, and she ... (734 words)

I cheated on my wife and she won't forgive me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, everyone. This is my first time here. I would like some advice please. Ive been through hell for the past 2 weeks. I cheated on my wife. the worst mistake I could have ever make. My lovely beautiful loving wife, mother of my children. So stereotypically, With a coworker, ... (242 words)