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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My B/f knows that I have a history of depression and yet he's broken up with me, blocked me in every form and now I cant move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for two years until he decided that he couldn't be with me anymore. I have a history of depression and I think I was wearing him down. He said it's over and to him it's been over for ages before he actually said it was finished. He gave up on the ... (253 words)

I'm truly in love with my boyfriend, but he wants to join the RAF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm truly in love with my boyfriend, but he wants to join the RAF. This means we won't be able to live together, or spend time together for long periods and I hate feeling worried and upset about it, when it's his dream. I know it worries him too. We'd both be faithful and... (224 words)

I'm terrified of throwing away something which has been so great but I also don't want to cling on to something that is irreparable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A quick summary of my relationship with my boyfriend: We've been together for 4 years since we were 17 (and were friends long before that). We live in the same area, have many similar friends, lots of shared interests, he feels like part of my family and is undoubtedly my best ... (918 words)

Could the fact that the clique ignores me reflect badly on me at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - what if you have not much in common with a popular work colleague? you are queiter but you have tried,are nice, say hi, ask how they are etc, I am not rudr, they are cliquey. they dont seem to want to talk to you, not bullying you.. and you can talk work issues, work tal... (164 words)

I can't depend on him and I can't manage another baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I feel like I am in terrible dilemma. I think I'm pregnant, in fact I'm certain I am (test tomorrow) I have a 13 month old baby and am still with my partner but we're living apart at the moment. The past year has been very stressful, he is drink dependa... (399 words)

Will this change with time, or am I not cut out for long-term relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I can't stand the idea of being in a long term relationship. I like people, but not for long periods of time, I find that I need to surround myself with new faces at a constant basis. This has been going fine for me, but after dating a guy for a few weeks I realised that we... (127 words)

First date ideas???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

15 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I recently asked for a girls phone number, I work with her occasionally and we have a good working relationship. I really like her and I'm nervous about asking her out on a date I need ideas something simple and fun. Trouble is she going away in a couple of weeks and will be ... (77 words)

Am I right to set him free and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like someone I met recently...we've not known each other for too long...It has been around 2 months...BUT he's left the city we are currently staying in because he got a new and better job somewhere else. We always had a good time together and had a good physical... (271 words)

I love my boyfriend but do not see myself marrying him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years. We are both 25 now. I love him a lot but I do not see him as the person I want to marry to. There are quite some reasons for that. He has cheated on me once with his ex, and had a problem with saying no to girls who like h... (576 words)

Yet another Christmas all alone. What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - It looks like I am spending Christmas on my own this year as I am single, childless still since my divorce - so its just me and my dog! In the past I had Christmas's ruined by my ex husband and his family so now I am divorced I don't have that drama to contend with. My parents ... (226 words)

I get bored of people really easily! How can I have a functioning relationship if I can’t be with someone for more than a few hours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently I’ve realized that I tire of people very fast. I’m not much of a talkative person really, but I get incredibly lonely a lot, so I try really hard to force myself to join in with other people. Maybe a month or two back I realized that, although my friends were gre... (528 words)

I can't stand my boyfriend's lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been together just over 2 years. We're both 20 and although young can see marriage etc in the future. He's great. He's sweet and supportive and I overall a great boyfriend. The only problem that we have is, his lying. He's not an unfaithful guy, i trust 100% that he wou... (765 words)

Do I tell him I still love him? Or do I play the friend card, accept that things are how they are and try and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got back from travelling overseas for a year, and have caught up with my ex boyfrend who I was with for 2 years. We have been broken up for a year and a half. I have thought about him every day since I have been gone, he was the love of my life. We broke up because ... (366 words)

How can I get over my fear of erections/seeing women naked?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I go to a very liberal college. At this college, the pool for the dorms is actually clothing optional. I went down to the pool last night and a few friends were celebrating a birthday. For a while, it was pretty fun... At a certain point, everybody started tossing their bathing ... (285 words)

How can I let the anger towards him go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I know (or think) I don't love him anymore, but there is still anger towards him, because he didn't treat me right, partially it was my fault because I loved him and hoped one day he would love me too. We were friends, then we dated for a short time but went back to being fr... (488 words)

Am I wrong? Pot calling kettle black?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick question. Am I in the wrong and he is right? I made a off hand comment to my boyfriend that men don't share their feelings (I was talking about a friend who is a guy, he seemed in a pissie mood so I asked him what was wrong to which he said "not important"). Any... (118 words)

Is it too late to tell her that I don't think I'm ready?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3718 days ago

15 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - it's 4am and i have not slept yet. i think i am anxious. Here is my reason: i have dated my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. i am 98% sure i want to settle down with her and for this the reason, i asked her to move in with me when she got posted to do national service ... (290 words)

Am I just being jealous? Should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live 2000 miles apart! We met online. Well we talk everyday and have already told each we love and care about one another and talk about he wants me to move out there because of his building his ... (644 words)