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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I Be Annoyed With My Boyfriends Mum?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a bit annoyed with my boyfriends mum. My boyfriends brother had a kid some months ago and his mum has that kids photo on her phone as a wallpaper instead of mine. I had my baby but she has not changed the photo from being of that other kid. My boyfriend says she pr... (128 words)

Why is it easier texting than talking face to face?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - why is it easier texting and communicating via social media/email etc than talking face to face with some people? could be anyone someone you have recently met, or someone you already know. things are awkward face to face, or their maybe silences.. you talk and then you run... (161 words)

She lies because she knows my insecurity will make me overreact

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I am madly insanely in love with my girlfriend, we have been together a year, split up a few times but nothing long term and the longest was for 4 weeks we were apart. Mostly it is to do with her ex partner. I am an incredibly insecure person with trust issues. Sh... (218 words)

Torn between doing whats right by my family and my lover.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having an affair for 5 months because my boyfriend has not fulfilled certain needs however I have stayed with him to try and hold my family together as he is the father my boys (17 and 15) has known for 7 years. There has been alot of 'water under the bridge' so to ... (364 words)

Does she just want me for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I'll give you guys a brief background. I'm an emotionally needy person. I have been since my ex girlfriend of two years cheated on me. I became depressed, and still am really. I feel so emasculated. Anyways, I was on tinder and I met a girl we shall call h... (289 words)

Crazy about this woman at work ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm crazy about this woman at work. I have been for many years, and she knows it. She can seem to read my every thought while I can never seem to know what she's thinking or where I stand. Sometimes I think she's just as crazy about me, other times she seems to see me as a ... (235 words)

He wants a baby but isn't doing what's necessary to get one

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband has never had a high sex drive, but when we first got together he would always be willing whenever I wanted to, and he always enjoyed it. Now I'm lucky if I can get him to have sex with me any time after 9pm and never just because we want to. He works nights so ... (268 words)

What Am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - do you sometimes feel the entire world is against you? and nothing you do is good? Well yesterday i felt that way. First my on again off again boyfriend - we are in a long distance relationship for more than 11 years, YES long distance relationship and please don't judge me ... (492 words)

When we spend time in his country I'm basically an afterthought

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have grown apart. When we are together traveling (which we do frequently) or even staying in my country we get along great. We spend time together and have dates, watch movies, exercise together, make love and generally get along wonderfully. When we spend ... (385 words)

LDR- he needs space, am I reacting right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship with a man i met five years ago and we have been dating since march of this year. i am in love with him and i feel he is too, hes the sweetest, loving, caring and kind man i always wanted. i can be myself around him and vice versa, hes crazy ... (280 words)

Uncles, after a certain age do you find it impossible to engage with anyone new emotionally? Did you feel like that but then fell in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (M)

age - Imagine the situation. You're a man in your late 40s, you left a pretty grim, loveless marriage a couple of years ago and are now living on your own. You like the feeling of freedom, but are sexually frustrated - you think to yourself "All I need is regular sex, and then I will ... (266 words)

I feel totally invisible, old and worthless in my husband's eyes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to ask others how often it is normal for a husband to notice a wife appearance when she dresses nicely to go out or pay a compliment in a marriage. We have been married 15 years and I never remember my husband really doing this . I could count the compliments he ... (177 words)

Broke off my engagement because of a huge crush on my dentist. What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Really need some advice please. I was due to get married next year and in preparation for the wedding I decided to get my teeth straightened. The initial dentist I opted to go for couldn't fit me in so referred me to another dentist- what a huge mistake!! Don't get me... (497 words)

We both love each other but we both want to go home ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with the most amazing guy for the past 3 months . We currently work and live in the same town and get along so well it's a perfect match. However , I miss my friends and family at home so much and really want to move back there . He wouldn't come ... (230 words)

I am shattered he didn't make an effort to keep his word to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am one mad girlfriend this morning but I don't know if I can be bothered to fight. I just want some advice on the best way to handle this. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and had arranged to spend this weekend together. We went out for the... (696 words)

My boyfriend's roommate is coming between us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends roommate is coming between us! His roommate is nothing but a mooch. He eats my boyfriends food, takes his laundry supplies, doesn't help pay for heating in the winter time, and is the rudest human being I've ever met. Last winter his roommate used an electric ... (309 words)

I've done everything to be romantic, so what's the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (M)

age - I am 53 my fiance is 38 we used to make love everyday and most days 5 to 6 and as many a 10 times we used to have oral at least 2 times a week and I would love to be oral with her every time her had to have a his to hysterectomy and a back injury 3 years ago I got on the ... (239 words)

He wants to meet me but he is still married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) age 51-59 - the answer to the question why stay is because , part of me believed in him. Part is sooo scared to find out the truth. he is in the military and he lives separately from his wife because of the constant arguments. He left the city where he used to live and asked the base com... (243 words)

Please help me to cope with my loss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Grief... it's the most overwhelmingly horrible thing. I just found out that my favourite cousin was killed recently. It happened two weeks ago and, even though I just found out this morning, the details are a blur. It's hard for me to get this all out because I'm an a... (822 words)

He insists on keeping letters from ex's

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out that my bf still keeps letters from his exes. It makes me uncomfortable because I throw away things my exes give me. Of course I understand that perhaps some people are more sentimental. Yet the irony in this is that he claims that he doesn't want to ... (133 words)

Run or fight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I have sure landed myself in a situation. It all started about 7 months ago. A male friend of mine had a girl friend that I was instantly attracted to. It was clear she had feelings for me as well, even though she is straight. When we first started spending time to... (508 words)