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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it normal to express interest in other people as a married couple?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to express interest in other people as a married couple? My husband, who has always been faithful to me recently confessed that he 'liked' another woman he and I both knew several years ago. He had always denied it, but recently he made the confession and I... (473 words)

He Lied About Dating Someone - Should I Not Be Friends With Him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Last summer, I fancied a male friend (used to flirt with him a bit but nothing more than that) whom I got on with quite well. I told him I liked him, and he turned me down, saying that he was already seeing someone. There was a mutual guy friend in the room next to us who m... (266 words)

What do I do with the expensive gifts my ex gave me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

24 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - my question is very simple and small that I have broke up with my gf last night in a legal way ....now I don't know what shud I do with the expensive old gifts she gave me....should I through them out so that I cud fully forget her ... (52 words)

"Just friends" became more, which is a problem since I have a gf

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) age 30-35 - I have so many questions: am I having an affair? Am I doing the right thing? Does she think I'm using her? I should probably start with a bit of background. I've known this girl for years, always fancied her, had a mess about when we were younger and always had some kind of... (320 words)

What "red flags" am I missing here and how do I stop them without being an jerk?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

24 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have only had a few girlfriends in my life and the ones I have dump me all the time with no reason other than "I just want to be friends" or "it's not working out" or "I don't want a boyfriend". They say these things after we're already dating or in a relationship. What ... (1038 words)

After 2 months of dating should I ask him where he thinks things are headed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on a first date with a guy I'm currently seeing 2 months ago. We hit it off straight away and have been out together about 15 times since then over the last 2 months. We get on really well and there is a lot I like about him. I have spent 2 nights over at his in t... (214 words)

I like my best friend, but it's complicated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - To get straight to the point, I have a pretty big crush on my best friend, but I'm not sure how he feels. My friendship group is a quite big one - there are around 30 of us - and both my ex-boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend are in this group. Me and my ex-boyfriend are... (428 words)

I'm gay so should I purse a straight friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) age 30-35 - hi. This might take a while basically I have a boyfriend and I am gay. recently I have been having a few weird feelings towards one of our mutual straight friends. I have known him for a couple of years and always thought he was cute but straight and out of bounds. until a ... (334 words)

Why does a guy contact an ex out of the blue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - This question could just as well say why does anybody contact an ex out of the blue - I'm sure it's not just men that do this. The obvious answer is "to try and rekindle the relationship" or "to see if a bit of sex is still a possibility" But what if the guy makes no a... (680 words)

He says we aren't in a relationship so am I being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man, exclusively, for over 2 months. He lives in a town about 20kms away. I spend 3 or 4 nights a week at his place. We share his bed, kiss and cuddle, but have discussed the fact that we would wait before we have sex. We are both over 40 and have been ... (208 words)

He hasn't taken responsibility for his actions but did stop talking to her. And what do I do about my so-called friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I'm a female seeking advise on whether it's ok my husband and my best friend have been texting anywhere from 5 to 30x a day while I only get 3 texts a day from both of them over the past couple months.during which time I found out my back was broke from my injury I ... (594 words)

How do I tell my fiance and my friend that I've fallen for his girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

24 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been feeling ill with a current situation I have got myself into. I have been previously married which ended after she had an affair and got pregnant. I eventually found my current partner. I have a close friend whom I have known all my life. He has a girlfriend who he ... (312 words)

Should I make a move on my friend's brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all, I posted a question about my friend's brother not too long ago. In summary, I am a sophomore in college, he is a senior at my school, I am very good friends with his sister who is also a sophomore, and I have been interested in him for about six months or so (ever si... (357 words)

Ever since boyfriend showed me naked photos of him and his ex girlfriends things have changed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and things started out beautiful but that something beautiful is dying now. We met through an social network dating site and when we first decided to meet up, I was reluctant and scared, but I went for it anyway. That day was ... (1413 words)

Ex boyfriend's pervy behavior makes me question a reconciliation

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for many years. We've been broken up for quite awhile due to various reasons and I've been moving on fairly alright. We're no longer friends on facebook but can see certain recent activity, if we check, and we both do as we've been messaging on there ... (338 words)

I'm a crossdresser with a girlfriend relationship problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am a crossdresser and I really love doing it. I have a nice collection of clothes and shoes, etc. Mostly I have done it at home when nobody is around. My girlfriend whom I live with knows about it, and is very supportive of this whih makes my life easier with the exception ... (153 words)

My boyfriend's friend is monopolizing his time and boyfriend seems to be suffering because of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

24 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Long story short my boyfriend and I have been together for roughly 2 years. Our relationship is the kind where we spend lots of time together (every night together even though we live apart), school, groceries, getting a snack at 2 in the morning. When he hangs ou... (723 words)