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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why are people trying to match make? I enjoy flirting and dating but no exclusively. But don't want to be available for sex. Is that so difficult?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me! I am so sick of people trying to play match maker but every group of friends I've had and even random co workers and relatives and people I go to church with are always trying HARD to set me up with someone. I have had a lot of boyfriends, but I've alw... (1051 words)

I lied with a fake ID and fake photo. Now he knows the truth he's blocked me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I love a guy bt I sent him fake photos and used to speak to him using a fake id. we are in a long distance relationshp for 6 months. He is the son of my friend and her neighbour.. He knows my sister because my sister lives same place as my friend. i had wanted to tell him seve... (405 words)

I think our sex life is great! How can I show him that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys ive been with my partner for 6 years and we have a great sex life. We have sex about 9 times a week depending on how often we meet. He has a problem with premature ejaculation. However this doesnt mean he cannot satisfy me and he does almost every time (not through ... (254 words)

He's moving to another country. How do I handle losing the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) age 41-50 - So this is a really heartbreaking time for me. My OH and I have been together for almost 3 years. It was an epic love affair like in the movies, we really "get" one another and we have been through hell and back many times but we survived it all.We planned to get married next ... (384 words)

How to I talk to my parents and explain that their comments are hurtful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everybody. My issue I'm having is with my elderly parents. They are amazing people, I would say the kindest people I've ever met. They would give you every last penny they had if they thought it would make you happy. They are fantastic parents and brilliant grandp... (785 words)

Am I obligated to spell out that it's over? We haven't spoken in a month

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

26 September 2014 (?) age 30-35 - We just stopped talking to each other after an almost five year relationship. Literally. I suspected him of cheating after I found out he was going on a trip with a female co-worker and even if it was purely innocent, he never told me and this was a pattern with him. I just ... (225 words)

I have a girlfriend but want the woman I am infatuated with at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok ladies AND gents. This is a long one but please bare (bear?) with me. I have put myself in such a terrible situation and even though I know this I do not stop my actions probably due to my selfish, pig, insecurities and attitude. I don't know how to begin but I hope if I ... (446 words)

The girl I'm dating lost weight and now I don't find her as attractive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunt, I am writing to ask your advice on a difficult situation. I have recently begun a new relationship and we have been going out for about 2 months. When I first started seeing this girl, she was quite chubby and curvaceous, but since then she has lo... (135 words)

Its only been 3 days but I'm worried I'm not going to last on my job because of inadequate training

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I started a new job on Wednesday, this is my 3rd day and despite me knowing and telling myself it's only my 3rd day and things may get better, I can't shake this horrible feeling of not fitting in away. I trained at a previous organisation that wasn't particulalrly gr... (430 words)

I'm feeling uneasy about sending risque photos of myself. How do I tell him I don't want to do that anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been sexting with this guy for a little less than 2 months. It's not only sexting because we talk about our day and other stuff non-sex related on a daily basis. Lately,(and not because of anything he's done), I'm worrying about the pictures I've sent. I know I shouldn'... (169 words)

My 9 years older than me boyfriend wants to settle down have a baby and I'm not ready yet. How do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend really wants us to start trying for a baby within the next few months but I don't feel ready for a child yet, even though I adore my step daughter and love spending time with her. It's just such a commitment, and I don't think I am ready for that yet. My boyfri... (375 words)

I want to date its been 13 years but I don't want to be hurt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, I am a single mature woman my children are grown I want a relationship but I been through so much with men that did not deserve me til I don't know whether I'm going or coming .My son thinks I should leave life alone because he have seen me cry but its been 13 ... (75 words)

Why was my sister friend so rude to me and why are women so mean to each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - A few months ago my younger sister ( who lives in another state) got married, smallish amount of people around 60, at the end of the night there were buses that took us from the venue to the car park in the town where we all had parked cars or we would catch taxi to h... (385 words)

Do I send the sexy bank teller a message? He gave me his cell phone number

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, Every Friday after work I go to the local/closest bank to my job to deposit my check. I've been going there since a few months before the summer up until this day. There is this guy working there(teller) who I think is cute. We constantly make eye contact and ... (564 words)

S it normal and/or okay for a woman to want to be objectified?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) age 36-40 - I frequently fantasize about being objectified by men. I don't go out of my way for attention, meaning I never wear makeup, have never been tanning, and I don't wear provacative clothing. But sometimes I still get attention, just not nearly as much as the women who enhance ... (153 words)

If it's FWB why does he care who I date?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have been in a sexual relationship with a colleague of mine for almost a year now. Prior to anything sexual, he made it clear that he did not want any emotions or attachments to form once we had sex. He also stated that we would not be in a committed relati... (345 words)

My bf's dad doesn't treat his son right and I don't know how to handle their conflicts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with my bf's dad. I've been with my bf for about 3 yrs now and I've always heard him bash on his dad. It took me at least a yr to understand their relationship because my bf was too embarrassed to share it with me. Anyways, my bf's dad is quite arrogant and ... (309 words)

It feels like the passion is gone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently in my relationship with my long term boyfriend I've felt the passion leave our relationship. We've been together 2 years and moved in with 2 others for financial university reasons. Recently I've been feeling neglected and he doesn't show any form of affection towards ... (133 words)

I don't want him to be friends with women he used to sleep with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3709 days ago

26 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Question I'm in love with my boyfriend (of a year and a half)and we have have a great relationship besides the fact that he is really close to some female friends of his and one he is really close with that he use to date(sleep with)! He has a lot of male friends that he talks ... (216 words)