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22-25,
*lite3004
writes:I'm fond of a girl.. She is in my school and we've known each other for 5 years. I love her. Though she didn't know about this till a few months back. In grade 6, we used to sit together as our teacher had made it so.. I stood 1st then and she stood 2nd..but now we are in grade 10.. I asked her to accept a treat on my birthday.. She looked like as if she felt awkward at first but afterwards at dismissal, when i asked her again, she smilingly refused.. Now, since 1 to 2 months, she has been staring at me.. (though i'm not sure if its me) but then why would she always look in my direction? Well... I stare at her too.. I've asked one of her close friends' on facebook as to convey her that message that i like her and after a few days, that friend told me that she (my crush) already knows that.. Her friend comes online rarely. I've tried talking to my crush but she is really shy and gives objective answers and i have to drop the conversation.. but still she stares at me to date.. She'll almost talk normally talk with all the guys around but when i approach, i get only objective answers plus she doesn't even look me into the eyes while talking. What do i do now? I badly want to get her..... Moreover, she isn't on any social networking site out there...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2014): She already knows you like her. It's time to stop trying so hard. It makes girls uncomfortable sometimes knowing a boy likes her too much. They want you to like them, but not so much that you act strange; and they feel weird when you come too close.
You sent the message you like her, and her friend told you she already knows that. She just may not like you as much. Perhaps it may be common for young men these days, but you shouldn't pursue one girl too long. Many boys get very very infatuated with young girls who are distant. The more distant the girl, the more they want her. It isn't healthy.
Try paying attention to other girls sometime. She may be too shy to be around you. It gets frustrating chasing around after the same girl year after year; while she seems so shy and out of reach.
There comes a time when you need to stop and see what other girls are like. Her parents may not allow her to have company with boys just yet, and you might be making her very uncomfortable. She behaves differently with other boys because they aren't as intense around her as you are.
Stop staring at her. That is impolite, and it can be considered weird behavior. Relax and behave normally around her like the other boys. Then she may come around and it will become easier to talk to you.
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