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Archived questions from: 4 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to start talking about finances and setting boundary for this kind of situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently just got into trading and have been having some luck with the stock market. I have been updating my boyfriend on my gains and research. Last weekend when we went out, he had told me he wanted to give me a couple of grands to invest. I assumed it was the alcohol ... (165 words)

I seem to have a lot of anxiety and insecurity and worry within my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really hoping nobody will judge me but I have some problems and I don't know why this is going on with me. Please give me your honest opinions. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 1 year. We are in a long distance relationship for the most part. We have met and eve... (366 words)

Everyone has accepted us as a couple, except my dad! How do I get him to come around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

4 February 2014 (?) age 26-29 - hey guys, just need some advice. so, me and my boyfriend have been going out for some time now, and earlier this year in january we decided we wanted to tell our families. so we did. er1ryone accepted it. but there's just one person who didnt and still doesnt accept it. my ... (114 words)

How do I show my my friends that I don't have a crush on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - ok, so I sort of have a crush on a teacher nobody likes. I don't mind him, and I don't even know why I like him. Anyway, I'm the shy type of girl. In my teacher crush's class, without realising, my friends told me that I'm 'eyeing' him in class and I always get nervous and ... (232 words)

Her ex is just my type! I dream of him and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - so i made a really good friend around four years ago and ever since we got to knw eachother weve become like blood sisters and i respect her to the fullest. Around 2 years ago she met a lovely guy and within the first couple mnths of them being together she had said they had ... (225 words)

Are some people nasty or is it just me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I had this conversation with some colleagues of mine today and I really need to vent somewhere as I feel a bit upset... I have these 2 female colleagues of the same age as me approximately (around 30) and we usually have very nice and funny conversations. Ho... (379 words)

Calling all girls in long term relationships for opinions...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Please do not make any judgements or assumptions. I simply want opinions from girls in LT relationships. How would you feel if your boyfriend went travelling with a boy mate without inviting you for one month to six months? ... (40 words)

How do proceed with dating this shy older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 February 2014 (?) age 36-40 - Me and this guy have been in touch for nearly 2 months, from the first day we met. After spending loads of time talking to eachother online, we finally had our very first date the other night. He was very shy, considering him being 34 and me 25, I was quite surprised how shy he ... (346 words)

Find it hard to not get friendzoned by men. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Question for the Men on this site! Now this might sound a little bit weird and a little bit silly, but I am thinking in the next couple of years I might like a boyfriend. I have had previous boyfriends but they didn't go very w... (578 words)

I don't feel like he's pulling his weight. Am I being petty?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I’m a 42 year old successful single mother of two teenage daughters. I have been divorced for 9 years and focused all of my energy on raising my daughters alone. I own my own home, two cars and have been blessed enough to provide my children with whatever they need. I’m only ... (315 words)

Did she cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i have been together 6 months and are in love. She travels for her job and i've sacrificed a lot because of this. Currently she is across the country for 3 months. She recently went on a weekend trip w friends. It was a few girls and 2 guys one of her ... (331 words)

Can't get a job without experience, no experience without a job.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Not particularly a relationship question but its really dragging me down. I graduated from university in 2012 and haven't been able to find a job. I did a business management degree and I don;t expect to walk into a higher end job or management position, infact I don't ... (480 words)

How do I approach this girl at work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey how's it going? Thanks for reading this. I am a 23 year old male and I like this cashier from my job. She is 19 and a freshman in college. I have never spoken one word to her. I added her on facebook and I'm afraid I've already come off as an old creep. It has been a ... (135 words)

Cheating- is it always wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it ever acceptable to cheat? I'm in a marriage and very happy aside from the fact my hb and my sex drives are in completely the opposite directions mines very high and his due to medication is virtually nil, I've lived with this for over 10 years and I want more ... (177 words)

Hearing from my LDR less often

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - hello Iim a 36 year old woman in a long distance relationship with a man in new york. He has been working on moving down here since june. I really love him and he says he loves me but I feel like something is changing, he normally calls me three to four times a day, but for the ... (111 words)

Can't stop thinking about this other girl. What can I do? Then there's my Gf: am I just emotionally attached to my Gf?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

4 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I have a girlfriend been with her just over a year now. I'm not sure if I love her or if I'm emotionally attached. Secondly, there's another girl. She works with me. We both have a sexual attraction towards each other and I know she likes me. I'm sure its n... (107 words)

How do I get more affection from my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I get my girlfriend to get more physical with me? Before you decide I'm an ass, please hear me out. She goes to school with me but she is two years older and she sits by me at lunch and behind me in Algebra II. I helped her with math when she asked me to and she's funny, ... (667 words)

I'm still struggling with what happened the night after we broke up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. I'm having a hard time and could really use some guidance. A little background. I'm a gay female and have been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. I'm struggling with some resentment that I seem to be harboring and it's really beginning to weigh m... (652 words)

Dating--am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a 30 year old women living in a big city. I've had a few relationships but they tend to burn out after 6 months. It goes well, but then once things start to look like they might involve spending more than a weekend and a week night with me, I get dumped. This... (704 words)

He says he doesn't care but then he flips about me and his friend! He makes no sense! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this boy Last October (2012) when I went on a trip (1 hr and a half from where I live - a ski town). We added each other on facebook and got each others phone numbers but we didnt start hanging out until I went up there again in February and that was kind of the beginning ... (1062 words)

Should I make one last attempt to apologize to her and get her flowers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, bit of a long complicated situation. So a while back I told one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but told me that she didn't feel the same way. We still remained friends but I always felt I wanted more even though I knew ... (429 words)

I told my boyfriend I only climax occasionally. How do I fix his pride?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for over a year, and he's very experienced in bed. I am not. I've only had been with two others before him. He has a very large package and I have always either enjoyed it or have been intimidated by it. He is very thoughtful in bed but likes to get down... (381 words)

He does nice things that other guys don't do. But how do I cope with a Bf who seems emotionally numb?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. The first couple of months, I was blind to this, but I have realized that my boyfriend has no emotions/heavy lack of emotions. I have all these feelings for him, but he doesn't understand them. All of his "emotions" are ment... (120 words)

Big age difference. How should I approach him and ask where I stand in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I started a part-time job at USPS as a material handler. I'm very timid, often at times people tend to think I'm a teenager and I just started dating a 51 year old guy who's worked for USPS for many years. He lives down the street from my mother's whilst I live closer ... (198 words)

When it happens I hibernate. Makes me feel very over-self aware and like nobody likes me. What can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am usually a very sociable person with lots of friends. Every few years I feel completely ostracised by some of the people I'm with - usually when I'm in a small group. This has happened since childhood and I'm in my 30s now. Especially when I'm part of a group of three go... (253 words)

I'm having an affair and now I feel messed up, numb and lost. Plus worried about my Bf's reaction. How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont even know where to start. I met me boyfriend travelling.... he came back to my home country but recently we moved back to aus together to start a new life here. What i didnt tell him though was that i know a guy who also lives here. We lost touch years ago but i never ... (444 words)

Is there a good way to ask a guy why your dates never occur during normal "date nights" without sounding needy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a very busy post-doc research fellow for over three months now. Whenever he is with me he compliments me profusely and behaves like I am the only person he's into. He treats me well and we have fun when we're together. During the week, he texts every two or t... (500 words)

If I can't afford to do as my son has asked then how will it affect my relationship with my son and my grandson?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age - I have a 3 year old grandson who lives overseas with his Daddy who has full custody of him. The little boy does not see his mum ever due to restrictions on her. I feel very sorry for him and feel bad that I live so far away, this means I get to see him once every 2 years as... (357 words)

My ex is back in town for the week, should I see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I'm having a hard time right now and could use your advice. I dated my ex for a year, we broke up almost a year ago and he moved to a different city a few months ago, but is back in town this week. He emailed me to ask if I want to meet up. I feel very torn.... (201 words)

How do I move on, when it's clear that there will be no closure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex dumped me, a little over 3 weeks ago. He told me he loved me in a text and then disappeared. He then turned up on facebook a week later and started posting things right after me in order to provoke a response or get my attention, none of which worked. I figured he m... (643 words)

Yes he has a Gf, and yes I'm engaged. But I still have a feeling he has a bit if a crush on me. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just wanted some input from a guys perspective ideally . (Ladies, you can comment too. So I'm in my early 20s and this coworker of mine is 10 years older. He works in the same department of mine and he's a musician. A singer/songwriter and I am too. He ended up looking ... (323 words)

I need some help with talking, opening up, and nervousness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

4 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some help with talking, opening up, and nervousness? Every time I attend to approach this girl lets call her Amber I freeze up or everything I was getting ready to say just disappears. I know I like her a lot and I've been working on self improvement for a while now and ... (91 words)

I want to have the funniest most memorable 21st birthday ever!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone please give me some ideas and or places to go for my 21st birthday. Im very excited about it, I want to have the funniest most memorable birthday ever. My heart is dead set on Vegas but the only thing is most of my friends wont be 21 when I am so I am in need of a back ... (73 words)

Is he rushing me because he wants to bed me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

4 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm texting a guy who is 9 yrs older than me we've only met once and both admitted there was a strong chemistry we are planning to meet but he seems to be coming across maybe a bit too strongly. Like he's alway saying that we are pointless talking but then gets so excited ... (126 words)